SucreK
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My twins have been in the hospital in their short 2 years of life for a combined total of approx. 100 days. Most recently, one was in the ICU for 4 days two weeks ago. I was texting with a friend, lamenting how frustrated I get with all the hurdles my girls have had to face and how stressed out I am trying to juggle all of this with a very demanding job. Her response? "Not to be an A**H**E, but you should count your blessings. My friend's husband just passed away."
Ok. A friend's husband passing away is HORRIBLE. But I completely resent the implication that I'm not allowed to be upset/frustrated/down because of the issues my girls face. I'm especially offended, because she has two very healthy sons and really doesn't know this type of heartache.
I have to see her in a few weeks for a gathering of friends and kids, and I almost hope she'll ask me why I haven't been in touch, so I can tell her how upset she made me. But of course, that won't be the right venue.
What would you do? I'm pretty much at the point of writing her off...
Ok. A friend's husband passing away is HORRIBLE. But I completely resent the implication that I'm not allowed to be upset/frustrated/down because of the issues my girls face. I'm especially offended, because she has two very healthy sons and really doesn't know this type of heartache.
I have to see her in a few weeks for a gathering of friends and kids, and I almost hope she'll ask me why I haven't been in touch, so I can tell her how upset she made me. But of course, that won't be the right venue.
What would you do? I'm pretty much at the point of writing her off...