Bridesmaids...

[honeybee2]

EEEEEK! that girl has some issues!

 

[MissMummyMoo]

Yup! She is a bit a slapper

Anyway at least you don't have that sort of problem Toria! x

 

[Serene123]

Verrrry true!! I feel stressed already and we're not even properly engaged yet

 

[AppleBlossom]

I didn't even know you were engaged

I would just choose your closest friends/sisters. I think anymore than 6 bridesmaids is too many. Also Miss Caitlyn too!

 

[Serene123]

I didn't even know you were engaged

I would just choose your closest friends/sisters. I think anymore than 6 bridesmaids is too many. Also Miss Caitlyn too!

Well, we are but.. not officially until I have my ring in a couple months

 

[honeybee2]

I didn't even know you were engaged

I would just choose your closest friends/sisters. I think anymore than 6 bridesmaids is too many. Also Miss Caitlyn too!

i have 8


5 adult, 3 flower girls.


Its a good job I'm not paying for the adult dresses, they get pricey! When they agreed to be BM (they were wishing & hoping I'd ask) they also agreed to purhcase their own dresses. Not expenisve ones, but something from monsoon or something. They didn't care as long as they got to be BM

 

[jellytot]

i have 3 bridesmaids and 2 flower girls my moh is my best friend and louise who is a very good friend, my cousin charlotte who will be 10, my moh niece mia who will be 5 and a good friends little girl jessica who will be 2
the 2 adult bridesmaids are paying to have there hair done and accessories and i am paying for my cousin and 2 flower girls, my mum is paying for me to have my hair done, and highlighted a week or so before

 

[honeybee2]

ooooo! I'm paying for the girls accessories which will double up as a present to them. Probably some earings, a necklace & hair accessory. The flower girls have each got a headband and some cute little white gloves which i fell in love with. Ill buy them a necklace to wear also. My aunty who is a hairdresser is doing all the bridesmaids & flower girls hair as a wedding present, I'm having a local hair salon do mine so I feel pampered and my friend who is a beautician is doing mine and all the BM's make up- a little blusher for the flower girls too

 

[BabyQ]

Heehee i'm worse, I'm not having any bridesmaids!

Just my big sis as maid of honour. My fella has little half sisters, but they live far away, as do all my friends - they are dotted all over the UK! His mum is tight so she will expect us to pay for the dresses if they are bridesmaids - another reason not to do it lol! I think they're just 'expecting' to be bridesmaids so i'm just going to have to tell them it's not that sort of wedding, we're not getting married in a church, just an old hall with a marquee too. I don't want matching colours or family group photos (his family are divorced - and don't talk - (it's quite hard) i just want a lovely laid back day.

 

[EstelSeren]

I had a male moh, one adult bridesmaid, my cousin as a young bridesmaid and my neice as flowergirl. None of my friends presumed to ask! I can't believe people are doing that! So rude!

If I had everyone I wanted involved in the wedding as bridesmaids it would have made up half our guest list! So I found other things for them to do to help out because I wanted them involved and not because they asked! Seriously, if they'd asked to be in the wedding party then they probably wouldn't have been involved at all and only invited to the evening!

Beca :wave:

 

[Feltzy]

I wasn't going to have bridesmaids because of this problem, I just don't know who to choose without making someone feel left out. Thankfully no-one has asked me outright, I think thats a bit cheeky! I've decided in the last couple of days though that I do really want adult bridesmaids as well as my 2 flower girls so I'm going to go for it and try not to worry. I've asked my closest friend to be moh, and another close friend to be bm. I also have a friend who I was really close to growing up, we were like sisters so I feel like I should really ask her, but we haven't seen eachother for about 3 years! Really I would like to ask OH's sister and have 3 adult bm's and 2 flower girls but I don't feel I can do that without making OH's brothers gf feel left out as we are all close, so I might just stick with the two I have asked.

 

[honeybee2]

i cant wait to round my BM's up for dress fittings etc

 

[KA92]

im having two adult BM i think-my sister and my best mate ash. Iv had girls who i hardly talk to beg to be my BM :S.

I dont know anyone with a younger girl-unless i count my cousin but shed be 14 at the time so shed possibly be another BM.

I already know my MOH will be my mums partner. And i have a page boy...but hes 8 months old right now-hel be 3 and a half when the wedding happens.

i dont really care to be honest...its my weddin il have whoever the feck i want there and a part of it
xx

 

[honeybee2]

well said KA92!

 

[aly888]

I was havin a similar problem (although not on the same scale) and I know a couple of people were 'expecting' to be asked...but no-one asked me out right if they could be my bridesmaid you are just too popular hun

If they keep asking just say something like "I wish, but i've already got all the bridesmaids we can afford" or something like that xx

 

[KA92]

honeybee2...im pretty much striaght talking...i dont see the point in trying to be nice (clearly!) xx

 

[honeybee2]

lmao- i can see we'll get on well then haha!

 

[KA92]

yyyuuuuppp xxx