Christian ladies TTC, we can encourage one another.

[xxx_faithful]

Reading The Message tonight and came across this scripture.

Are you going to continue this craziness? For only crazy people would think they could complete by their own efforts what was begun by God. If you weren't smart enough or strong enough to begin it, how do you suppose you could perfect it?

- Galatians 3:3

Have a good night girls xxx

 

[Godsjewel]

Think of the most impossible situation in your life. Does infertility rank at the top of your list? Imagine if you were to write it down, start to finish. Pen every detail of your infertility that has caused you anguish. Disease? Finances? Relationships? What is the mountain that looms so high above you standing between you and your dream? When you have finished writing down the impossibilities you face, I want you to write down two more words:

BUT GOD...

When God intervenes in your story, everything changes. Infertility may seem like an impossible end to the story of your family. Some days may be better than others, but if today is a particularly hard day, you may feel as if you’ll never hold a child of your own. You may have resigned yourself to the belief that you will never be more than a sad, unfulfilled family of two because of the forever unmet desire of a child. But God... When God moves in your life things are never the same again!

Think of Noah. If you think the world is a wicked place to live now, we have nothing on the world Noah inhabited. Genesis 6:5-6 says “Then the LORD saw that the wickedness of man was great on the earth, and that every intent of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually. The LORD was sorry that He had made man on the earth, and He was grieved in His heart.” God was going to destroy the world and everything in it because of the continual evil in the hearts of man. Every animal--destroyed. Every man, woman and child--destroyed. The entirety of all creation--destroyed. The sinless Creator grieving over the corrupted sinfulness of His created, living without a Savior. All headed for destruction. But God...

Enter Noah. The first thing we read about Noah other than the record of his birth may very well be the most significant thing about him: But Noah found favor in the eyes of the LORD. God searched and found a man who would trust him in scary, difficult times. A man who would believe in Him when no one else would. A man who would take a chance on taking an unseen God at His word. A man who would risk his future and his family on a God who was asking him to take a huge leap of faith. But Noah...But God.

God asked big things of Noah, just as He asks big things of you. He asked Noah to build an ark for the floods that were coming. He asks you to build your faith for the times when tears flood your eyes and you don’t understand His plan. He asked Noah to trust Him when no one stood with him. He asks you to trust Him when you still don’t have a baby to hold. God promised Noah He would bless Him and keep His promises to him and his family. God promises you the same.

Genesis 8:1 says But God remembered Noah... Every single person on earth perished except for Noah and his family. Every single animal on earth died except for those gathered on the ark. God set a rainbow in the clouds to remind Noah that He kept the promises he made to Noah and did exactly what He said He would do. Every time you ever see a rainbow grace the heavens, you are reminded of the same. God keeps His promises! Destruction was coming. Noah and his family would surely have died along with the rest of the human race and humanity would have been wiped off the face of the earth, but God intervened and Noah and his family were spared. Everything changed because God stepped in.

Go back to the story of your infertility. Did you write But God... at the end of your list of impossibilities? Perhaps you’ve already seen some of the ways God has begun to intervene. He’s already working and moving in the story of your life!

Tomorrow we’ll look at another perfect example of how a life was irrevocably changed by the same two little words:



But God...

-Beth Forbus

 

[xxx_faithful]

I was reading my concordance section of my bible this morning and fell upon the section Direction I then began to read the following few passages and God brought me back to the original scripture verse i stumbled across. I began to meditate on this scripture, believing this is where he wants our hearts to be.

Clean the slate, so we can start the day fresh! Keep me from stupid sins, from thinking I can take over your work.

- Psalm 19:13

 

[steph_466]

I really like that faithful

 

[xxx_faithful]

I really like that faithful

*** READING THE BIBLE ***

I know! isn't that scripture great? Im been a christian all my life, and have read the bible through and through. You'd think i'd know exactly where to read and where to turn to, but honestly, it's not like that at all. I find i dont always know where to turn for wisdom and guidance, but i do know when we show up for God, God shows up for us. He doesn't miss his own appearance. He is always there in the presence when we open his word. He is eagerly awaiting to share with us. Life. Love. His Grace.

And so he always guides or reveals something to me. He never fails at it.

But first i must open it.

XXX

 

[HisGrace]

Faithful, I've been reading your posts but not taking them to heart like I should. Then I read this devotional. I would have just glazed over it had it not been for your posts softening my heart. Thank you so much for posting. Here's the devotional I read in case it can bless anyone else the way it blessed me.

