Buying bits and pieces for bubs isn't going to cause you to have a miscarriage (sorry if that sounds blunt, just the best way I could put it!!!)
Whatever will be will be and if something's going to happen it will, whether to splash a little on some bits and pieces or not!
Personally I just bought a few bits and pieces from on here (literally when I was like 5/6 weeks or something...) to get me started (only got to see them for the first time when I arrived in the UK on Tuesday!! Like an early Christmas!!
) including some bundles of newborn stuff, some outfits I really liked and some cloth nappies. Oh...and a couple of toys!!
The way I see it, apart from whatever will be will be, we're planning on having kids anyway, so if something happens with this baby (please stay put Bubs though!!!) we can always use this stuff in future...and because it was cheaper and second hand, we can just sell it on otherwise.
We're waiting to get bigger stuff though, but mainly because DH is building the furniture and we just spent a LOT on flights to the UK.
xx