I have tons and tons of help at home. My OH is off work, I have my parents, OH's parents, 2 sets of grandparents and 2 aunties all eager and not working around that time. I'd have someone there to wipe my bum if I needed it haha.
I'm going to discuss it before the section. And afterwards. And make sure everyone I come into contact with knows how important it is to me to escape.
My priority is a healthy me and a healthy baby. It's really reassuring to know that it is possible though.