Joyce Meyer: Promises for Your Everyday Life - a Daily Devotional

Relying on God

I believe every time we feel frustration, it means we've really stopped relying on God. That might sound like a bold statement to you, but think about it: God's given you and me His Holy Spirit and His grace to help us walk through anything that comes our way. Frustration hits when we stop depending on Him and try to make something happen our own way.

Understanding this really helped me. Every time I became frustrated, I reminded myself that what I was really doing was trying to take the place of the Holy Spirit. I was trying to be Holy Spirit Junior!

Do you struggle with an independent spirit? When you refuse to depend on God, in essence, you're saying, "Okay, God, I appreciate that You're around, but watch me do this." Depending on God for everything may be difficult, but it's the key to the victory we need every single day of our lives.

When God saved us, He didn't help us and then say, "Ok, that's it. You're on your own now!" He's eternally saved us, which means if we depend on Him, He will guide us and help us.

Galations 5:16 urges us to "walk and live [habitually] in the [Holy] Spirit...then you will certainly not gratify the cravings and desires of the flesh".... Notice that it doesn't say "conquer the flesh independently...then you will certainly not gratify the desires of the flesh." No, it says to live in the Holy Spirit.

Choose to stop living independently, and rely on the Holy Spirit. I promise you won't regret it!

Prayer Starter: God, You are all I need. Help me not to trust in myself, but to put my trust in You and to rely only on You.

 

[blue33]

Hi ladies! I have my first appointment with our fs Thursday to discuss ivf. I've been writing down questions to ask him as they come to me. Does anyone have any suggestions on questions I should definitely ask?

Thank you!!

 

[No Doubt]

Ladies I really appreciate your posts. Me and my hubbs are struggling right now and I admit that I've pretty much shut down and have no interest in trying to work on things. I think I'm upset and hurt mostly and that's where me being so withdrawn is coming from. Usually I get over it and move on but for whatever reason this isn't lifting off of me like it usually would. I think that's because I'm stressed and exhausted, just tapped out right now. But I feel like all of your posts have been directed towards to me in that I really need to soften my heart and let God be God and take my hands off things. I could say it's hard, but I know that would just be me being stubborn and emotional. So thank you ladies for allowing God to use you and speak to me through you.

 

[Godsjewel]

Hi ladies! I have my first appointment with our fs Thursday to discuss ivf. I've been writing down questions to ask him as they come to me. Does anyone have any suggestions on questions I should definitely ask?

Thank you!!

I've been through IVF and your are more than welcome to private message me with any questions or concerns you may have about the process.

Here are some questions you may want to ask.

1. What are the possible explanations for our failure so far?
2. What are the success rates for injectables with IUI vs. IVF?
3. What are the costs for each procedure?
4. Would it help to do an injectable cycle before IVF to see how my body reacts to the injectables?
5. When is the lab closed for the holidays and/or cleaning?
6. Are there specific cycle start days, or can I start whenever?
7. How many embryos do you suggest putting back (assuming we have plenty to choose from)?
8. What are the storage costs if we have embryos left?
9. Is my weight an issue?
10. What are the chances of multiples if we do IVF?
11. Do you recommmend ICSI? PGD? What are the costs and risks associated with these procedures?
12. Do you usually do Day 3 or Day 5 transfers? What are the risks/benefits of each?
13. What would a typical IVF cycle look like on the calendar?
14. What are the risks/side effects of the medications you would put me on for r IVF? What are the long-term consequences of these meds?
15. Would GIFT or ZIFT be an option for us? What does this cost? What are the success rates? What are the pros/cons of doing these vs. IVF?
16. If an IVF cycle gets cancelled due to OHSS or not enough follies, what does that cost? How soon could I try again?

 

[Godsjewel]

Ladies I really appreciate your posts. Me and my hubbs are struggling right now and I admit that I've pretty much shut down and have no interest in trying to work on things. I think I'm upset and hurt mostly and that's where me being so withdrawn is coming from. Usually I get over it and move on but for whatever reason this isn't lifting off of me like it usually would. I think that's because I'm stressed and exhausted, just tapped out right now. But I feel like all of your posts have been directed towards to me in that I really need to soften my heart and let God be God and take my hands off things. I could say it's hard, but I know that would just be me being stubborn and emotional. So thank you ladies for allowing God to use you and speak to me through you.

