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Verna you are wondrful!
V I had one from John Lewis, a friend bought it, I liked it, but a rolled up blanket or another pillow would have done just as well! I'll find a link to it...
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Hey there's a new multi quote function
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Euronova
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wow it's even more expensive than the dreamgenii... i just looked on ebay and someone is selling a never used one, just the packaging is not sealed... they have a 100% review... and i figure if i wash it before i use it anyway... i might be worse saving the money (£20 instead of £39.99)
Peach Blossom
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Hi girls
V, you can have my dream genii if you want. Doesn't look I'll be needing it in the near future.
Not feeling great today. Ill and down, plus Lili has been a whingey clingy nightmare... All getting a bit too much.
Love you girls x
V, you can have my dream genii if you want. Doesn't look I'll be needing it in the near future.
Not feeling great today. Ill and down, plus Lili has been a whingey clingy nightmare... All getting a bit too much.
Love you girls
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Peach Blossom
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I just wish I knew what was going to happen... 
Peach Blossom
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I got in to a bit of a tizz last night because I hadn't heard from him and he had said that he would be in touch that he would ask about Lili and that he would let me know the details of where he is staying in Portugal in case of an emergency. I text him to tell he was being irresponsible and selfish and did I dream the conversation we had had... I also laid in tohim about nnot responding to my email about wanting to read the email to WF. This morning I got an email. He said that he hadn't replied because mine was a long and extremely long email with life changing consequences.... Um, am I the only one to have made life chaning statements in the last 2 weeks?!!... he said that he had emailed her. He said that he wasn't going to let me read the email as it was private... he also said that I over reacted last night and that if I was going to be like that he couldn't stomach it and couldn't live his life like that. He thinks I mad just beacuse he didn't sned me hotel details... I'm mad that he didn't once in 24 hours ask after Lili like he said he would. He begged me not to take Lili away and said that I would force him to stay with me just to stay with Lili... I don't know if I can keep going back and forth like this... A large part of me just wants to call it quits...
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awww Jess, thank you! I did get the one on ebay in the end but thank you so much for offering... i think i needed to do some retail therapy
I can't believe his cheek.... so he is not responding to your email because it was long??? what about just being in touch to say he will respond in detail when he had time?? Is he completely stupid or what? It doesn't look like he is making ANY efforts!
Then the email to WF is the worse really, it's too private for you to read??? god I wish i knew what he wrote? I bet he is not telling her that he is leaving her, i bet he is merely saying that she has to be patient while he save his reputation by pretending to want counselling etc... so he can blame the break up on you! He is doing it already saying that you are exaggerating and he can't live his life like that!! Can't you see he is turning things on you the sick ba*tard!!
I m so sorry you are ill on top of it all
don't let him get into his head, nothing in this situation is your fault!
I can't believe his cheek.... so he is not responding to your email because it was long??? what about just being in touch to say he will respond in detail when he had time?? Is he completely stupid or what? It doesn't look like he is making ANY efforts!
Then the email to WF is the worse really, it's too private for you to read??? god I wish i knew what he wrote? I bet he is not telling her that he is leaving her, i bet he is merely saying that she has to be patient while he save his reputation by pretending to want counselling etc... so he can blame the break up on you! He is doing it already saying that you are exaggerating and he can't live his life like that!! Can't you see he is turning things on you the sick ba*tard!!
I m so sorry you are ill on top of it all
don't let him get into his head, nothing in this situation is your fault!
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Aw Jess, do you have another counseling session scheduled when he gets back? I can't tell if his heart really isn't in giving things a good try and he's looking for any excuse to leave, or if there is some major misunderstandings here and lack of understanding on his part.
I don't think its fair that he doesn't let you read that email, but maybe a counselor could have a good idea for how you two can negotiate that? Maybe find a neutral 3rd party to read the email and then relay to you the gist of what was said without you having to hear things that may mess with your head more but to reassure you that he is not hiding anything else.
He needs to understand that he has majorly violated your trust... this means that he has to be way more above board, open, and honest in order to rebuild that trust. Minor things like not contacting you when he said he would are a BIG deal during a time for healing/trust-building. But again, that is something a counselor might be better able to explain to him? Might help him see things from your side of the situation where hearing you say it just won't get through to him?
I don't think its fair that he doesn't let you read that email, but maybe a counselor could have a good idea for how you two can negotiate that? Maybe find a neutral 3rd party to read the email and then relay to you the gist of what was said without you having to hear things that may mess with your head more but to reassure you that he is not hiding anything else.
He needs to understand that he has majorly violated your trust... this means that he has to be way more above board, open, and honest in order to rebuild that trust. Minor things like not contacting you when he said he would are a BIG deal during a time for healing/trust-building. But again, that is something a counselor might be better able to explain to him? Might help him see things from your side of the situation where hearing you say it just won't get through to him?
Jess from an outsiders point of view his behaviour is utterly ridiculous, and bordering on insane. How can he possibly say you are over reacting? How can he say that he couldn't answer your email because it involves life changing decisions?
He shouldn't have to promise to ask about Lili, he should just WANT to know. I seriously am concerned that if you split his interest in her will just dwindle to nothing
I'm sorry I don't know what to suggest... If I'm honest I can't see how you can possibly work this out
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He shouldn't have to promise to ask about Lili, he should just WANT to know. I seriously am concerned that if you split his interest in her will just dwindle to nothing
I'm sorry I don't know what to suggest... If I'm honest I can't see how you can possibly work this out
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Right now, neither can I Suz...
