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. There are many informative posts on here and if we want to start a debate maybe the general chat area is a better place to do so. 
Oh like I said, I don't do it. I did when I was younger, lol... but not since high school. I do believe it can cause serious harm, some people lose all motivation and respect for people, it can be a gateway drug etc... but it isn't that way for everyone. My OH and I have been together happily for 6 years and have a very loving, honest, open, strong relationshipHe doesn't smoke it 10 times a day, and sometimes goes weeks without it... but he will do it and I personally don't see anything wrong with him doing it. He is also a great daddy who helps me with everything and anything. He would come home, cook, clean and take care of the kids (all in an awesome mother like way) so I could sleep if I wanted. He isn't perfect but he is pretty darn close to it and I know in our relationship it wouldn't be the marijuana that ended it, if it did ever end, which I doubt since we have made it through one of the toughest times we will ever face and came out stronger than ever. He would also quit if I asked him to...but I don't feel it's my place to tell him what he can and can't do, since it isn't effecting our lives in a negative way, or hurting anyone
It won't become an issue with us (not saying it wouldn't with others) but I don't care... it isn't around my children, not even kept in our home, like I said if he does it, he isn't the ones dealing with the children and they are in bed. He won't handle our LO at all when he smokes it... and he is okay with it and doesn't become defensive at all. I would much rather see him smoke the occasional joint than cigs (because of the toxins) or drink, or abuse me or my children, or be an absent father, etc... I don't complain about him very much... I have a good one
I know other people who smoke it too, but not around their children... and I know some people who think its fine to smoke it around children. I dont think children should be exposed to it, but I don't believe it should be looked at so negatively. It does have benefits and I believe when not around children and in moderation it's not terrible. Again, I don't/wouldn't do it, but that's just me and I don't/wouldn't judge someone for doing it on occasion and safely without children around etc... It just depends. Everyone has their own opinions on things like this, which is understandable.. I have my own things I feel very strongly about which other might find wrong/bad/weird/ etc... lol To each their own.
He always smokes it at the front of the house and in the middle of the night, Jessica's room is at the back so it hasn't really concerned me his business and all that but it is illegal and he did puke on my garden. If he does it again me and my husband are going to speak to his dad, hopefully that'll put an end to it
Alcohol is more harmful than marijuana and how many of you drink occasionally? Drink Coffee, are very overweight from foods, smoke cigs? It's basically the same thing. Oh like I said, I don't do it. I did when I was younger, lol... but not since high school. I do believe it can cause serious harm, some people lose all motivation and respect for people, it can be a gateway drug etc... but it isn't that way for everyone. My OH and I have been together happily for 6 years and have a very loving, honest, open, strong relationship
It won't become an issue with us (not saying it wouldn't with others) but I don't care... it isn't around my children, not even kept in our home, like I said if he does it, he isn't the ones dealing with the children and they are in bed. He won't handle our LO at all when he smokes it... and he is okay with it and doesn't become defensive at all. I would much rather see him smoke the occasional joint than cigs (because of the toxins) or drink, or abuse me or my children, or be an absent father, etc... I don't complain about him very much... I have a good one
I know other people who smoke it too, but not around their children... and I know some people who think its fine to smoke it around children. I dont think children should be exposed to it, but I don't believe it should be looked at so negatively. It does have benefits and I believe when not around children and in moderation it's not terrible. Again, I don't/wouldn't do it, but that's just me and I don't/wouldn't judge someone for doing it on occasion and safely without children around etc... It just depends. Everyone has their own opinions on things like this, which is understandable.. I have my own things I feel very strongly about which other might find wrong/bad/weird/ etc... lol To each their own.
Just curious to know what the benefits of smoking drugs is??
My neighbours son very occasionally smokes weed, he even vomited in my front garden the other week. Usually he aims for his flower beds (me and my husband have watched him a couple of times) because he seems to be sick every time he smokes the bloody stuff but he partially missed this time and some landed on our side
since when are cancer patients given cannibis to help with their pain. My uncle had cancer a dddew times and he died last year from it and he certainly was not given cannibis for pain releif,he was given morphine. if he couldint eat or was being sick he was put on a drip. They may give cannibis to cancer patients in your country but they do not in the uk
I don't do it... I don't know how many times I need to say that... I DO NOT DO IT. My OH does.
I'm not in 'denial' either. You have your opinion, to which you have offended many before with... and I have mine. I'm NOT saying she should have her baby around it, I'm NOT saying it's good for someone. I'm saying she shouldn't worry about her LO at the moment as it wouldn't have hurt her or anything. I think a lot of you are making it seem like they were/are junkies next door and were trying to poke her with a dirty needle for crying out loud.
To those who smoke... smoking outside doesn't stop the smoke from going around your baby, it sits in your clothes, hair, lungs and you still end up having it around your baby one way or another... (again, my OH smokes, I'm not against people who do).