Hi sweetie

I'm sorry things haven't been going well at home. I'm sure have a little one at home is a big adjustment and can put the marriage on a back burner, but we have to make sure to not let the enemy get in our marriages and put up a divide. Our marriages represent Christ and the church and he wants nothing more than for us to love and be at peace with our husbands.

Here is a marriage prayer from Kenneth Copeland...

Father, it is written in Your Word that we are to esteem our marriage as precious, worthy of great price and especially dear. We agree with Your Word and act accordingly.

By a conscious act of our will, we put away strife by becoming swift to hear, slow to speak and slow to anger. We confess and believe that we neither offend nor take offense with one another.

Your Word says You have knit us together in purpose and in power, therefore we commit ourselves and our marriage to be the mighty instrument upon earth that You designed us to be. Our desire is to be an example of Your love to our family and friends.

So Father, right now, we make a quality decision to live in harmony. We agree not to give ourselves over to selfish desire that will cause division and distrust. We declare that we honor and value our marriage by keeping our marriage bed undefiled. We declare that our marriage grows stronger every day and is an encouragement to those around us. We will conduct ourselves honorably and becomingly—being kind, tenderhearted, compassionate, understanding and loving toward one another. We are always ready to believe the best, and we freely forgive one another.

Father, we declare and therefore it is established that we live in a peaceable habitation and quiet resting place. Thank you, Father, for making us heirs together of the grace of life! We begin this commitment before Your throne in the Name of Jesus and by the authority of Your Word. Amen.

 

[Godsjewel]

Yesterday we looked at the life of Noah and how the history of mankind was changed because God intervened in his life. Today we will look at how another life was changed because God refused to leave His child alone. The focus of our attention today is the golden boy of the Old Testament, Joseph.

Joseph was the favorite son of Jacob, great-grandson of Abraham. (He came from a long line of infertile couples. Don’t you just love that God uses the child of barren wombs to do marvelous things?) Jacob loved Joseph more than his other sons and made no effort to hide his favoritism. You can imagine the sibling rivalry this birthed, and with 12 sons in the family there must have been plenty of ill will to go around. Although Joseph had done no wrong to his brothers, his siblings took revenge of their father’s love and sold Joseph into slavery and into a very hard life.

From the love and pampering of an over protective father to the muddy pits and prison cells of Egyptian slaves, Joseph’s life took some unexpected turns. But God...

Even when Joseph faced what must have seemed like impossible situations in his life, God was with him. When infertility seems impossible to you, remember that God is with you. Never forget that He is always working and moving on your behalf and He never leaves you alone to fight this battle. Even when Joseph was sold to the Midianites as their slave, God’s hand was present. You see, the Midianites who bought Joseph eventually sold him to Potiphar, an Egyptian officer of Pharaoh, who liked Joseph and placed him in a position of honor and authority. Scripture tells us the LORD was with Joseph, so he became a successful man. (Genesis 39:2) God was guiding his footsteps, bringing people into his life and ordering his way so that he could find his place in the Pharaoh’s palace and be successful.

Believe that God is with you. Just as He led and guided Joseph through slavery, He can lead and guide you through the hardships of infertility. You may feel that you’ve been thrown into a prison of despair with your most recent failed procedure or that you’ve been taken prisoner to sadness by a miscarriage. God is still with you and still orchestrating the events of your life to lead you to success. Even when Joseph was wrongly accused and went to prison, God didn’t abandon him. Genesis 39:21 says But the LORD was with Joseph and extended kindess to him, and gave him favor in the sight of the chief jailer. Joseph was placed in a position of authority even while in prison. God will not abandon you in this season of your life. Don’t let Satan convince you that trials in your life are proof that God has left you alone. Never! God didn’t abandon Joseph in the pit. God didn’t abandon Joseph in the prison. God hasn’t abandoned you in your infertility!

Travel with me to the end of Joseph’s story. He started as a 17 year old boy in a field with 11 jealous brothers. He’s gone through pits and prisons, and now he stands as second in command of Egypt with those same brothers trembling in fear in front of him. They’ve been caught. They know that he knows what they’ve done. They thought their dirty deeds from years gone by were as dead and buried as he was, but now they find that God had favored him and raised him to a position of power and all they can do is grovel at his feet begging for mercy. What does Joseph say?

“As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good...”

