Cycle 1 day 1. Who's with me? *update* It's a girl! Congrats baby_bray!!!
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that is so odd! i wonder if possibly ff has your o date wrong? its a possibility it was cd 18, but i'm not sure. just can't figure why your lp would be so late with no bfp. doesn't make sense. your lp should remain the same, within 2 days. so sorry colta. thought this was your bfp cycle.
are you using opk's? that will really help take the guesswork out of ov day. also, if you can manage bd every other day, you would for sure hit your fertile window
are you using opk's? that will really help take the guesswork out of ov day. also, if you can manage bd every other day, you would for sure hit your fertile window
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Not much to stalk unfortunately... another bfn.
Ah im really sorry really thought it was going to your month
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I'm so frustrated with everything today... I just want to crawl back into bed and never come back out. 
Called my Dr, he won't refer me to a ob/gyn in my new city (even after he told me he would previously). So fine... I called the local women's health clinic, they said they only deal with women who are confirmed pregnant and I would either have to contact my family dr (which I don't have yet... still on a waiting list) or go to emerg to have a blood test.](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/eusa_wall.gif "Brick wall ](*,)")
I'm so frustrated and angry and sick of all of this.
I just want to give up at this point... obviously something is screwed up with me. Maybe I'm just not meant to be a mom.
Called my Dr, he won't refer me to a ob/gyn in my new city (even after he told me he would previously). So fine... I called the local women's health clinic, they said they only deal with women who are confirmed pregnant and I would either have to contact my family dr (which I don't have yet... still on a waiting list) or go to emerg to have a blood test.
I'm so frustrated and angry and sick of all of this. I just want to give up at this point... obviously something is screwed up with me. Maybe I'm just not meant to be a mom.
i'm sorry you are having such a hard time with the dr's colta. that must be so frustrating!! of course you are meant to be a mom!! i know it's hard to stay positive and want to keep trying when it just doesn't happen like you want it to. but, if you keep trying, i bet you will get your bfp. how soon can you get a reg dr? that might get the ball rolling with maybe at least getting some tests done.
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Don't get too discouraged colta! You had at least 2 or 3 other cycles that looked alot like this one on your FF, and one of them you got a BFP. Your Dec 2011 one looks like you got your BFP on 18DPO. April and September 2012 cycles look like you had a LP more like 18 days since you got AF on 19DPO. You're certainly not broken!
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Thanks for all the support guys... I appreciate it, although I'm sure ya'll probably would like a bit less drauma. 
At any rate, I think I'm out for this month. Just went to the washroom and had a bit of light pink spotting and cramping has started up. I wouldn't be surprised if AF shows up tonight or tomorrow morning.
I'm thinking I must have O'd a little bit later than normal and that's what's going on.
I'm fine with it though, I'm just happy to know what's going on. DH is being super supportive of everything and can't wait to start trying again after AF is gone... so it's okay.
At any rate, I think I'm out for this month. Just went to the washroom and had a bit of light pink spotting and cramping has started up. I wouldn't be surprised if AF shows up tonight or tomorrow morning.
I'm thinking I must have O'd a little bit later than normal and that's what's going on. I'm fine with it though, I'm just happy to know what's going on. DH is being super supportive of everything and can't wait to start trying again after AF is gone... so it's okay.
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Colts that just plain sucks. Get an opk and see if that helps. I would also take this time to get your dr situation figured out. They need to refer you to someone regardless. You need an ob. I don't know how you cope with socialized medicine. I would go insane or get arrested for being the worst patient ever. Lol
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Thanks for all the support guys... I appreciate it, although I'm sure ya'll probably would like a bit less drauma.
At any rate, I think I'm out for this month. Just went to the washroom and had a bit of light pink spotting and cramping has started up. I wouldn't be surprised if AF shows up tonight or tomorrow morning.
I'm fine with it though, I'm just happy to know what's going on. DH is being super supportive of everything and can't wait to start trying again after AF is gone... so it's okay.
Ah stay positive it will happen probably when you least expect it
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Hope all is weel with you ladies!
Colta- You will get your BFP soon enough. Make sure this nexy cycle you dtd every other day before, during, and after what you thik it your fertile period.
Twinkie- What is wrong with the baby? Seen you were taking him to the doctor again.
Menb- Decrease in milk production was one of the reasons I had to stop with pumping. Also when I came back to work it was just to much for me to do. Not much longer and you go back to work right?
Mail- Loving the Walking Dead this season. Wish the episodes were two hours long.
