Jamiesmummy22
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Ok so not sure where to post this... basically my ex boyfriend (not baby’s father) brutally assaulted me in front of my young son last December leaving me with injuries requiring hospital treatment and a few weeks off work with a swollen face from where I was punched, bad tendon and nerve damage in my hand from pushing him off me whilst he was trying to strangle and bite me. He went on the run and police got him a few days after... he pleaded not guilty and stupidly the courts granted him bail until trial earlier this year... which he breached his bail conditions and failed to show for. A second court date was made whils he again breached and failed to show. He went on the run again for 6 months set up a new life with his new girlfriend... fortunately he was caught just a few days ago and went to court and it was decided he be held in prison until trial at end of November. I will be around 18 weeks pregnant then and a bit worried and stressed about being interrogated by his lawyer. There is 2 witnesses to this case 3 including myself. I’m wondering if anyone has had any experience of attending court as a witness whilst pregnant? A friend had said I may not need to go with me being pregnant and putting extra stress on the baby etc anyone know if this is true? I don’t mind going and if I have to I have to but if it can be avoided, it’s probably better for the baby. It was obviously a very traumatic time and I did suffer from with really bad anxiety/panic attacks after the assault for months and was put on medication, it’s only in the last few months I have overcome all this and began to move forward. Any advice would be helpful x