Hey ladies! So i had my doctors appointment yesterday and i wanted to share what my doctor had to say in case it can help any of you. so i have been trying to conceive since march of this year. Always had a regular period. Then in about May i noticed my cycle days are getting longer and longer. They went from 29 days to 47. The first thing i was asked was have a gained any weight recently. Well idk about any of you guys but my weight goes up and down all the time! Last summer by SO of 5 years and i split up for 6 months. I drastically lost weight. Well January this year we got back together and i settled back into the home life, the comfortable that i think we all get after being with someone for so long. ANYWAYS i did put on a few pounds. Not a whole lot but more or less that i became less active and started super indulging as im back to making big nice meals for the family. So with just that little bit of a lifestyle change my cycle was thrown off and i am not ovulating on schedule if even at all. So his recommendation... lose 15 pounds. Terrible time of year but i know not only will i be definitely working on it for the hopes in conceiving but i know it feels so so good to just get yourself spruced up a bit. So that will even be a bonus for spicing up the bedroom too! Another thing he said throw away the junk that your using to "try." the stress of all that stuff can cause your body to produce cortisol causing more weight gain and other not good things. (i think that was the correct word) so if you haven't been actually been diagnosed with infertility maybe give it a shot. i know i have turned into a nut job with this whole thing. Lastly! hears his advice for anyone trying. 10 days after you start AF have sex every even day. So day 10, 12, 14, 16, 18, 20. If you are healthy and he is healthy thats your ticket! Ive got til december to get some changes going. Ill check back in to let you guys know how things are going! BFP for christmas is what im going to hope for!
Good Luck to everyone!!