AFM- We woke up to four inches on snow today. Glad the temp stayed up as long as it did cause not two hours from here in the WV mountains they got over two feet of snow. Husband called a little while ago and the power has gone off at my house. Very cold! As soon as I get off work we will be moving food to one frig and hooking the generator up. Electric company is saying 3-4 days till it is back on. Just wonderful when it is 28 degree with a wind chill of 21 degrees. Husband and the baby and upstair where it is still warm. Have to run to Lowes to buy heaters. Hope my tablet is charged this evening so I can catch up on some reading.
Colta- You will get your BFP soon enough. Make sure this nexy cycle you dtd every other day before, during, and after what you thik it your fertile period.
Twinkie- What is wrong with the baby? Seen you were taking him to the doctor again.
Menb- Decrease in milk production was one of the reasons I had to stop with pumping. Also when I came back to work it was just to much for me to do. Not much longer and you go back to work right?
Mail- Loving the Walking Dead this season. Wish the episodes were two hours long.
AFM- We woke up to four inches on snow today. Glad the temp stayed up as long as it did cause not two hours from here in the WV mountains they got over two feet of snow. Husband called a little while ago and the power has gone off at my house. Very cold! As soon as I get off work we will be moving food to one frig and hooking the generator up. Electric company is saying 3-4 days till it is back on. Just wonderful when it is 28 degree with a wind chill of 21 degrees. Husband and the baby and upstair where it is still warm. Have to run to Lowes to buy heaters. Hope my tablet is charged this evening so I can catch up on some reading.
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Colta- I would be super mad at the whole Dr. situation! I can't believe that you have to get on a waiting list to see a Dr. I guess I am just used to calling up and office and getting and appt, but I know it doesn't work that way in Canada. I am keeping my fingers crossed for you! Hopefully AF shows so you can start fresh and get to doing some BDing! Oh and feel free to impose your drama on us, that is what we are here for 
Berdc- Nothing is wrong with the baby. He was sent for a hip ultrasound because he was breech, but they ususally turn out fine and his was. Thanks for the concern though!
Little guy also had his one month checkup today and those of you that saw FB know that his appt was f-d up and they told me they couldn't see him because all their appts for "physicals" were filled. I was pissed because I made the appt, it wasn't my fault they didn't put it in the computer and DH had taken the day off work to go to the appt. Worse yet, they said they were completely booked until next week. I even asked if they could let him take an appt they save for sick and walk ins, since it was their error not mine and they said no they couldn't. Well I had to leave to get him to his hip ultrasound, so I called back and asked if there was any way to fit him in this afternoon and the lady I talked to then was nice and said that they would work him in (I mean how long does a well baby check take anyway???) So long story short, little guy is now 12lb 8oz and 23in long! Growing like a weed! I asked the Dr. about giving him cereal in his bottle, since he eats so much and is always hungry and he said we could if we want to but he doesn't need it and that we couldn't over feed him, babies know how much they want to eat and would spit up if they ate too much. I am glad his is growing well, DH wants me to quit pumping and put him on formula, but I feel like this is finally a victory against all my breastfeeding (or pumping) naysayers in my family!
Berdc- Nothing is wrong with the baby. He was sent for a hip ultrasound because he was breech, but they ususally turn out fine and his was. Thanks for the concern though!
Little guy also had his one month checkup today and those of you that saw FB know that his appt was f-d up and they told me they couldn't see him because all their appts for "physicals" were filled. I was pissed because I made the appt, it wasn't my fault they didn't put it in the computer and DH had taken the day off work to go to the appt. Worse yet, they said they were completely booked until next week. I even asked if they could let him take an appt they save for sick and walk ins, since it was their error not mine and they said no they couldn't. Well I had to leave to get him to his hip ultrasound, so I called back and asked if there was any way to fit him in this afternoon and the lady I talked to then was nice and said that they would work him in (I mean how long does a well baby check take anyway???) So long story short, little guy is now 12lb 8oz and 23in long! Growing like a weed! I asked the Dr. about giving him cereal in his bottle, since he eats so much and is always hungry and he said we could if we want to but he doesn't need it and that we couldn't over feed him, babies know how much they want to eat and would spit up if they ate too much. I am glad his is growing well, DH wants me to quit pumping and put him on formula, but I feel like this is finally a victory against all my breastfeeding (or pumping) naysayers in my family!
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Hey gang!
Happy V-Day motor! Just noticed that! How exciting!
AFM: Halloween went well. Nowhere near as many trick-or-treaters as I was hoping, but we got some really cute ones. