Can I join you ladies?

[HCas]

It went great. All my work came back perfect and both my tubes are wide open. DH's came back above average as well. So our only problem is ovulation. I'm waiting for some blood work to come back to see where to go now. We will either be starting Fermera or a medicine to kick start AF in the next two weeks. It's so exciting!

 

[KatO79]

It went great. All my work came back perfect and both my tubes are wide open. DH's came back above average as well. So our only problem is ovulation. I'm waiting for some blood work to come back to see where to go now. We will either be starting Fermera or a medicine to kick start AF in the next two weeks. It's so exciting!

Wow what great news you got, aside from your Oing problem that is Seems your DH got great news as well It's so nice to hear the situation isn't hopeless. You must be so happy right now

What blood work are you still waiting for?

Sounds good to me, will they kick start you before Christmas then?

 

[HCas]

The blood work is just to see where in the cycle I am. If I'm not too far along they plan on starting me on Fermera before the holidays. If I'm a decent way in they will be kickstarting me in the next week. This feels amazing.

For a year now everyone has been telling me the likely hood of me having a biological baby was very slim due to how many health problems I have. Even my mom took me aside on many occasions and told me not to get too excited about the chances. So being able to tell them all that I'm perfectly capable of having a child and should be expecting in time to have a 2015 baby is amazing. ^^

 

[KatO79]

The blood work is just to see where in the cycle I am. If I'm not too far along they plan on starting me on Fermera before the holidays. If I'm a decent way in they will be kickstarting me in the next week. This feels amazing.

For a year now everyone has been telling me the likely hood of me having a biological baby was very slim due to how many health problems I have. Even my mom took me aside on many occasions and told me not to get too excited about the chances. So being able to tell them all that I'm perfectly capable of having a child and should be expecting in time to have a 2015 baby is amazing. ^^

Ah I see. Here's hoping they can start you

Wow, don't know why your family was being so negative about it and actually trying to tell you that you're chances were so awful People in my family have acted more in the opposite direction. My MIL has been telling me to "relax and you'll get preggo immediately" while my narcissistic mother has been "I had no problems conceiving my 6 children whom I regret having, what's you're problem?" kinda thing.

Here's hoping we both get our 2015 BFPs at the start of the year

 

[HCas]

Yes! And then we can be bump buddies.

I think this is the most excited I've been for a new year in a long time.

 

[KatO79]

Yes! And then we can be bump buddies.

I think this is the most excited I've been for a new year in a long time.

Sounds like a great plan to me

I'm also excited for a new year, it'll be great to get the ball rolling and start IUI. Never thought I'd be looking forward to be injecting myself with hormones and getting ultrasounds with that horrible probe up in me but I am

 

[HCas]

I'm with you there. I start doing all that most likely next week every week until o. The things we do for our babies XD At least they'll never be able to say we didn't want them.

 

[KatO79]

I'm with you there. I start doing all that most likely next week every week until o. The things we do for our babies XD At least they'll never be able to say we didn't want them.

Lucky

Can they reach it before Christmas though? My clinic didn't want to do anything because of the holidays and are closed. I've now found out what days they are closed and it doesn't look like it's the whole week, just between the 24th and 26th plus of course January 1st and will only be open to a very limited extent in between.

So will they only be monitoring you while giving you Femara? Or are you starting any form of assisted conception?

No they can't Don't know what I'd do if my child dares to say such a thing

 

[HCas]

Just Fermera for now. They wanna make sure it takes before trying anything else. If after a few cycles or it they'll try Clomid then go into more "aggressive" forms.

 

[KatO79]

Just Fermera for now. They wanna make sure it takes before trying anything else. If after a few cycles or it they'll try Clomid then go into more "aggressive" forms.

Ok I can see that'd be good for them to know Here's hoping it works

It's interesting to hear the differences in the Danish system and how it works in other countries. Here they don't try Clomid or anything, it's straight to IUI or IVF and the REs recommend people, almost to the point of practically saying they have to, to take injectable hormones as the success rates are higher which is what we're planning on doing. Wonder why they don't try Fermera, Clomid or the like in Denmark but they don't

 

[HCas]

It is strange to see the differences. I know my RE said he wanted to try Fermera before anything else was because we are young and healthy and our only problem is oing. So he saw no reason to try anything more aggressive. He said it also helps that Roger has great states as well XD

 

[KatO79]

It is strange to see the differences. I know my RE said he wanted to try Fermera before anything else was because we are young and healthy and our only problem is oing. So he saw no reason to try anything more aggressive. He said it also helps that Roger has great states as well XD

Yes it is, would like to know why the Danes don't try things like this

I can see your RE's argument though. Me and DH aren't ...errr.... so young anymore so we probably need more drastic measures anyway if it's going to happen before I hit 40 I remember my old goal was at latest 35 when I had the baby and had to push that goal to 36 (which I'll turn in May) some months ago when I found out how problematic conceiving is for us, despite the fact that I am apparently Oing and our RE didn't mention any worries about my egg quality Also, DH doesn't have Roger's stellar results

But I feel positive about our chances with IUI since they put directly up in the uterus somewhere between 50 and 100 times more than would get up there if we let nature take it's course normally. They are of course washed and the bad ones weeded out. I fear that almost none are finding there way up there at the moment because I'm starting to think my CM is not good enough Conceive Plus hasn't helped us yet. Only giving it one more try before I drop it as it's expensive to order from the UK.

