Birth Certificate question

[teal]

I know how you feel with them randomly calling. Just after things ended with my ex - because I wouldn't have a termination - he would text me all the time saying how unhappy he was and how he would never be happy again. I felt sick every time I seen a message from him. I've not heard anything since then but I do worry that he'll suddenly reappear.

Kaerit21 - I just noticed you're in Scotland too - seems to be a few of us! x

 

[KaeRit21]

i ahte when mine texts. he ignored me right up til last nyt before sending a atext saying "say good nyt to baba from daddy" i very nearly burst into tears. felt like texting back you dont deserve the title asshole!!! but i was restrained and just ignored it.

teal-yep theres a few, where abouts are you in (recently very) sunny scotland?

xx

 

[lou_w34]

Thats why i hardly ever have my phone on me now, if i dont no he's called or texted then im none the wiser and much happier =)

 

[purpledahlia]

im in scotland!! We should organise a meetup once they all arrive!! (the babies - not the dads! )

The FOB got in touch today, just as i was thinking 'great, hes loosing his chance i can say fuck off' He text, he rang the bnb in the village and they have rooms but can only book a week in advance.... GREAT. so he IS coming, hmph.

I know i should be happy that he wants to be in her life but im just not??

 

[lou_w34]

I get what you mean, i want my daughter to have a father... just not him. He's already proven himself to be useless.

Maybe its because we know deep down that they are only going to be back in our lives for a lil bit, just when it suits them, and when something more important to them comes along, our children will be dropped straight away.

I spose if you really really really dont want him there, you could ask him to come down after shes born, not while its happening? Depends on how he'd take it i guess!

 

[teal]

teal-yep theres a few, where abouts are you in (recently very) sunny scotland?

I'm about 30ish miles west of Glasgow. Where abouts are you?

purpledahlia - I agree a meet up would be good!

Even though my ex hasn't been in touch I think I can understand not being happy if he decided to. I'd never be able to have him there while I was having the baby. I think you're really strong for being able to do that

 

[purpledahlia]

WEll anyway whats the chances of him being here on time? He lives in london!!!! '' hi im in labour come now.. '' it will take 2 days at least surely!? And if he comes up for my due date.. i bet it would be just karma for me to go early or overdue!! so chances are slim anyway! i think he thinks when your due they just pop out!

 

[KaeRit21]

unfortunetly mines stays less than 5 minutes away in a car. the ass. this mite sound stupid or make me sound selfish but id rather he wasnt going to be around bubs at all. that text he sent last nyt still upsets me. "daddy" PFFFTTT.
im its mummy, you were just there when i conceived numpty!

lol, yea what can he reply "oh hold on, i wont be long?" lol


Teal- im just outside of glasgow, in motherwell , yea a scottish mummy meet up sounds good to me

xxxx

 

[purpledahlia]

yeah haha! the train takes 4.5 hours anyways.. plus he will have to pack a bag.. get to the train station and get a train!! then cange in Edin and get a taxi to the hospital.. OH and BOOK A BNB!! lol. If he flies still same thing.. cant book in advance really can you?! LOL. so chances of him being here are slim. he really does think he can come up a few days before im due and then just be here when she pops out, i would blame him if he did that and i went 14 days overdue!!!

 

[KaeRit21]

even better if you go early...send him a text and go

"oh well, sorry, but bubs made an early appearance..."

xx

 

[purpledahlia]

yeah haha! i hope she does come early, but i have BAD bad hip and abck pain so im hoping i can get sweeps from 38 weeks or soemthing to move it along, agony!

 

[KaeRit21]

awww hun

if it keeps up or gets any worse as bubs gets bigger, they MIGHT induce you early anyhoo....

xxx

 

[purpledahlia]

we'll see how it goes, meeting the MW here for the first time 2m... :/ i bet shes not as nice as the one in london

 

[KaeRit21]

i think these midwives are a bit of a hit or miss...let us no how u get on PD.

ive just found out my old neighbour who was training as a midwife is working at the hosp im giving birth at. i hope shes on when i go in! (the girl who now stays next door bought her house from her and she ended helping her give birth lol)


xxx