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Conception envy...

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Mommyagain think of it as a little cousin / friend for your LO.

We've been TTC baby 2 for a year and one short lived chemical. I've a SIL who is LTTC and I'm dying for her to get a BFP but I don't know the details of where they are with things and my other SIL has just set her wedding date and I'm sure she will be TTC just afterward and I'm hoping she have baby quickly.

I have a resonable bonds with my cousins because we were all close in age and grew up together. But my sisters kids are 7 and 11 years older than my DS so I can't imagine they will have close bonds although it's important for me to try and give them the chance to develop. So I'd love for him to have a sibbling but failing that some little cousins on his dads side would be wonderful.
 
My DS fortunately has a lot of cousins and second cousins to play with. :) We have a pretty good size family which is always fun and interesting...lol.

I am going in about 4-1/2 hours for my FET transfer and feeling pretty excited ladies. I am going to have to go shave my legs in a minute...haha.
 
I am PUPO with twins! It went really well and both of the frosty babies have good grades...one was A/A and one was A/B. One of our little embryos didn't survive the thaw so we have two left after this try.

I am so happy tonight and praying they are cuddling and making themselves at home.
 
Fingers crossed for you and your wee frosties!
Good luck
 
Oh honey, I'm so sorry. I can relate, When we started ttc 3 1/2 years ago my cousin started TTC at our one year mark. She got bfp first try. I was happy for her...it's when she got BFP within 2 months after giving birth is when I flipped at myself. basically, she had 2 under 2 during my whole time trying. And have had many "I don't want kids" friends get BFP. I keep my feelings to myself because it's not their fault for my infertility but it feels so unfair. Hold in there :hugs:
 
Mommyagain - Your pregnant with twins??? Wow Congratulations! Im so happy for you! thats excellent, you must be over the moon.
 
PUPO=Pregnant Until Proven Otherwise with Twins :) It means I have two little embryos in there. We had a frozen embryo transfer done on 2/11 with two 5 day old blastocysts. So I am hoping they stick around. My official beta is on 2/25 but I know I will probably test before then.

Tamithomas: Hello, I have seen you around a lot on here. :) I know what you mean. I keep a lot of my feelings to myself as well...except for on here maybe. It is good to have other ladies on here who can relate.
 
Oh right - Sorry I got understand much even though my IVF date is coming up soon. lol, but anyhow best of luck. I hope you get what ever you wish! x
 
I didn't know what it was either until I started my IVF journey. I had to look up a few things. Lol.
 
Mommyagain thank you so much for posting this! i thought i was just being petty and jealous for no reason. im glad to hear im not the only one who gets the blues when someone else gets pregnant quick. :cry:

I actually found out yesterday that a girl i was in 4th grade with is pregnant...again...with her 4th child...she is 23. And ive recetly seen a few girls i know get pregnant and they dont want to be, and i end up angry, and feel its not fair at all that there are some people who just pop kids out one after another and dont even try, and then there are other people out there who want nothing more than to be a parent but have such a hard time and struggle. Ive been quite bitter and dont mean to be its just i have a hard time understanding why. ugh. sorry for venting lol but im glad im not the only one who feels this way. You guys made me feel better and like im not crazy. :)

and Congrats on your PUPO!!!! I hope your two little frosites have made themselves comfortable :dance:
 
Thanks for starting this post.

I get conception envy most Sundays as it seems as though everyone in my church has a minimum of 3 kids each and there's always some woman pregnant.

I was hit with conception envy really hard yesterday for no logical reason. I saw a woman in a local supermarket yesterday. I don't know her but I used to see her everyday on my train to and from work. I work somewhere else now so I don't get that train anymore and hadn't seen her for ages.

When I glimpsed her in the supermarket yesterday she was wearing a "Baby on Board" badge and I felt so jealous it was if someone had punched me in the gut.

I feel bad for feeling like this as like I said she is a stranger to me. IT'S NOT FAIR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :brat::hissy:

(OMG I didn't realise how angry I am - I guess that's what happens when you bottle it up.)
 
Oh the emotional rollercoaster!

Feeling angry and jealous is no use. I just want to be a mum so bad it hurts.

Needless to say I'll be pleased when you guys get your BFPs. I wouldn't want to make anyone on here feel bad.
 
Hope3 said:
Oh the emotional rollercoaster!

Feeling angry and jealous is no use. I just want to be a mum so bad it hurts.

Needless to say I'll be pleased when you guys get your BFPs. I wouldn't want to make anyone on here feel bad.
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Your right being angry and jealous is no use but sometimes its just so hard not to be...:grr:
 
LeyLee vent away...that is why we have each other on here for support. No judgment here...lol...I think a lot of us have been there.

Hope3, I totally know what you mean by feeling like you have been punched in the gut. Why I was healing up this past December from surgery, I was scrolling on facebook while I was taking a forced leave from ttc and had been trying not to think on it when I saw some maternity photos of a lady I have known for years. It literally felt like the breath had been knocked out of me and I started thinking what if this cycle doesn't work. We can't afford to do another fresh IVF cycle. I had so much bottled up and I didn't even realize it.
 
i was talking to my mom about my friend thats now preggers with her 4th and venting to her and all she keeps telling me not to worry about it, and not to think about it and it will happen, and as much as i try to believe it will happen when i least expect it im getting very impatient and seeing all my friends starting to have kids only adds to it, it just doesnt seem fair. i am hoping that this last cycle of trying and the clomid worked becuase ive never felt like weve had such a solid chance like this last one, i know i O'd and now im 4dpo and having cramping that i hope its implantation cramping and not just my imagination because i want it so bad! lol. hoping for a BFP next week!!!

Mommyagain - i know what you mean about not being able to afford more IVF, its expensive, so im praying that your 2 little ones come through!!! :flower:
 
6dp5dt and I got a bfn this morning on a FRER....hoping it is just to early to pick up. :(
 
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