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[SBB]

Put him in bed 2 hours ago. Still not asleep. I can't do this every night

X x x

 

[babyloulou]

Same here Suz Tried to get him to bed at 7 and he's still fighting now! it's so draining and depressing! He's not slept once all day either

 

[SBB]

It is so depressing

Plus I had a big fight with Danny earlier...

Danny was teaching for 3 hours and then took sammuel in to his guitar room and played pink floyd loud in the dark and he's gone to sleep.

Try it! It usually works with sammuel but I couldn't get in there cos he was teaching.

I don't think I can do it for much longer without some sort of breakdown!

X x x

 

[babyloulou]

Ben's asleep now too finally. I'm not sure how long it will last though...

Me and Ste are not speaking much tonight either- it's not like us but he's really annoying me! His Mum had a "talk" to him last week about BLW- told him it's wrong and we're going to kill Ben etc... Now Ste was fine about it and put her right and everything was ok. But everyday I email a photo to both the mums and Ste at work of something Ben is doing that day- lately they've been BLW photos. Well since she made it clear it scares her I've been sending a food one to my mum and Ste and then a second non-food one to them all. Ste has noticed today that his mum is no longer copied into the food one and is being really mardy! I've tried saying to him that I'm still being fine with his mum and that i'm not bothered by what she said but I've just decided to leave the BLW side out of it for a while! It's not as if I've cut her off completely and I'm still sending her a photo a day and she doesn't know about the extra food photos! I know his problem is because his brother's wife is really evil to his mum so he's extra sensitive about my relationship with her but I just think he's being ridiculous!! He just told me to "shut up Louise!" so I'm not speaking to him now!

 

[Peach Blossom]

Aw girls, I'm sorry you're having bad night with your boys and men...

 

[SBB]

Oh lou he is being a bit silly!! You've only backed off cos she's got an issue with it...

I can understand why he's bothered though given the SIL situation I guess. But really... You're not being mean!

X x x

 

[Peach Blossom]

Suz do you want rows or like the one I posted? That's cool if you want to send me the wool for a tester. 4 balls should be enough for a pram blanket. What price are you getting the wool for? Xx

 

[SBB]

I think 1 ball is £2.20. Does that seem reasonable?

I can't remember the blankets we looked at before, or the one you posted really, so maybe I'll have a look back at the emails we sent!

X x x

 

[Peach Blossom]

This one. https://i165.photobucket.com/albums/u73/jessicalchu/6ae4af99.jpg

£2.20 is ok, but doesn't sound like a wholesale price... Although they can be up to £4.50 a ball. Xx

 

[babyloulou]

Lovely blanket Jess!

What did you fight with Danny about Suz?

Thanks for Ben's votes girls

 

[babyloulou]

Lovely blanket Jess!

What did you fight with Danny about Suz?

Thanks for Ben's votes girls

 

[babyloulou]

Lovely blanket Jess!

What did you fight with Danny about Suz?

Thanks for Ben's votes girls

 

[babyloulou]

Stupid internet! Double posting!

 

[babyloulou]

Oh it was a triple posting!!

Hey 5 posts in a row! That must be a record!

 

[SBB]

That one is lovely Jess! Maybe I can send you enough for 2 and you can do one striped and one like that?

Yeh I think it's not cheap wool, wholesale on the stuff I'm buying is generally half the price and I think this wool retails for £4 something a ball... I can't remember! It's all fair-trade as well so slightly more.

Lou, the argument was because I over reacted. A couple of weeks ago at the ILs dannys brother mentioned going to some car thing... It was a 2 second conversation anyway, I said I didn't want to go and that was that. So today Danny agreed to going, it's on Sunday.
We had talked about getting GPs to babysit and sort out our garage on Sunday so we can put stock in there.
Anyway, I was pissed off he'd agreed to go out for the whole day, without even discussing. He says I knew about it because his brother mentioned it!! It was a 2 second convo and he didn't say when it was etc.
Anyway... I did totally over react. But I'm stressed, I have no money, trying to set up the website, sammuel not sleeping... Etc etc. I just felt like it's another day when nothing will get done, and I wasn't even consulted!
Danny goes back to work soon so I'm stressing about that too...


X x x

 

[Onelildream]

ur welcome Lou. Glad to help. I do HATE popularity contests they do lately... I would rather a judge did it than having to round up your friends...seems unfair.

Go see Connor's video on FB...Not sure how to post it on here...might take ages, and I need a nap after 3.5 hrs of sleep last night.

 

[Onelildream]

Sorry Suz. I hate when hubs changes plans EVER when they are not what I wanted to do. I hate when we plan anything, actually, and there is any deviation. I do not do well when plans change.

 

[babyloulou]

I've watched the video Chell! It's adorable! I wish Ben giggled like that! He's a right miserable fecker!! All he does is moan and growl! I LOVE your accent too!! X

Suz- I think it's normal to feel like that when we have a baby 24-7 and yet their lives still seem easier than ours! If I'm honest tonight's argument with Ste was probably worse because I'm pissed off hes going on a stag night on Saturday and is away for the weekend! I know it's irrational as it's his best friend but I really don't want to be left with Ben's non-sleeping and have to do the evening settling by myself! And to top it all off I'll have the dogs all weekend too and our terrier us almost more work than Ben!!! I think I've told you before but he won't go for a poo on the garden because he's too scared to- but the problem is he needs poos constantly!! For instance today he had 3 walks at work with Ste- he did 2 poos on every walk! Then he came home at 6:30 and was fed- he then needed a walk and poo at 7:30- cried for another at 9pm which I took him for and then cried for another at 11 which Ste took him for!! How am I supposed to cope with that on my own!? I can't take him once Ben's in bed!!!

Oh and to top it off the lad whose stag night it is, is also an old friend of mine- I've know Ste and his mates since we were 14- but I can't go to the wedding either It's in Newcastle and his girlfriend has decided on no kids/babies! I can't leave Ben with baby sitters cos he still doesn't take bottles (or sleep) so again Ste's going on his own

 

[Onelildream]

Lou-can you invite someone to come with you? I brought a babysitter with me to Vegas for a wedding and just had the girl watch the kids for 2 hours...anyone can handle that! Then, just paid for her room and board there. it worked out great!

 

[babyloulou]

The problem is Chell that the wedding is not in a hotel or anything- it's in a country barn in the middle of nowhere! Plus I'm not sure anyone would agree to babysit a baby that doesn't sleep! :-/