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Hi all
I have a girl, 16 months that was conceived after a bit of a bumpy journey. We had a lost pregnancy after 9 months trying, then took further 6 months to conceive her. Before having her we always discussed that we would like to have two children and after she was born we said we would wait until she was 2 before we tried.
Well this month, those plans seem to have gone out of the window as we BD in my ovulation window. Bang on my estimated date for ovulation actually. I'm not expecting to have gotten pregnant as it took a while the first time but it does seem to have shifted us into the phase of 'not trying, not preventing'.
I am excited about the prospect of trying again but also terrified. My existing babe doesn't sleep very well and I haven't managed to wean her off boob yet. I know 9 months is a long time but it scares me that I could enter the newborn phase again and not even have the first one sleeping through!!
Somebody please tell me it the second baby is easier haha...
Anyway. Anybody else in the NTNP camp, please feel free to say hello!
I have a girl, 16 months that was conceived after a bit of a bumpy journey. We had a lost pregnancy after 9 months trying, then took further 6 months to conceive her. Before having her we always discussed that we would like to have two children and after she was born we said we would wait until she was 2 before we tried.
Well this month, those plans seem to have gone out of the window as we BD in my ovulation window. Bang on my estimated date for ovulation actually. I'm not expecting to have gotten pregnant as it took a while the first time but it does seem to have shifted us into the phase of 'not trying, not preventing'.
I am excited about the prospect of trying again but also terrified. My existing babe doesn't sleep very well and I haven't managed to wean her off boob yet. I know 9 months is a long time but it scares me that I could enter the newborn phase again and not even have the first one sleeping through!!
Somebody please tell me it the second baby is easier haha...
Anyway. Anybody else in the NTNP camp, please feel free to say hello!