This has been such a great read. I was almost holding my breath going to the next page to see what was happening. I dont mean to sound like an eejit but it was like a movie, laughing, crying, anger, happiness the whole span across a few continents. I felt like I was there with you guys. The waiting is so long and its so nice to read something hopeful to keep a soul going. I had a m/c at 3 mths back in April. This year was the longest year of my life and to get such bad news coming into 2011 was devastating. We had our consultation with FS on the 21st of Dec to get all results. DH's sperm count is at 2.8million. All the soy, b6, vitamins aren't going to fix it. The FS wrote to my gp a few months back basically giving him an earbashing for referring us so soon. We women have good instincts. Im so glad I listened to mine and persevered with the tests. Imagine how bad this would be to find out in 2 yrs time? Im 33 in few weeks. FS said something about genetic testing. Now my DH is wondering if his little soliders have more problems than numbers and maybe that contributed to the miscarriage. We will never really know. Anyway ladies, thank you for being so assertive, for doing what you thought was right for you and getting on with it. You've given me some strength to keep going and fight the good fight. Cheers to 2011 bringing you everything your true heart desires.