So, I work directly with another girl and we are somewhat close at work - we don't do anything outside of work. Anyways, she found out she was pregnant last year April but it ended in a MC in May. She kept saying all last year that they planned on TTC again last month, however, she tells me this week that they aren't having sex so we all know what that means. She is 36. She is one of those people that says I'm gonna do this and I'm gonna do that but then it never ends up amounting to anything at all. When she is out of the office I do her work - when I am out of the office she does my work. I am afraid she and I could possibly get preggers at the same time and the office will be a mess without both of us. We will be TTC in July. Hubby and I have agreed not to tell family or friends about out TTC dates. I don't want this girl to think I am stealing her thunder or making her wait IF I do fall preggers before her because she has been talking about it for so long. But then I can't sit around and wait for her either... I do not want to hurt our kinda friendship. Do I: A- Tell about my TTC time of July? B- Do not tell her about my date and pray for the best? C- Other - Please explain! It's such a hard situation... Thanks for reading if you made it this far!!