Hi ladies,
Hope you don't mind me popping over from 3rd tri forum. I just want to share my story since it has to do with this.
For two cycles before I got my bfp, we used preseed, and no bfp. We took the month off from trying that i actually got my bfp to go on vacation. I wanted to drink on my trip without having to worrying if I was pregnant or not.
Everytime we BD'd the month I got pregnant, we did the following things:
1. He gave me oral sex immediately before
2. We used KY
3. He used the pull-out method
SO, not much sperm could have gotten inside me either time we did it. The little bit that did was obviously not killed by the saliva or the KY. I honestly think the reason that time was so successful though, is that I actually didn't stress out during that ovulation period about getting my bfp. Since we took the month off, I was able to be much less stressed-out and have my mind on just having a good time with my partner.
Sorry to intrude on the post... hope it doesn't offend Anyone. but I hope this might help or encourage someone to know that sometimes it might be better not to do everything by the book.
Big heaps of Babydust to you all!