lisaf
Super tired new mom
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you know, just because I have a good sleeper, doesn't make me an expert on everyone else's babies. I'm always happy to share what we have done in case it helps, but just because I got the good end result doesn't mean that doing what I do will make every child sleep like this. I hate people who shove advice/opinions at you as if it will work for you like it did for them.
I let Daniel nap on me early on (not often but sometimes, especially when I was desperate for some sleep). He was in his cradle/crib in our room at first, then we had him in his cradle/crib in his own room for a while before transferring him to his crib/cot. None of that was intentional, just what we did because DH was a light sleeper and we used the rocking feature on his cradle at first to soothe him.
I did many things 'wrong' too and it didn't punish me in the end. It may not be a real cause and effect thing.... like what if people with babies who don't sleep well keep co-sleeping out of desperation to soothe their kids without losing too much sleep themselves? (I don't really know much about this topic, just a thought)
I sleep that heavy Lou.. It is kind of scary. I've hurt myself in my sleep by staying in an akward position (toe stuck at a 90 degree angle upwards into the mattress, pulled something in my hand before etc)
I let Daniel nap on me early on (not often but sometimes, especially when I was desperate for some sleep). He was in his cradle/crib in our room at first, then we had him in his cradle/crib in his own room for a while before transferring him to his crib/cot. None of that was intentional, just what we did because DH was a light sleeper and we used the rocking feature on his cradle at first to soothe him.
I did many things 'wrong' too and it didn't punish me in the end. It may not be a real cause and effect thing.... like what if people with babies who don't sleep well keep co-sleeping out of desperation to soothe their kids without losing too much sleep themselves? (I don't really know much about this topic, just a thought)
I sleep that heavy Lou.. It is kind of scary. I've hurt myself in my sleep by staying in an akward position (toe stuck at a 90 degree angle upwards into the mattress, pulled something in my hand before etc)