I agree..sometimes people can be insensitive. When I was pregnant with my DS, my SIL was pregnant too. Unfortunately she had a miscarriage and after her miscarriage, I never ever talked about my pregnancy. Didn't even show her my ultrasound pictures and she never even asked me how it was progressing (and she was someone I saw maybe 2-3 times per week). She fell pregnant again maybe 10 weeks before my DS was born but she didn't tell anyone. She chose to announce her pregnancy the day I had DS. When everyone was in the hospital to visit me she took out her ultrasound pics and started showing it. I was so angry as she always made it about her. I didn't celebrate my pregnancy infront of her, atleast don't steal my thunder on the day my son was born.