Infertility feels like something horrible in your life. You want a baby more than you want your next breath. It feels like evil against you, but God can turn it for good. He’ll move through infertility’s impossibilities in your life like He did in the impossibilities in Noah’s life. He’ll ask for your trust and He’ll keep His promises. He’ll stay with you in the pits and prisons just like He did for Joseph. He’ll show you favor and orchestrate events to bring you success just like He did for Joseph. Life is full of impossibilities, but God! Infertility seems impossible to tolerate but God! Satan may try to convince you that your marriage won’t survive or that you’ll never get through this, but God is with you and has a plan!

But God...!

But God...!

But God...!

-Beth Forbus

 

[blue33]

Godsjewel, thank you so much! A majority of those were not on my list, but I have written them down now. Unfortunately we have to do ivf because the only tube I have is blocked. I'm sure I will have more questions along the way, so I probably will be messaging you. Thank you again!

 

[Godsjewel]

Godsjewel, thank you so much! A majority of those were not on my list, but I have written them down now. Unfortunately we have to do ivf because the only tube I have is blocked. I'm sure I will have more questions along the way, so I probably will be messaging you. Thank you again!

You are more than welcome my dear, I love being able to help in any way I can

 

[Godsjewel]

1 Be gracious to me, O God, for man has trampled upon me;

Fighting all day long he oppresses me.

2 My foes have trampled upon me all day long,

For they are many who fight proudly against me.

3 When I am afraid,

I will put my trust in You.

4 In God, whose word I praise,

In God I have put my trust;

I shall not be afraid

What can mere man do to me?

5 All day long they distort my words;

All their thoughts are against me for evil.

6 They attack, they lurk,

They watch my steps,

As they have waited to take my life.

7 Because of wickedness, cast them forth,

In anger put down the peoples, O God!

8 You have taken account of my wanderings;

Put my tears in Your bottle

Are they not in Your book?

9 Then my enemies will turn back in the day when I call;

This I know, that God is for me.

10 In God, whose word I praise,

In the LORD, whose word I praise,

11 In God I have put my trust, I shall not be afraid.

What can man do to me?

12 Your vows are binding upon me, O God;

I will render thank offerings to You.

13 For You have delivered my soul from death,

Indeed my feet from stumbling,

So that I may walk before God

In the light of the living.

Psalm 56

What about infertility frightens you the most? Is it the fear that you may never conceive, or that if you do you may miscarry? Perhaps you are afraid that your marriage can’t take the strain that infertility causes. Maybe the terror that keeps you awake at night is the fear of those awful needles you must use to inject your meds each day--or the fact that your husband has to inject them!

Whatever aspect of infertility causes you to fear, you have a place to turn. Psalm 56 is a handbook of reminders of where to turn when fear grips your heart. When I am afraid, I will put my trust in You. No matter the fear you feel, you can trust God to be with you and work things for your good.

You’re familiar with the routine. You lie in bed at night after a hectic day of work and doctor’s appointments and for the first time all day your world has finally fallen silent. The worries and the pressure of infertility begin to creep into your mind, and fear begins to settle in its usual place in your heart. Tears start to sting your eyes as you lie in the dark and all those worries and fears start to parade through your mind. “What if I never get pregnant? What if I lose a baby? What if he doesn’t want to try anymore? What if we can’t ever agree on adoption? God, where are You?

Do yourself a favor. Memorize Psalm 56--every single verse. In those moments when fear grips your heart and you don’t know how you’re going to make it through one more day of fighting infertility, you’ll have the powerful Word of God deep within you whether you have your Bible with you or not. You can remind yourself that when you are afraid, you can trust in God. Rather than ruminating on test results that were not as good as you had hoped, you can fill your mind with encouragement that God knows your frustrations and tears, and has taken account of every one: “You have... Put my tears in Your bottle. Are they not in Your book?”

Finally, take verse 9 and personalize it. Make it your own. Then my enemies...Who are your enemies? Infertility? Endometriosis? Polycystic ovarian syndrome? Unexplained infertility? Recurrent Miscarriage? Replace the word “enemy” with the name of the enemy you face, and memorize that verse:

Then my enemies--endometriosis and polycystic ovarian syndrome will turn back in the day when I call; This I know, that God is for me!

What do we truly have to fear? Infertility is no match for the God who created us, and this we know, that God is for us! When you are afraid, trust in God who is for you!

