Clomid & male factor infertility

[MySillyGirls]

Hi, all is well here! Fully and completely surrounded by pregnant people. LOL

 

[MySillyGirls]

Miranda, can't wait to hear about your scan! My friend from college had her transfer last week...two 5 day blasts

 

[Mamamirfy]

That's awesome! Is that the same protocol you will be doing? Or is that someone else? Do you have any dates?

 

[pink32]

hi Girls,

i have had such a shit few days....my boss has been a real arse since he found out i was pregnant, and on friday he was really really bad....we had a meeting and all he did was belittle me and put me down where i have actually brought them in a shit load of business....cut a long story short he was bullying me and wanted me to answer him on what sales where going to come off in the next 3 months (but i wouldnt be working on it) and i said i cannot speak on somebody elses behalf and would not know their capabilities therefore cannot answer your question...
well he didnt like that so he kept yelling and being really nasty so i walked out of the meeting.....i came back and he told me that's the first and last time i will ever disrespect him for walking out of a meeting when he was not finished! i go to him so u think u can insult me for 40 mins and i need to listen to it, and u tell a client u arnt happy i'm pregnant and they tell u u cannot be like this? he then threatens me and tells me i dont know what a real boss is like and that he will now make my life a living misery....

at this point i was crying and absolutely shocked...i started getting stomach cramps and i left work! i couldnt believe what i was hearing and what i was going through....

i'm at work now but he is off today and tommorow, so i decided to report it to HR i thought i have worked too hard for somebody to treat me in this way....

can u believe that in this day and age that there are people out there that still have such an old fashioned mentality?

i went to the docs because i was cramping from all the stress and he wanted me to have the week off but i thought i'd do the right thing and come in since i've got all of Jan off. anyways i'm going to go get a scan done on wednesday just for piece of mind but i'm just mortified how i've been treated.

hope you girls are well xoxo

 

[MySillyGirls]

Miranda, yes she is on almost the same protocol I will be on! So, hope it works for me too! I start Lupron on 12/31 and then should start stims on 1/6. So, I am guessing retrieval will be 1/18-1/20ish...if all goes well.

Pink, that completely and totally sucks. No polite way to say that. What an idiot! Ihope your HR dept gives this guy a wakeup call. Do you guys have the same type of anti-discrimination laws that we have?

Hugs!

 

[Mamamirfy]

Pink- oh my gosh! You poor thing. What a total jackass. I can't believe he spoke to u like that and said he was now going to make your life miserable. That's wrong and I hope he gets talking to and smartens up. I'm sure your scan will be fine but absolutely will give you pecs of mind.

Lesley- it's all happening now. I can't wait for you to start. It's so exciting!

As for me, I am ill. All day everyday. Yuck.

 

[pink32]

hey guys,

yeh our HR is pretty good here and laws for discrimination, bullying and pregnancy are extremely strict and taken very seriously this is why i was totally blown away with the comments he made....he just thinks i wont do anything but i feel better that i reported it to HR at least...she was very understanding and supportive....

Wow you start your protocol now silly thats great, what day? another friend of mine on here just had her FET and found out she was pregnant now we just gotta see with how many - they transferred 3!!! so imagine she could be having twins....lol

mirf u poor thing - sick all day every day! mmm so glad i missed out on it this time round...but i do have a new symptom now! feeling extemely dizzy...last nite i coudnt get up for 3 hours felt terrible....but i'm loving every minute of it.

i'm going for a scan this arvo - always great to see the little bubba! just going for peace of mind! xoxo

 

[pink32]

i just re-read my post was suppose to read triplets but u guys know what i mean by now....

 

[Mamamirfy]

Yep...I knew what you meant

How did your scan go?

 

[pink32]

Scan went well baby was active so juz stress related pains n anxiety. Today my hr called me n said my boss had told her I hadn't received my Xmas present from da owners!!! I couldn't believe wot I was hearing. I mean y would he
Make up such a lie!!! He hasn't called me in anyway just had 1 email from him, thankgoodness. We're moving to QLD so I'm glad I won't have to see him but I'll still report to the loser... I'm so stressed out from him it's not funny.

Just trying to get thru the last few days here...

How r u??? My gosh 2 more days and we find out how many u got in there... So exciting xoxo

 

[Mamamirfy]

So happy to hear that baby is doing well. I don't understand....whatdid your boss do? Thank heavens you're moving! Whereabouts in QL?

I have a busy day ( it's pamper me day) and then tomorrow I get see the heartbeat! Cant wait!

 

[pink32]

we're moving in between brisbane and the Gold Coast..i'm originally from there but my husbands family was all in Sydney, now we're going back...

Awesome, i bet ur really excited about ur scan....its always exciting no matter how many times you go

 

[Mamamirfy]

Twins!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

https://i1120.photobucket.com/albums/l493/msuzick/002-1.jpg

 

[MySillyGirls]

O. M. G. UNBELIEVABLE!!!! hahahaa!!! I TOLD you!! See, you TOTALLY got your money's worth. LOL

 

[Mamamirfy]

Sure did! I can't believe it still. Tried for so many years to get pregnant with one and now I'm carrying two! I feel SO lucky

 

[MySillyGirls]

This is a Two-fer. You ARE lucky and blessed!

 

[pink32]

Wow! i just logged on and TWINS i told you so! CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!! you got exactly what u wanted 2!!! thats great news i'm very happy for you!!!

are you going to find out the sex of the babies?

the scan is perfect its sooo clear! is you husband happy theres 2 too???

i've had a real shit couple of days! work is trying to now demote me and reduce my salary by $30k....just before xmas...dont know whats going to happen there but i'm sure i'll find out next week some time...

i also have a urinary tract infection which i didnt even know i had and the doctor gave me atibiotics to take...Amoxycillin! so paranoid me googled it, asked the pharmacist etc etc....it's apparantly safe during pregnancy but i still worry.....apparantly i had a bit of blood in my urine yesterday when they checked my urine so she said better to be safe than sorry....She said that a Urinary tract infection may be detrimental in pregnancy so best to treat it asap.

hope i'm doing the right thing taking these atibiotics!!!!! i really hope so....

May you both have a Very Merry Xmas and enjoy the day with your families xoxoxo

 

[MySillyGirls]

Hi, Pink! I am so sorry to hear what your company is doing to you. That seems entirely unfair.

I also had a uti when pg with my daughter. Apparently, it is pretty common

 

[Mamamirfy]

Thank you!

I can't believe they are demoting you.....your boss sounds like a real piece of work. If they are saying the antibiotics are safe...I'm sure they are. Better to trust the experts and get rid of it

Merry Christmas girls! Have a wonderful next few days surrounded my family and friends. I hope Santa is good to you

 

[GillAwaiting]

Just read the whole 70 pages and followed all your stories. Congraulations Mirf and Pink. Sillygirls dont give up. My sister had ivf at 40 and has a lovely 2 yr old girl now. Thanks for giving me some hope for next year and Happy Christmas.