Can smell weed from the neighbours, will LO be ok?

[Eve]

Oh One more thing......


I would rather see my child when older smoke pot than become addicted to prescription paid medications... like his biological father did. My son right now is on a medication that cases large amounts of weight gain and diabetes, tremors, etc... look up Risperidone and the side effects. If he were older and marijuana could help him without all of those side effects I would sure rather him do it. I would put my son's best interests before my pride or ignorance any day. I know people who had injuries, became addicted physically to pain meds and ended up shooting up etc... because of Codiene! My son's biological father went in and out of jail, tried to commit suicide numerous time, abandonded his son because of pain medication originally prescribed for a shattered heel.... not pot.

When my OH stopped smoking it as he planned to join the armed forces, he stopped... that was that. I'm sure he missed it, lol but had no physical withdrawl symptoms, yet someone from pain medication after a few weeks of needing it could need weaned off slowly with methadone treatment. A LOT more people become addicted to pain medication than marijuana and it's A LOT harder to get off it than marijuana.

I also smoked it in my high school years, but wasn't addicted... every now and then I would smoke one with friends... You can drink without being an alcoholic cant you?

 

[xbabybumpx]

Oh One more thing......


I would rather see my child when older smoke pot than become addicted to prescription paid medications... like his biological father did. My son right now is on a medication that cases large amounts of weight gain and diabetes, tremors, etc... look up Risperidone and the side effects. If he were older and marijuana could help him without all of those side effects I would sure rather him do it. I would put my son's best interests before my pride or ignorance any day. I know people who had injuries, became addicted physically to pain meds and ended up shooting up etc... because of Codiene! My son's biological father went in and out of jail, tried to commit suicide numerous time, abandonded his son because of pain medication originally prescribed for a shattered heel.... not pot.

When my OH stopped smoking it as he planned to join the armed forces, he stopped... that was that. I'm sure he missed it, lol but had no physical withdrawl symptoms, yet someone from pain medication after a few weeks of needing it could need weaned off slowly with methadone treatment. A LOT more people become addicted to pain medication than marijuana and it's A LOT harder to get off it than marijuana.

I also smoked it in my high school years, but wasn't addicted... every now and then I would smoke one with friends... You can drink without being an alcoholic cant you?

 

[Eve]

Some people think cannibis is acceptable,some dont. Just accept it cos this is starting to do my nut in now

I really think that most people would not be smoking it for medicinal reasons, so I don't think that is a fair arguement

I am pro weed, but anyways, did you go talk to your neighbor?

How can anyone be pro weed? That is just bad

And you are rude!

im rude because im against drugs?

No you are rude because you are rude...

Why don't you accept that some people are "pro-weed" since you think we should accpet you are against it...? Take your own advice hun.

 

[Eve]

Oh One more thing......


I would rather see my child when older smoke pot than become addicted to prescription paid medications... like his biological father did. My son right now is on a medication that cases large amounts of weight gain and diabetes, tremors, etc... look up Risperidone and the side effects. If he were older and marijuana could help him without all of those side effects I would sure rather him do it. I would put my son's best interests before my pride or ignorance any day. I know people who had injuries, became addicted physically to pain meds and ended up shooting up etc... because of Codiene! My son's biological father went in and out of jail, tried to commit suicide numerous time, abandonded his son because of pain medication originally prescribed for a shattered heel.... not pot.

When my OH stopped smoking it as he planned to join the armed forces, he stopped... that was that. I'm sure he missed it, lol but had no physical withdrawl symptoms, yet someone from pain medication after a few weeks of needing it could need weaned off slowly with methadone treatment. A LOT more people become addicted to pain medication than marijuana and it's A LOT harder to get off it than marijuana.

I also smoked it in my high school years, but wasn't addicted... every now and then I would smoke one with friends... You can drink without being an alcoholic cant you?

What? I don't understand

 

[Eve]

I know not everyone believe marijuana can be a good thing for some people, even though scientific studies show it can be very helpful in treating certain symptoms. I know lots of people wouldn't ever do it, and think it's bad. I know and understand that, it just bothers me when I feel like my OH is being judged by one small thing he does which doesn't and isn't hurting anyone...