-Beth Forbus

 

[uwa_amanda]

Good morning ladies,

I am in need of prayers this morning. I just found out this morning that due to the government shutdown, we may not get DH's disability money at the end if the month. We are reliant on that money to keep a roof over our heads and food on the table. I don't make enough money by myself to keep the bills up to date. I know that God already has this worked out but please pray that I have the strength to not let this get to me. It's not fun finding out that but in actuality, I should have seen it coming. I have been doing too good lately for stuff like this to come up and knock me off my butt. Hopefully, everything will work out with government negotiations so everything can get back to up and running again! Being in limbo is no fun!

Thanks! Stay blessed!

 

[Godsjewel]

Good morning ladies,

I am in need of prayers this morning. I just found out this morning that due to the government shutdown, we may not get DH's disability money at the end if the month. We are reliant on that money to keep a roof over our heads and food on the table. I don't make enough money by myself to keep the bills up to date. I know that God already has this worked out but please pray that I have the strength to not let this get to me. It's not fun finding out that but in actuality, I should have seen it coming. I have been doing too good lately for stuff like this to come up and knock me off my butt. Hopefully, everything will work out with government negotiations so everything can get back to up and running again! Being in limbo is no fun!

Thanks! Stay blessed!

I'm sorry sweetie

Here is something I found that may be helpful. I've recently learned that we need to constantly speak God's word over our situation. I have been doing this lately and it's totally helped with my faith in believing all things are going to be ok.

Speaking the Word Over Your Finances
Speaking the Word of God over your finances helps you in several ways. For one thing, it renews your mind to God's Word. This is where we will have some of the biggest battles in our Christian life, because
that's where much of the doubt, fear, and unbelief enter in, as read in 2 Corinthians 10:4, 5:4 (For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds
5 Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ; Over the last several days, at the end of our daily devotions, I've been sharing with you 3 John 2.

For at least five years, I've read it almost every day on our Word of Faith Radio Broadcast. And based on my experience of teaching, that's usually a sign, or an indication that God is preparing us for something.
It is either that, or He's just encouraging us in a situation. For instance, you are either in a financial trial, or one's coming. Instead of resisting what the Spirit of God is saying to the church, we need to yield and flow with Him. So, whether we're in a financial dilemma or trial presently, or whether the Lord is preparing us for the future, either way--all of us, as believers, need to stay built up spiritually in both areas of our lives: financially, and health-wise.

One way that we're able to accomplish this is by constantly meditating on the Word of God and speaking it out of our mouths. We need to speak scriptures such as:
Joshua 1:8
This book of the law shall not depart out of thy mouth; but thou shalt meditate therein day and night, that thou mayest observe to do according to all that is written therein: for then thou shalt make thy way prosperous, and then thou shalt have good success.
Psalms 35:27
Let them shout for joy, and be glad, that favour my righteous cause: yea, let them say continually, Let the LORD be magnified, which hath pleasure in the prosperity of his servant.
Hebrews 13:15
By him therefore let us offer the sacrifice of praise to God continually, that is, the fruit of our lips giving thanks to his name.
And, what Jesus said in John 15:7:
If ye abide in me, and my words abide in you, ye shall ask what ye will, and it shall be done unto you. As many times as possible during the day, when thoughts come to you about your finances or your health, just say out loud to yourself, "God wishes above all things that I prosper and be in health, even as my soul prospers." This will help build up your spirit man, help you to become fully persuaded that prosperity and health are God's will for you, and it will help you resist negative thoughts from the enemy.
We've got to persuade ourselves, as believers, that the promises of God are God's will for us.

When I got saved, I believed God wanted His people to be prosperous and in good health, and I share those verses of scripture with many believers. But I had a very difficult time believing it was God's will for me. In the long run, that difficulty that I had in the beginning, later became a blessing to help me realize that when I'm doubting God and His Word, I'm behind in faith and in unbelief. It's then that I need to get myself busy with my confession of faith and get myself built back up.
Just as in the natural, it's no fun on your flesh to try to lose weight when you gain it. Well, your carnal nature doesn't enjoy quoting the promises of God all day long in order for you to get yourself built back up to where you're not sinking in doubt and unbelief. I want to share some scriptures with you today. I would like for you to mark them in your Bible and write
them out on an index card. Carry them with you and, every time you get the opportunity, read them to yourself.

