Iveneverseen
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So we are regular customers at a soft play place, we have a membership and have been going 2-3times a week for the past 6 years.
Never had a problem there until yesterday. Myself, my best friend, her little girl and my three children all went to the soft play.
Not long after arriving my 9 year old daughter came up crying and saying these 4 girls had been ganging up on her one punched her on the forehead and were calling her nasty names.
I told her to go back and play and me and my friend would walk slowly behind her and keep an eye on things should anything happen again.
whilst we were doing this the 4 girls were being nasty staring at her in a horrid way calling her a bitch, following her around and running back and forth to their parents.
soon after this my friend was next to my daughter when one girl had grabbed her hair and yanked it so hard she was distraught and was in tears, and held her head for quite a while after.
my friend told me and we both were very angry, they ran back to their parents and my friend followed and asked where their parents where.
I followed my friend. my friend went up to the father and told him what had happened and the little girls were denying it and my friend said she seen it and one said I was there too. the father just shrugged and walked off not caring.
we were both annoyed and the mother stormed up and spoke to my friend, then she came back and was saying she believed her daughters and wasn't taking any responsibility or showing any remorse for her kids actions. she also claimed one of her little angels said that my friend went to smack her child which was an absolute lie. I was there and my friend would never hit a child.
so we were both really annoyed and we had words, the staff got involved and we went to sit down and speak to the manager and she asked us not to leave and said their behaviour was unacceptable and offered us a free drink.
she also spoke to them and came back to us. she told us she was going to look at the cctv and that the kids were now saying my friend never went to smack them.
the family left soon after the mother staring over at us with the filthiest looks.
my daughter never went back in to the play area still shaken up and holding her head.
today I had spoke to the manager through private mail and she hadn't yet looked at cctv and said she would get back to me on Monday but didn't seem like she was that bothered or really saw the seriousness in the situation. she also offered to cancel my membership if I wanted.
I chat to one of the staff that also work with her and she told me today that the manager had said that they seemed a lovely family and offered them a free entry on Monday as a goodwill gesture and she had the impression I was in the wrong.
also I may mention that these people are not regulars and in fact have only ever been twice. (and their kids are causing havoc)
I am really upset, angry and disappointed in this.
not only was my daughter bullied, punched in the head and hair pulled, my friend was accused of something she didn't do. and the parents and management accept no responsibility for this.
I am really unsure what to do about it. i think that her giving them free entry on Monday is showing them a good message and a good will gesture for what they are the ones that assaulted my child and accused my friend of something she did not do.
Never had a problem there until yesterday. Myself, my best friend, her little girl and my three children all went to the soft play.
Not long after arriving my 9 year old daughter came up crying and saying these 4 girls had been ganging up on her one punched her on the forehead and were calling her nasty names.
I told her to go back and play and me and my friend would walk slowly behind her and keep an eye on things should anything happen again.
whilst we were doing this the 4 girls were being nasty staring at her in a horrid way calling her a bitch, following her around and running back and forth to their parents.
soon after this my friend was next to my daughter when one girl had grabbed her hair and yanked it so hard she was distraught and was in tears, and held her head for quite a while after.
my friend told me and we both were very angry, they ran back to their parents and my friend followed and asked where their parents where.
I followed my friend. my friend went up to the father and told him what had happened and the little girls were denying it and my friend said she seen it and one said I was there too. the father just shrugged and walked off not caring.
we were both annoyed and the mother stormed up and spoke to my friend, then she came back and was saying she believed her daughters and wasn't taking any responsibility or showing any remorse for her kids actions. she also claimed one of her little angels said that my friend went to smack her child which was an absolute lie. I was there and my friend would never hit a child.
so we were both really annoyed and we had words, the staff got involved and we went to sit down and speak to the manager and she asked us not to leave and said their behaviour was unacceptable and offered us a free drink.
she also spoke to them and came back to us. she told us she was going to look at the cctv and that the kids were now saying my friend never went to smack them.
the family left soon after the mother staring over at us with the filthiest looks.
my daughter never went back in to the play area still shaken up and holding her head.
today I had spoke to the manager through private mail and she hadn't yet looked at cctv and said she would get back to me on Monday but didn't seem like she was that bothered or really saw the seriousness in the situation. she also offered to cancel my membership if I wanted.
I chat to one of the staff that also work with her and she told me today that the manager had said that they seemed a lovely family and offered them a free entry on Monday as a goodwill gesture and she had the impression I was in the wrong.
also I may mention that these people are not regulars and in fact have only ever been twice. (and their kids are causing havoc)
I am really upset, angry and disappointed in this.
not only was my daughter bullied, punched in the head and hair pulled, my friend was accused of something she didn't do. and the parents and management accept no responsibility for this.
I am really unsure what to do about it. i think that her giving them free entry on Monday is showing them a good message and a good will gesture for what they are the ones that assaulted my child and accused my friend of something she did not do.