Lissa3120
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Me and My daughter Co-sleep, But never when I'm REALLY tired. But when I put her in her crib she sleeps until about 4am and then wants to be with me, so I bring her in with me, and with in seconds she's gone. So she basically sleeps through the night. But I was on another site and it said that cot death was most common in a parents bed or a sofa whilst co-sleeping. But We've always co-slept, and she (as far as i am aware) is a thriving little baby. I try to take advice from the professionals, and sometimes i see what they mean by bed sharing being unsafe. But i'm a single mum, so i don't share a bed with a partner, and i do it the way my HV advised me to, no pillows, head on my arm or on my chest, and it seems to work for us. My mum doesn't like it, i think because she is concerned by what she has heard and also about settling LO in her own bed/room. But I just love her company and i tend to sleep better WITH her on me.
I just want to know if anyone else Co-sleeps, and if you've had any problems with it. Like could i really be risking the life of my daughter? Because I would get up every minute of every hour just to settle her if that's what it takes to keep her safest, but I was under the impression that as long as you did it safely it was no better or worse for baby as long as it suits you and works for the two of you. Am i wrong?
I just want to know if anyone else Co-sleeps, and if you've had any problems with it. Like could i really be risking the life of my daughter? Because I would get up every minute of every hour just to settle her if that's what it takes to keep her safest, but I was under the impression that as long as you did it safely it was no better or worse for baby as long as it suits you and works for the two of you. Am i wrong?