Can't stop crying :(

[baby_mama87]

This is so awful I wish I could give you a proper hug, can't believe you are going through this. You must stop contact with him I know it's so hard but you need to do it to clear your head no txting, calling etc. After a few weeks maybe send him
A friendly message to see if he wants to meet up and talk about the situation. You need to call the shots at the minute he has you where he wants you knowing it's his decision to get back with you, most of the time having no contact will make him realise what a idiot he is being and that he needs to face up to his responsibilities. If he doesn't then as hard as it will be for you hun you really will see that you were better without him. If he isn't considering your feelings when your so vulnerable and carrying his child he doesn't deserve to be part of yours or babies lives! Thinking of you hunny and were all here she when you need to rant

Xxx

 

[peapod11]

Your right I wouldn't change my decision! I just wish the situation was different I guess what will be will be and he may come around in the future x

 

[Babytimeagain]

My ex of 11yrs spent years talking me into having a child with him as I wasnt wanting anymore it was something that I didnt want and for years said no to but seeing how much it meant to him I gave in and tried for around 11months for this pregnancy... as soon as I said I was pregnant he kinda changed a little and by 2months he told me he'd changed his mind and it was him or the baby, like you I opted for the baby as I knew at that moment the relationship was over no matter what as I could never look at him in the same way knowing what he asked of me!!! Ive been in and out of hospital and had surgery during this pregnancy and at times Ive felt so alone and the thought of him coming back and 'making it all better' was a dream but I know it isnt something that will happen or that I would allow to happen as I know deep down that both my baby and myself should have a man in our lives that we can count on and as much as I thought he was, he isnt that man.... since the day I said I was keeping the baby I have not seen or spoke to him and it breaks my heart that my children havent either as he was in their lives for 11yrs then nothing!
I know it isnt easy and understand all your going through and if talking about it on here helps then post away instead of contacting him...I deleted his numbers so I could'nt txt when tempted and so far so good x

 

[Miss_d]

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