snagglepat
Mum of 1, another cooking
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Hi Tammy,
Yep, sounds similar. We were really nervous about looking online for a donor but it was our only option and it has worked out so well. We placed our own ad and had 8 responses. Six of them went straight into the bin as weirdo/not suitable but two were possibilities. We met with both of them at which point one just shone out and he has been fantastic. Hugely committed to us yet happy to stick to his word about remaining uninvolved in the parenting process. And he helped make once super cute baby too.
He showed us certificates from his sexual health screen and it was part of our agreement that he get retested every 3 months, which he did. Once we'd known him for a bit we developed sufficient trust in him to be really comfortable in this. This time I haven't even asked to see certificates. I probably should and maybe I will now you've made me think of it, but that trust is so secure now that it actually hadn't occurred to me until this conversation.
Good luck next month! Maybe we'll both get lucky and can have our rainbow number twos at the same time.
Enrisa, I'm 30. I was 28 when I got pregnant with our daughter. However, we tried with my partner for our first 12 cycles and she was 36-38 in that time. She got pregnant once, but unfortunately miscarried. I have several friends who have got pregnant this way in their late 30s though, so it can be done. 35 really isn't that old.
Gina. x
Yep, sounds similar. We were really nervous about looking online for a donor but it was our only option and it has worked out so well. We placed our own ad and had 8 responses. Six of them went straight into the bin as weirdo/not suitable but two were possibilities. We met with both of them at which point one just shone out and he has been fantastic. Hugely committed to us yet happy to stick to his word about remaining uninvolved in the parenting process. And he helped make once super cute baby too.
He showed us certificates from his sexual health screen and it was part of our agreement that he get retested every 3 months, which he did. Once we'd known him for a bit we developed sufficient trust in him to be really comfortable in this. This time I haven't even asked to see certificates. I probably should and maybe I will now you've made me think of it, but that trust is so secure now that it actually hadn't occurred to me until this conversation.
Good luck next month! Maybe we'll both get lucky and can have our rainbow number twos at the same time.
Enrisa, I'm 30. I was 28 when I got pregnant with our daughter. However, we tried with my partner for our first 12 cycles and she was 36-38 in that time. She got pregnant once, but unfortunately miscarried. I have several friends who have got pregnant this way in their late 30s though, so it can be done. 35 really isn't that old.
Gina. x