Can You Tell If A Man Ejaculates?

[inpghttc]

Oh ...and another idea...I know with my DH, after he does...even if he doesn't pull out right away, he always can squeeze a little more out wth his hand...maybe have him do that and see if some residual comes out....I always know he does when that happens

 

[2011butterfly]

Butterfly...he may "finish" inside you...I wouldn't rule that out yet. Yes, sometimes it will run out a little but I have NEVER had a bunch run down my leg or anywhere else. If I stay in bed long enough, nothing comes out...I think each case is different. And, my dh had a SA and it turned out that he is above average!

Thanx for that. At least I know that we're not always supposed to feel like we have a tap of excess sperm running down our legs

 

[mellywelly]

I cant say my dh's runs down my leg, but you definately know its there, and if you go to the loo after and wipe its all there. I can also feel the 'twitching' inside as it comes out. I have never had sex and not known if he's ejaculated or not, it does sound like there is some sort of problem. I think asking him to do it somewhere else on your body is a great idea.

 

[2011butterfly]

I think for me now I need to SEE confirmation, just to be sure, so I will try anything and everything. For all I know he could be fine. But still need that confirmation. Unless I get a :BFP: there you go think that'll be the ultimate confirmation

 

[inpghttc]

I don't feel it during BD at all!!!

 

[lilyV]

2011butterfly... google 'delayed ejaculation'. If you think your man has this, depending on the reasons why he's got it, it could be a very serious problem (when it comes to ejaculating inside you for pregnancy). This is typically psychological and takes several or more years to overcome... although I haven't heard of anyone who's over come it. I had a bf who had this. He had gone to see a specialist with his old gf several years before him and I met. I've also had a few gfs who had bfs with this... So on the 'good news' side, if this is what he's got, he's not the only one out there.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Delayed_ejaculation

Best of luck to you and be strong and make your judgements based on out of what you want out of life. this condition is extremely frustrating so try to be patient.

 

[kiki04]

Adding to the tmi here... Is he quite "large"? If so his 'deposits' will be further up in you giving it less chance to drip out.

Sorry had to ask lol

 

[2011butterfly]

Adding to the tmi here... Is he quite "large"? If so his 'deposits' will be further up in you giving it less chance to drip out.

Now I'm hoping that he's so large beyond belief, more than one can imagine, that his 'deposits' are in my 'bank account' safe in an 'investment'!

 

[ttc_lolly]

Have you ever given him oral or masturbated him to see if he can ejaculate? Sorry that's a bit TMI of a question but that would be a good starting ground.

You should really be able to see the semen, depending on how much he ejaculates that is. What goes up must come down, quite literally, and I can always see OH's!

 

[lisap2008]

It could be that he is finishing inside but his semen volume is low so your not noticing .some men have large semen volume up to 10ml and some can have as little as 1ml which is like a drop. I would do what Emma suggests just to see for yourself and possibly look into having him go in for a SA.

 

[jrowenj]

Hows it going?? get any proof?!

 

[obtenerunsixx]

Does he masturbate a lot? If so, he might be significantly reducing his semen volume and thus making it unnoticeable after sex. *TMI* I tend to hold in my guy's semen very well (sometimes it will drip down my butt), but if I laugh or cough some of it will gush out. And if you go to the bathroom afterwards, you can kind of see whitish streaks in the toilet, and of course you'll see what looks like EWCM on the toilet paper and it'll smell like bleach.

Also, for me, one of the greatest indications of orgasm is how dramatic he acts when it happens. I don't think he could ever fake all of his body spasms and facial expressions.

 

[hello_kitty_t]

I had this same question with my hubby. I had seen his semen plenty as we used the withdraw method and it would sometimes go on my tummy. This month we started TTC and I never could tell if he "finished" or not. (He said he did.) I asked my friend and she said she can always tell when her hubby does and it leaks out and is a mess. So anyway I started wondering. (I always stayed laid down after BD as to not let it leak out.) After my O was long gone and we BD, I would go to the bathroom right afterwards and then I did see that it leaked out and I could tell when I wiped that it was on the toilet paper. Maybe you can try that? I know it's not ideal to go let it leak out when you are around O, but when you aren't at a fertile day, see if you can squeeze any out. (LOL sounds so gross but we're all on the same topic here.)

 

[LittleBunnie]

I've always been able to tell when my DH finishes. It kind of, throbs?.. & the leaky stuff as well. I hope everything turns out okay for you!

 

[wannab_amommi]

oh there is a distinct a to me bleach kind of smell (Bleach is what it has always smelt like to me yuck!!! I am assuming cause I dislike the two scents)...... and there will deff be a mess..

 

[ttc_lolly]

Sperm that smells of bleach!?! What does bleach smell like over there in the US!? I've certainly never smelt any that smelt of bleach

 

[2011butterfly]

Any advice on how I can convince OH to visit the doctors? He doesn't want anything to knock his male-ego, so I have to say it to him in a way that will make him realise that, it's not a major problem, but just a check-up!
Would it be better for him to go for a sperm count or just a 'see where his sperm is'

TIA

 

[lisap2008]

Any advice on how I can convince OH to visit the doctors? He doesn't want anything to knock his male-ego, so I have to say it to him in a way that will make him realise that, it's not a major problem, but just a check-up!
Would it be better for him to go for a sperm count or just a 'see where his sperm is'

TIA

If he is on board with TTC , just tell him getting a semen analysis is a normal thing that most men get done when TTC. its better to know if there is a issue then to assume things are normal and find out years later they are not.
if he does not want to go in perhaps try the home sperm test , its not going to tell you as much as getting a semen analysis would though.

 

[2011butterfly]

[/QUOTE]If he is on board with TTC , just tell him getting a semen analysis is a normal thing that most men get done when TTC. its better to know if there is a issue then to assume things are normal and find out years later they are not.
if he does not want to go in perhaps try the home sperm test , its not going to tell you as much as getting a semen analysis would though.[/QUOTE]

Thanx! We're not TTC at the moment so it'll be the case of trying to get him to act now rather than later.
I've never heard of a home sperm test, could I get one from boots??

 

[lisap2008]

Thanx! We're not TTC at the moment so it'll be the case of trying to get him to act now rather than later.
I've never heard of a home sperm test, could I get one from boots??

I am not sure if its sold in boots I am in the US ,
but here is the link to the test https://www.fairhavenhealth.com/spermcheck-fertility.html

it would be alot less stressful on him then going in for a SA.