I am technically not 2nd Tri. I found out at 11 weeks, close, but not quite 2nd Tri.
I posted in the Miscarriage support thread, but I think I may have offended some of them as the replies have been minimal. I have had 3 losses including this one, the last was at like 5 weeks, and I said that this one is so much worse than that one, and it's obvious I'm the minority in this belief. I just believe the further along you are, the more painful it is. I understand their feelings, if you have only ever experienced a very early loss, you have nothing to compare it to. It's hard to understand that the pain can be worse, when it's so encompassing. Suffice it to say, I'm not feeling largely understood, there, but I get it.
Being as far as I was, but not quite over the hump to first tri, I'm a bit in the middle. I feel at a loss and like I really don't belong in either place.
I posted in the Miscarriage support thread, but I think I may have offended some of them as the replies have been minimal. I have had 3 losses including this one, the last was at like 5 weeks, and I said that this one is so much worse than that one, and it's obvious I'm the minority in this belief. I just believe the further along you are, the more painful it is. I understand their feelings, if you have only ever experienced a very early loss, you have nothing to compare it to. It's hard to understand that the pain can be worse, when it's so encompassing. Suffice it to say, I'm not feeling largely understood, there, but I get it.
Being as far as I was, but not quite over the hump to first tri, I'm a bit in the middle. I feel at a loss and like I really don't belong in either place.