I am having such a hard time understanding or listening to information I hear/read on TTC. It seems everything has conflicting reviews. No wonder I have been unsuccessful on getting my BFP. I read one place to BD everyday around O time, other places it is every Second day. If you want to conceive a girl make sure you orgasm after your husband, other say Not to even have an orgasm at all. Put your legs and butt in the air after BDing and stay in bed for 30 mins, others say you can get up right away and go on with your day. Once you get a + on your OPK you O 12 hours after Or is it 48 hours? I mean WHAT is it already. What do I listen to? Or believe? Why cant conceiving being as easy as getting drunk one night and 2 weeks later having a missed period? Is Anyone else as confused as I am?