I'm just curious if anyone is with a man that has cheated or you've caught considering cheating on you before and how you got past it in order to be happy. I don't know how to let it go and find trust again.. I love him and he's here for me and he loves me.. I've made my own mistakes, I'm carrying another man's baby and my boyfriend is still here and loves me..he is willing to raise the baby as his..he's gone out of his way to be with me... he didn't actually do anything I just caught him talking to another girl and the truth came out that he is not 100% happy with me right now and we need to work out some things.. That's fine and I'm willing to change the things I need to, I just don't know how to trust that he is changing those things too.. Part of me thinks I should just leave and do it on my own..but I don't want to because he means everything to me and he really treats me good..He's an excellent father to his boys and he wants to raise my son too.. I want to have more kids with him, I want to be part of his family... I'm just so scared and I even feel guilty because I know I wasn't being right either..