Can't decide whether to have second child.

[justmeinlove]

I was actually going to say that if he wants another, he'll have to bring it up ;-) big hugs though!

 

[JessyG]

We talked about it again last night. He said we agreed to have 2 I said yes but only of you change your job so we have family time at the weekends and you are around more to help. I always said that I wanted one. Anyway he agrees with me re the money situation so its sort of in his court as he knows its definitely a no go if he stays in his current job.

 

[justmeinlove]

Well, that sounds like a good start could you face another in that situation? I guess the sleep thing wears off...although I say this after a night so bad I was fantasising about selling her!

 

[JessyG]

Yeah people think I am heartless for saying her sleep is so bad I wont have another. Its just hard coping on so little. I love my daughter mote than anything but that doesn't make the exhaustion disappear. The sleep will get better though the finances won't! Lol

Poor you what was up with your lo last night?

I have said def no more in our current situation its up to him he always wanted out of being a chef by 30 anyway so maybe he will.

 

[justmeinlove]

She just...wouldn't sleep! Normally she wakes up a bunch and I feed her back down. Last night, she woke up a bunch And that didn't work. Feeding, pacing, hand on tummy, nothing! Gah! Eventually ended up in bed with us as 3am, and then my poor ill hb started snoring :-\

 

[justmeinlove]

She just...wouldn't sleep! Normally she wakes up a bunch and I feed her back down. Last night, she woke up a bunch And that didn't work. Feeding, pacing, hand on tummy, nothing! Gah! Eventually ended up in bed with us as 3am, and then my poor ill hb started snoring :-\