Rae that was really nice of your friend! My best friend lives 35hours away from me! We see each other once a year, send each other an update email once a month and then talk on msn when we can (which never happens because she's a busy overworked nurse). Just because we don't talk/see each other on a regular basis doesn't mean we stop doing nice things for each other. We still send money for birthdays, Christmas, etc. When we do get to see one another that one time a year it's like we never left and 'grew up' and are back to the jabbering girl talk, facials and pigging out on chips and cheese!