 

[xbabybumpx]

I know not everyone believe marijuana can be a good thing for some people, even though scientific studies show it can be very helpful in treating certain symptoms. I know lots of people wouldn't ever do it, and think it's bad. I know and understand that, it just bothers me when I feel like my OH is being judged by one small thing he does which doesn't and isn't hurting anyone...

does it not worry you that sooner or later your child will realise that your oh smokes pot? how are you gonna explain that? you cant hide stuff from your kids very long

 

[aob1013]

Backed up by studies or not it's illegal and tbh i think you will find most people would judge your OH for it, myself included as i find drugs just vile ... and i am not sure how you allow drugs to be around your kids (i don't mean drugs lying about, i mean your OH doing it, how it affects people, and that they monry he spends on drugs could be better spent elsewhere, like say on your childrens toys, school stuff etc, you get my drift)

I am just genuinely lost that some people think it's ok ............. it's scary

 

[aob1013]

I know not everyone believe marijuana can be a good thing for some people, even though scientific studies show it can be very helpful in treating certain symptoms. I know lots of people wouldn't ever do it, and think it's bad. I know and understand that, it just bothers me when I feel like my OH is being judged by one small thing he does which doesn't and isn't hurting anyone...

does it not worry you that sooner or later your child will realise that your oh smokes pot? how are you gonna explain that? you cant hide stuff from your kids very long

 

[xbabybumpx]

Apprantly also smoking pot and then driving is worse then drink driving. Its funny how people only read the "good" reveiws on pot and not the negative

 

[Feltzy]

I know not everyone believe marijuana can be a good thing for some people, even though scientific studies show it can be very helpful in treating certain symptoms. I know lots of people wouldn't ever do it, and think it's bad. I know and understand that, it just bothers me when I feel like my OH is being judged by one small thing he does which doesn't and isn't hurting anyone...

It doesn't matter what others think hun, alcohol and tobacco are WAY more dangerous than marijuana but plenty of people take these drugs without any judgement.

 

[xbabybumpx]

I know not everyone believe marijuana can be a good thing for some people, even though scientific studies show it can be very helpful in treating certain symptoms. I know lots of people wouldn't ever do it, and think it's bad. I know and understand that, it just bothers me when I feel like my OH is being judged by one small thing he does which doesn't and isn't hurting anyone...

It doesn't matter what others think hun, alcohol and tobacco are WAY more dangerous than marijuana but plenty of people take these drugs without any judgement.

Dont worry, her oh smokes cigs too!

 

[Janiepops]

Backed up by studies or not it's illegal and tbh i think you will find most people would judge your OH for it, myself included as i find drugs just vile ... and i am not sure how you allow drugs to be around your kids (i don't mean drugs lying about, i mean your OH doing it, how it affects people, and that they monry he spends on drugs could be better spent elsewhere, like say on your childrens toys, school stuff etc, you get my drift)

I am just genuinely lost that some people think it's ok ............. it's scary

Ok I'm back again. With a situation. Do you/would you take your child to a party - a wedding or something similar? Are there drunk people at parties? Is drink not the biggest factor in folk fighting, turning into vile people? Have you ever drank? Could that money not have been better spent elsewhere? You could too be judged for this. Forgive me if you've never had a drink though, I don't mean to presume.
People say they have a drink to relax. People smoke pot to relax too. I am NOT condoning it's use around children, but I also think children should not be exposed to alcohol use either. But it happens! That's life I'm afraid.

 

[xbabybumpx]

I know not everyone believe marijuana can be a good thing for some people, even though scientific studies show it can be very helpful in treating certain symptoms. I know lots of people wouldn't ever do it, and think it's bad. I know and understand that, it just bothers me when I feel like my OH is being judged by one small thing he does which doesn't and isn't hurting anyone...