 

[HCas]

I'm sorry. Hopefully you get it the first time with IUI though.

It's kinda funny your birthday is in May because that's when the baby is due XD

 

[KatO79]

I'm sorry. Hopefully you get it the first time with IUI though.

It's kinda funny your birthday is in May because that's when the baby is due XD

That's what DH and I are hoping Think I read somewhere that chances for a bfp are highest in the first 3 chances and the absolute highest chance of success should be the 1st one. Would be great if it happens

Wow, fun coincidence. My birthday is May 1st It's a bad day in this country as it's Labor Day and everyone is only thinking about having the day off (mostly blue collar workers), the young(er) people go to Fælledparken and listen to politicians giving speeches and drink beer Do you know what day is the due date?

 

[HCas]

The baby is due May 24th however since my sister has already had two C sections she'll also be having one for this baby so he'll be born the week before. And my nephew's birthday is the 13th so it'll be probably around the 17th so she's not in the hospital for his.

 

[KatO79]

The baby is due May 24th however since my sister has already had two C sections she'll also be having one for this baby so he'll be born the week before. And my nephew's birthday is the 13th so it'll be probably around the 17th so she's not in the hospital for his.

Funny, if the baby comes around the 17th, that's very close to my bratty and super spoiled nephew's birthday (he's my eldest brother-in-law's son), who has the 16th

Wow 2 C sections and a 3rd in the future Those don't sound pleasant. I'd only have one if it was absolutely necessary of course. But I don't know why some women actually prefer C sections and order them in advance. I'm sure with your sister she has a reason (some women do) but there are women who prefer them and don't want to give birth vaginally. My mother had one with me and she says it's much worse afterwards because of the pain you have for weeks afterwards so it's actually better to give birth vaginally as in the end it means less pain.

 

[HCas]

My sister thought there'd be less pain doing a C-section. She refused to give birth vaginally with my niece. And once you have a C section once its dangerous to do it vaginally in later pregnancies. My sister choose this though because she thought it would be better than going into labor. Still does.

 

[KatO79]

My sister thought there'd be less pain doing a C-section. She refused to give birth vaginally with my niece. And once you have a C section once its dangerous to do it vaginally in later pregnancies. My sister choose this though because she thought it would be better than going into labor. Still does.

Wow

My mother has had 6 kids and I was the only one she had via C section (I was her lastborn). She said it was much more painful with a C section as the pain lasts for weeks afterwards where as you're in pain for hours during labor but afterwards, there isn't any pain.

I guess if it's dangerous now for your sister to do so, then she should get a C section again. But I really think they should only perform C sections on women that have a really good medical excuse like if it endangers either the mother's or baby's life, or even both, to deliver vaginally.

I will definitely be going with a vaginal birth unless it becomes dangerous for either my own or my child's life.

Here's hoping it goes well though

 

[HCas]

I agree. I plan on doing it vaginal as well. My sister mainly chose that way because of our mom's horror story. When she was in labor with my sister she went 42 hours of labor without any pain killer because she didn't have insurance and tore badly. She was then kicked out of the hospital and had to drive from one state to another in tons of pain with a newborn. With me she had a C section because I had the umbilical cord around my neck. The next day she was up and walking about with very little pain.

 

[KatO79]

I agree. I plan on doing it vaginal as well. My sister mainly chose that way because of our mom's horror story. When she was in labor with my sister she went 42 hours of labor without any pain killer because she didn't have insurance and tore badly. She was then kicked out of the hospital and had to drive from one state to another in tons of pain with a newborn. With me she had a C section because I had the umbilical cord around my neck. The next day she was up and walking about with very little pain.

Wow, sounds strange they'd kick her out. Don't they normally sew you up if you tear

I can better understand that your mother needed a C section with you, your life was in danger so totally makes sense to have a C section.

But your sister knows she can get a pain killer right, an epidural? I plan on having one myself, not into the whole completely natural birth thing although my DH isn't much for the idea He's afraid I'll be too drugged up to enjoy seeing our baby for the first time But it's not him that's going to have to press out a baby out of a certain tiny hole so if he was giving birth, he'd be free to choose pain killers or not