CD1 anybody?! Looking for buddies :)

[BeachyFeelin]

CD1 for me too and I would love to have buddies . I was 6 days late for my AF so I am feeling a little down right now, AF symptoms don't help if course! Hubby and I are TTC with baby #1, my cycle is now about 32 to 35 days ( I swear it just keeps getting longer). I am 29 years old going on 30 and hedge been TTC for about 8 months or so. Other women have told me to sign up for Fertility Friend which I just did today, has anyone on here used it? GL and baby dust to all!!

I use FF and I LOVEEE it! Honestly, don't know what I would do without it. I haven't paid for it yet, just use the free stuff.

 

[Sct133]

Okay great good to know! Yeah I'm doing the free one too for now! Get ready 2014 here we come!

 

[Phoenix82]

Hey ladies! Hoping I can join even though i'm a tad late. I think I'm on or about the same CD as you all. Right now CD10-CD12 depending on how long my period decides to be this month. Third cycle trying and it's ranged from 28-29-30...grr! (not in that order)

According to FF I should O on Monday, this is my first month temping and everything seems normal thus far.

I had lotion like/creamy cm yesterday and the day before. It was a little stretchy, broke apart after 1/2 inch (maybe not even that much) and today it seems I have wet cm. I'm TERRIBLE at this cm stuff. WE BD'd last night, and will hopefully BD every day this weekend...hoping that's enough and that I do, in fact, O this month!!

Baby dust to all!!!!

Oh - and I just turned 32 and OH just turned 38...TTC #1 and feel so late in the game that it's IMPOSSIBLE for me to be relaxed about this!

Hey Sct133 and Beachyfeelin

Welcome.
Just wanted to say good luck and Beachyfeelin don't worry I'm not up with the cm or the cervix height thing and don't really want to go that much into it.
I'm using OPK, preseed and evening primrose oil (supposed to help with a sticky bean) so fingers crossed.
Keep us posted xx

 

[BeachyFeelin]

Thanks all - so glad to have this community, I really don't have anyone else to talk to about this stuff!!!

I am using preseed as well, think we used a little too much last night! Gotta be careful with that stuff!

I just started drinking 1 cup of decaf green tea every morning. After my coffee of course, I'm just not ready to give that up!

 

[Mimi85]

Beechyfeeling, im with you on giving up the coffee, cant seem to ditch it! but I have one small one in the morning only and then again, only on week days so thats not too bad right?

Im also using OPKs and preseed and Im checking cm and cervix (although cervix position seems to be very unreliable!)

you girls dont have tickers so what cycle day are you on?

 

[BeachyFeelin]

I did read one cup a day isn't bad at all! You can't stop your life, I mean think of all the accidental pregnancy's there are out there...I'm sure some woman drank coffee/alcohol for days before they found out they were pregnant.

According to FF I'm on CD12 right now. Due to O on Monday or Tuesday I think. Temp is staying low...

 

[Sct133]

I hear you ladies! Coffee is my addiction but I have been trying to cut down. It's so hard! I was also a smoker but finally was able to quit the habit.

I am on CD 1, got my AF today....

 

[Phoenix82]

Beechyfeeling, im with you on giving up the coffee, cant seem to ditch it! but I have one small one in the morning only and then again, only on week days so thats not too bad right?

Im also using OPKs and preseed and Im checking cm and cervix (although cervix position seems to be very unreliable!)

you girls dont have tickers so what cycle day are you on?

Hey Mimi85

I'm not really up to speed on what you can have on here or how you do it, I'll look into it

 

[Mimi85]

Phoenix, if you need any help, let me know!

Sct133, so sorry AF showed, I really hope you get your bfp soon! how long are your cycles usually?

Beachyfeelin, im cd13 today and am due to ovulate same time around you! lets hope this is our cycle!

 

[Sct133]

Phoenix, if you need any help, let me know!

Sct133, so sorry AF showed, I really hope you get your bfp soon! how long are your cycles usually?

Beachyfeelin, im cd13 today and am due to ovulate same time around you! lets hope this is our cycle!

Hey Mimi85, over the 8 months I was averaging about 31 days, but this past cycle was 37 days! That is probably the longest cycle I have ever had.

 

[Mimi85]

that sucks to have a long cycle only to have AF show herself late
I wonder why our bodies do strange things sometimes. December was my first month of proper ttc since my miscarriage in september, it took me that long to ovulate. I forget that sometimes we just have to let our bodies to their thing...but Im so impatient!

 

[BeachyFeelin]

Mimi - how did you know you Ovulated?

This is my first month temping....3rd month TTC.

First month off BC I had some cm, couldn't tell you what kind. And one clump of EWCM (can only call it that because I was like, WHAT IS THAT? Since I had never had it before!)

Last month I had NOTHING so I assumed I didn't Ovulate.

This month I'm temping, and experiencing some cm that has been changing the last few days. It's watery today, it was creamy yesterday (a tad stretchy). Does this mean my body is gearing up to O?

 

[BeachyFeelin]

I answered my own question by doing an opk at 2PM while at work...heard that was the best time to test for those!

Looks positive to me! Yay!!

 

[ladders]

Get going then beachyfeelin that looks positive to me! Nice to o over the weekend makes bd ing a bit easier!
Always feel better around that time because feel like can do something and have something to focus on. Once the tww hits I spend it obsessing whether I had done enough.

Do feel your pain with a late af mine was only 2 days late a few months ago and was gutted with bfn and when it arrived. Dh said shouldn't get think about it until like a week late! Like that's going to happen im thinking about it all the time!

 

[BeachyFeelin]

Well....I'm not sure this is my month we only had a chance to bd Thursday (think I ovulated on Saturday). I know there is still a chance but it's probably low boo

 

[Phoenix82]

Don't worry sweetie, there's still a chance!!
I know how you feel tho 8 months in the BFN are gutting xxx

 

[BeachyFeelin]

Don't worry sweetie, there's still a chance!!
I know how you feel tho 8 months in the BFN are gutting xxx

I hope you get your bfp very soon!

I just feel like we need this right now. 2 weeks into the new year and we had 2 deaths in the family.....a baby would just brighten everyone's world right now

 

[Phoenix82]

Don't worry sweetie, there's still a chance!!
I know how you feel tho 8 months in the BFN are gutting xxx

I hope you get your bfp very soon!

I just feel like we need this right now. 2 weeks into the new year and we had 2 deaths in the family.....a baby would just brighten everyone's world right now

Oh hun, I'm sorry to hear that
Well I hope you get yours, I'll have everything crossed for you.
Let us know xx

 

[Mimi85]

Beachy, I know I ovulated last month because of my chart and confirmed with OPKs. I had a super clear temp shift on my chart no denying it lol..and your OPK its super positive!! when I got pg back in august, we dtd only once and it was 3 days before ovulation so there is much hope!

Phoenix, hoping this is your month too xoxox

AFM, cd16 today, I had a huge temp drop so Im soo hoping I will O today or tomorrow. we dtd friday, saturday sunday and will do so today and tomorrow, hopefully it will work out!

 

[megano]

Hi ,
I am on 4th day of my cycle, I am 36 and my Dh is 38. Got married dec 31st and trying since then. desperately want to conceive.mmm