Bonnie11
Where's the Stork?
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Hi ladies!
Bit of a moan today (is third tri anything but? ). Long story short. Failed induction last time at 37.5 due to GD and they were worried baby was getting too big. 4 pessaries, nothing happening, couldn't break waters, 4 days in hospital before a c section in the end. Swore blind I would never be induced again but here we are..
This time around GD has been insulin controlled (not well controlled I may add but getting there!), I have mild polyhydramnios, baby is starting to grow on the larger side but they are not too concerned as it's within ok levels, SPD. So with a VBaC only induction I can have is sweeps which did nothing for me last time. Saw the consultant today and he wants me to have a section at 38 weeks. If I insist on a VBaC he will sweep me from 38 weeks and see what happens but he wasn't hopeful as if I need the hormone drip then he said chances of having a VBaC are best if you go into labour naturally and once they start inducing by any means your chance of emcs are much higher. With insulin controlled as well the chances of still birth /placental problems after 38 weeks increase a lot and he wouldn't want me to go much past 38 weeks, maybe push to 39.
So now honestly I don't know what to do. I had my absolute heart set on a VBaC but the thought of an emcs is terrifying, would rather have a planned. I feel like I'm being silly taking any risks at all and should just have a section at 38 but I really really want to go naturally. My husband doesn't really understand why I don't have the section and I think he thinks I'm putting the baby at risk (which I guess is true) when I don't need to just because I want a natural birth.
I just don't know what to do, I have another appt in 3 weeks where he wants to make a firm plan so I guess I will see where I am in 3 weeks time but I want to at least have an idea so I don't get pushed into anything I don't want. I'm so confused!! 😫😫😫
Sorry for ramble ladies, my head is spinning with all the decisions!
Bit of a moan today (is third tri anything but? ). Long story short. Failed induction last time at 37.5 due to GD and they were worried baby was getting too big. 4 pessaries, nothing happening, couldn't break waters, 4 days in hospital before a c section in the end. Swore blind I would never be induced again but here we are..
This time around GD has been insulin controlled (not well controlled I may add but getting there!), I have mild polyhydramnios, baby is starting to grow on the larger side but they are not too concerned as it's within ok levels, SPD. So with a VBaC only induction I can have is sweeps which did nothing for me last time. Saw the consultant today and he wants me to have a section at 38 weeks. If I insist on a VBaC he will sweep me from 38 weeks and see what happens but he wasn't hopeful as if I need the hormone drip then he said chances of having a VBaC are best if you go into labour naturally and once they start inducing by any means your chance of emcs are much higher. With insulin controlled as well the chances of still birth /placental problems after 38 weeks increase a lot and he wouldn't want me to go much past 38 weeks, maybe push to 39.
So now honestly I don't know what to do. I had my absolute heart set on a VBaC but the thought of an emcs is terrifying, would rather have a planned. I feel like I'm being silly taking any risks at all and should just have a section at 38 but I really really want to go naturally. My husband doesn't really understand why I don't have the section and I think he thinks I'm putting the baby at risk (which I guess is true) when I don't need to just because I want a natural birth.
I just don't know what to do, I have another appt in 3 weeks where he wants to make a firm plan so I guess I will see where I am in 3 weeks time but I want to at least have an idea so I don't get pushed into anything I don't want. I'm so confused!! 😫😫😫
Sorry for ramble ladies, my head is spinning with all the decisions!