It doesn't matter what others think hun, alcohol and tobacco are WAY more dangerous than marijuana but plenty of people take these drugs without any judgement.

people do get judged for smoking cigs

 

[Janiepops]

Apprantly also smoking pot and then driving is worse then drink driving. Its funny how people only read the "good" reveiws on pot and not the negative

Who said anything about driving when smoking pot?!?! You're just looking for arguments now.
and reviews??? WAit til I get my copy of Which out and see what they say

 

[aob1013]

Backed up by studies or not it's illegal and tbh i think you will find most people would judge your OH for it, myself included as i find drugs just vile ... and i am not sure how you allow drugs to be around your kids (i don't mean drugs lying about, i mean your OH doing it, how it affects people, and that they monry he spends on drugs could be better spent elsewhere, like say on your childrens toys, school stuff etc, you get my drift)

I am just genuinely lost that some people think it's ok ............. it's scary

Ok I'm back again. With a situation. Do you/would you take your child to a party - a wedding or something similar? Are there drunk people at parties? Is drink not the biggest factor in folk fighting, turning into vile people? Have you ever drank? Could that money not have been better spent elsewhere? You could too be judged for this. Forgive me if you've never had a drink though, I don't mean to presume.
People say they have a drink to relax. People smoke pot to relax too. I am NOT condoning it's use around children, but I also think children should not be exposed to alcohol use either. But it happens! That's life I'm afraid.

To the best of my ability, i will make sure while it's still in my control to keep my son away from things i find unacceptable.

Alcohol/cigarettes are not illegal.

 

[xbabybumpx]

Apprantly also smoking pot and then driving is worse then drink driving. Its funny how people only read the "good" reveiws on pot and not the negative

Who said anything about driving when smoking pot?!?! You're just looking for arguments now.
and reviews??? WAit til I get my copy of Which out and see what they say

I was just given an example of how bad it is thats all,i know no one mentioned driving

 

[Janiepops]

Backed up by studies or not it's illegal and tbh i think you will find most people would judge your OH for it, myself included as i find drugs just vile ... and i am not sure how you allow drugs to be around your kids (i don't mean drugs lying about, i mean your OH doing it, how it affects people, and that they monry he spends on drugs could be better spent elsewhere, like say on your childrens toys, school stuff etc, you get my drift)

I am just genuinely lost that some people think it's ok ............. it's scary

Ok I'm back again. With a situation. Do you/would you take your child to a party - a wedding or something similar? Are there drunk people at parties? Is drink not the biggest factor in folk fighting, turning into vile people? Have you ever drank? Could that money not have been better spent elsewhere? You could too be judged for this. Forgive me if you've never had a drink though, I don't mean to presume.
People say they have a drink to relax. People smoke pot to relax too. I am NOT condoning it's use around children, but I also think children should not be exposed to alcohol use either. But it happens! That's life I'm afraid.

To the best of my ability, i will make sure while it's still in my control to keep my son away from things i find unacceptable.

Alcohol/cigarettes are not illegal.

So because alcohol is legal, it is acceptable to expose your child to the violence and aggression it causes? And although cigarettes and alcohol kill so many people each year, directly and indirectly, they are acceptable because they're legal. Yeah tell your kids that one lol

 

[BlackBerry25]

I can be pro whatever I want. I am more educated on the subject than you are xbabybumpx, and have personal experience, which you do not.

I don't think you should be into marijuana, nor do I think you should like it.

I just stated that I do. I think there is absolutely nothing wrong with it in moderation, as is wine or any other substance that may alter your moods. At least marijuana is a natural substance, and not a poison, like alcohol is. You do not know me in RL, but other people on here do, and they know it does not effect my parenting or my relationship with my child at all.

I was wondering how the OP ended up approaching the problem. It is a problem for her, because she does not want the smell or smoke in her house. I was stating, I understand her POV, even as someone who occasionally smokes it.

 

[polo_princess]

Suppose its better than neighbouring a crackhead?

 

[Janiepops]

Apprantly also smoking pot and then driving is worse then drink driving. Its funny how people only read the "good" reveiws on pot and not the negative

Who said anything about driving when smoking pot?!?! You're just looking for arguments now.
and reviews??? WAit til I get my copy of Which out and see what they say

I was just given an example of how bad it is thats all,i know no one mentioned driving

Here's another example then - the man who smoked a joint, ate a load, then fell asleep, and the man who got pissed, got aggressive and beat his wife up.

This isn't what will happen to everyone who does both, but there are good points and bad points for each of them.