Mark 11:23 For verily I say unto you, That whosoever shall say unto this mountain, Be thou removed, and be thou cast into the sea; and shall not doubt in his heart, but shall believe that those things which he saith shall come to pass; he shall have whatsoever he saith.

2 Corinthians 8:9 For ye know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that, though he was rich, yet for your sakes he became poor, that ye through his poverty might be rich.

John 10:10 The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it
more abundantly.

Galatians 3:13, 14, & 29 13 Christ hath redeemed us from the curse of the law, being made a curse for us: for it is written, Cursed is every one that hangeth on a tree:14 That the blessing of Abraham might come on the
Gentiles through Jesus Christ; that we might receive the promise of the Spirit through faith. 29 And if ye be Christ’s, then are ye Abraham’s seed, and heirs according to the promise.

Malachi 3:10-12 10 Bring ye all the tithes into the storehouse, that there may be meat in mine house, and prove me now herewith, saith the LORD of hosts, if I will not open you the windows of heaven, and pour you out a blessing, that there shall not be room enough to receive it 11
And I will rebuke the devourer for your sakes, and he shall not destroy the fruits of your ground; neither shall your vine cast her fruit before the time in the field, saith the LORD of hosts. 12 And all nations shall call you blessed: for ye shall be a delightsome land, saith the LORD of hosts.

Matthew 6:33 But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.

3 John 2 BELOVED, I WISH ABOVE ALL THINGS THAT THOU MAYEST PROSPER AND BE IN HEALTH, EVEN AS THY SOUL PROSPERETH.

Stay faithful with it and don't let a day go by that you go to bed without reading these scriptures to yourself. These verses will build you up spiritually, and they will help you believe God for financial increase in your life.

 

[Mattsgirl]

Hi ladies I know I don't post here often but I do read and keep up with everybody. You guys are some of the best prayer warriors I know so I'm asking for your prayers. Some of you may remember that my younger sister and I got pregnant at the same time last year, and then she she lost the baby. She ended up having 2 D&C's because the messed up the first one. Well she told me about a month ago that she was 2 months late but that there was NO WAY she could be pregnant. Then on Sunday we were at our SIL's and after going to the bathroom went running out of the house crying. All of us wee really confused and had no idea what was wrong. I got a call from my mom yesterday saying they were at the doctors and that she had another miscarriage. They were waiting to tell everybody until they were in the 2nd tri (which sadly was only about a week away). Please pray that her D&C this morning goes smoothly and that they don't screw up this time. Also pray that God gives her peace. Last time she was so heartbroken that she almost never wanted kids.
Thank you so much for your prayers they really mean alot to my family.

 

[ProfWife]

Oh no!! I am so sorry. I'll be praying for you all.

 

[Godsjewel]

Hi ladies I know I don't post here often but I do read and keep up with everybody. You guys are some of the best prayer warriors I know so I'm asking for your prayers. Some of you may remember that my younger sister and I got pregnant at the same time last year, and then she she lost the baby. She ended up having 2 D&C's because the messed up the first one. Well she told me about a month ago that she was 2 months late but that there was NO WAY she could be pregnant. Then on Sunday we were at our SIL's and after going to the bathroom went running out of the house crying. All of us wee really confused and had no idea what was wrong. I got a call from my mom yesterday saying they were at the doctors and that she had another miscarriage. They were waiting to tell everybody until they were in the 2nd tri (which sadly was only about a week away). Please pray that her D&C this morning goes smoothly and that they don't screw up this time. Also pray that God gives her peace. Last time she was so heartbroken that she almost never wanted kids.
Thank you so much for your prayers they really mean alot to my family.

My heart feels for your sister. It was the most heartbreaking thing I've ever had to go through and I can only imagine having to go through it twice. I will definitely be keep your sis and her hubby in my prayers.

 

[blue33]

I actually got good news from our fs today!! Contrary to what my obgyn said, our fs said today that he doesn't think we have to go with ivf. Instead he thinks we are really good candidates for having my tube unblocked through laproscopic, so its scheduled for November 8th. I am so happy with this news, because my obgyn had told me that we shouldn't have the surgery done because the risk of another ectopic was extremely high for us, but our fs said it wasn't that high of a risk, only about 25%. He was so optimistic!!

I'm also very happy because he is a very nice Christian man, who brought up God's name 3 different times during our appointment. It's so comforting to me to know that about a doctor. He also assured us that with God's help, he will help us have a little one!

Thanks for reading! I just wanted to share my news!