Oh like I said, I don't do it. I did when I was younger, lol... but not since high school. I do believe it can cause serious harm, some people lose all motivation and respect for people, it can be a gateway drug etc... but it isn't that way for everyone. My OH and I have been together happily for 6 years and have a very loving, honest, open, strong relationship
It won't become an issue with us (not saying it wouldn't with others) but I don't care... it isn't around my children, not even kept in our home, like I said if he does it, he isn't the ones dealing with the children and they are in bed. He won't handle our LO at all when he smokes it... and he is okay with it and doesn't become defensive at all. I would much rather see him smoke the occasional joint than cigs (because of the toxins) or drink, or abuse me or my children, or be an absent father, etc... I don't complain about him very much... I have a good one
I know other people who smoke it too, but not around their children... and I know some people who think its fine to smoke it around children. I dont think children should be exposed to it, but I don't believe it should be looked at so negatively. It does have benefits and I believe when not around children and in moderation it's not terrible. Again, I don't/wouldn't do it, but that's just me and I don't/wouldn't judge someone for doing it on occasion and safely without children around etc... It just depends. Everyone has their own opinions on things like this, which is understandable.. I have my own things I feel very strongly about which other might find wrong/bad/weird/ etc... lol To each their own.
Just curious to know what the benefits of smoking drugs is??
If that other stuff worked so well, it would be being used for patients with HIV and cancer patients. It's medically prooven to work better, as some people with cancer are TOO SICK to eat/drink anything and smoking something stays in their system even while vommiting... so your mints/teas/ginger and milk would be back on the floor or in the toilet, hmm works well doesn't it? You do not have to like it, agree with it etc... but disputing scientific evidence is just silly... and yes, the sky is green too and the earth is flat... lol
My neighbours son very occasionally smokes weed, he even vomited in my front garden the other week. Usually he aims for his flower beds (me and my husband have watched him a couple of times) because he seems to be sick every time he smokes the bloody stuff but he partially missed this time and some landed on our side
I wouldn't want our neighbor smoking it and throwing up in my yard either, and yes, I would talk to his parents. It could be dangerous in other ways too, especially with teens who are less aware of their actions and don't usually think as clearly.
I don't think I should feel like I need to defend my OH for smoking a joint. My OP was just to help the OP not worry so much and help correct the sterotype towards people who do occasionally smoke a joint.
since when are cancer patients given cannibis to help with their pain. My uncle had cancer a dddew times and he died last year from it and he certainly was not given cannibis for pain releif,he was given morphine. if he couldint eat or was being sick he was put on a drip. They may give cannibis to cancer patients in your country but they do not in the uk
I don't do it... I don't know how many times I need to say that... I DO NOT DO IT. My OH does.
I'm not in 'denial' either. You have your opinion, to which you have offended many before with... and I have mine. I'm NOT saying she should have her baby around it, I'm NOT saying it's good for someone. I'm saying she shouldn't worry about her LO at the moment as it wouldn't have hurt her or anything. I think a lot of you are making it seem like they were/are junkies next door and were trying to poke her with a dirty needle for crying out loud.
To those who smoke... smoking outside doesn't stop the smoke from going around your baby, it sits in your clothes, hair, lungs and you still end up having it around your baby one way or another... (again, my OH smokes, I'm not against people who do).
Oh like I said, I don't do it. I did when I was younger, lol... but not since high school. I do believe it can cause serious harm, some people lose all motivation and respect for people, it can be a gateway drug etc... but it isn't that way for everyone. My OH and I have been together happily for 6 years and have a very loving, honest, open, strong relationship
It won't become an issue with us (not saying it wouldn't with others) but I don't care... it isn't around my children, not even kept in our home, like I said if he does it, he isn't the ones dealing with the children and they are in bed. He won't handle our LO at all when he smokes it... and he is okay with it and doesn't become defensive at all. I would much rather see him smoke the occasional joint than cigs (because of the toxins) or drink, or abuse me or my children, or be an absent father, etc... I don't complain about him very much... I have a good one
I know other people who smoke it too, but not around their children... and I know some people who think its fine to smoke it around children. I dont think children should be exposed to it, but I don't believe it should be looked at so negatively. It does have benefits and I believe when not around children and in moderation it's not terrible. Again, I don't/wouldn't do it, but that's just me and I don't/wouldn't judge someone for doing it on occasion and safely without children around etc... It just depends. Everyone has their own opinions on things like this, which is understandable.. I have my own things I feel very strongly about which other might find wrong/bad/weird/ etc... lol To each their own.
Just curious to know what the benefits of smoking drugs is??
If that other stuff worked so well, it would be being used for patients with HIV and cancer patients. It's medically prooven to work better, as some people with cancer are TOO SICK to eat/drink anything and smoking something stays in their system even while vommiting... so your mints/teas/ginger and milk would be back on the floor or in the toilet, hmm works well doesn't it? You do not have to like it, agree with it etc... but disputing scientific evidence is just silly... and yes, the sky is green too and the earth is flat... lol
My neighbours son very occasionally smokes weed, he even vomited in my front garden the other week. Usually he aims for his flower beds (me and my husband have watched him a couple of times) because he seems to be sick every time he smokes the bloody stuff but he partially missed this time and some landed on our side
I wouldn't want our neighbor smoking it and throwing up in my yard either, and yes, I would talk to his parents. It could be dangerous in other ways too, especially with teens who are less aware of their actions and don't usually think as clearly.
I don't think I should feel like I need to defend my OH for smoking a joint. My OP was just to help the OP not worry so much and help correct the sterotype towards people who do occasionally smoke a joint.
Maybe I'm naive but I think if someone's OH wants to smoke pot during his downtime, than that's between him and his wife. 
