i think i mentioned this before but couldn't find my thread or post...so thought i'd post again. (its a bit long, sorry!)
the first 3 months of LO's life i was easily able to go out to the coffee shop to soothe her to sleep and it would be a great break for me...basically could get as long a break as i needed depending on how long i stayed out. that started changing at ~ 3 months then i brought her to the mall because the combination of the lull of background noise plus moving her around walking in the pram would keep her calm and most of the time asleep.
however now, going out with LO is an absolute joke! she gets very fussy after ~ 2 hours of being awake, yet doesn't like to be put down and doesn't fall asleep on her own AT ALL. so it is very hard to be out now...once she has a bottle she wants to be up and played with -- she especially likes to walk up me like climbing a mountain until standing on my head...and i end up looking ridiculous when at the mall like that in the food court! and after all the playing, cooing, attention, etc...wont/can't sleep...and then the fussiness starts and she cannot help herself from whining/crying...and the longer we're out, the more inconsolable she becomes.
today was a-w-f-u-l. i had to go to cultural church service...after ~ 10 minutes of sitting in her carseat/stroller she can't stop fussing, gave paci, 2 bottles, paci +++ tried to keep her calm, then had to step out played with her at the back of the church -- sitting, holding, lying down and cycled her legs etc...brought her back in, in ~ 10 minutes same story, then my sister took her out. left there, went for dinner for sister's b-day...could barely keep her still by this point...now 2 more bottles later...she was in full out panic mode. we had to get our food packed, paid the bill and did the walk of shame out the door. she fell asleep almost as soon as we got home, extremely exhausted.
i know i've whined about this before, but she is just under 5 months and i so much would like to take her out to the mall or anything longer than 10 minutes without constant fussing that doesn't stop until i get her home, fed, and somehow put down. i hope the rest of my mat leave wont be like this, just trying to keep my baby calm. i feel like i'm not really doing much to help her developmentally this way...dont get to play with her alot except to avoid a fussing fit. and reading/storytelling? -- forgetaboutit.
i was hoping to eventually be able to take her to those nice little mommy/baby groups at the library and so, but i just dont see that being able to happen anytime soon. it just seems like all the other babies i see in the mall at comparable age to my LO are so much more settled than she is. i can't help but be worried and wonder when there will be a light at the end of the tunnel.
the first 3 months of LO's life i was easily able to go out to the coffee shop to soothe her to sleep and it would be a great break for me...basically could get as long a break as i needed depending on how long i stayed out. that started changing at ~ 3 months then i brought her to the mall because the combination of the lull of background noise plus moving her around walking in the pram would keep her calm and most of the time asleep.
however now, going out with LO is an absolute joke! she gets very fussy after ~ 2 hours of being awake, yet doesn't like to be put down and doesn't fall asleep on her own AT ALL. so it is very hard to be out now...once she has a bottle she wants to be up and played with -- she especially likes to walk up me like climbing a mountain until standing on my head...and i end up looking ridiculous when at the mall like that in the food court! and after all the playing, cooing, attention, etc...wont/can't sleep...and then the fussiness starts and she cannot help herself from whining/crying...and the longer we're out, the more inconsolable she becomes.
today was a-w-f-u-l. i had to go to cultural church service...after ~ 10 minutes of sitting in her carseat/stroller she can't stop fussing, gave paci, 2 bottles, paci +++ tried to keep her calm, then had to step out played with her at the back of the church -- sitting, holding, lying down and cycled her legs etc...brought her back in, in ~ 10 minutes same story, then my sister took her out. left there, went for dinner for sister's b-day...could barely keep her still by this point...now 2 more bottles later...she was in full out panic mode. we had to get our food packed, paid the bill and did the walk of shame out the door. she fell asleep almost as soon as we got home, extremely exhausted.
i know i've whined about this before, but she is just under 5 months and i so much would like to take her out to the mall or anything longer than 10 minutes without constant fussing that doesn't stop until i get her home, fed, and somehow put down. i hope the rest of my mat leave wont be like this, just trying to keep my baby calm. i feel like i'm not really doing much to help her developmentally this way...dont get to play with her alot except to avoid a fussing fit. and reading/storytelling? -- forgetaboutit.
i was hoping to eventually be able to take her to those nice little mommy/baby groups at the library and so, but i just dont see that being able to happen anytime soon. it just seems like all the other babies i see in the mall at comparable age to my LO are so much more settled than she is. i can't help but be worried and wonder when there will be a light at the end of the tunnel.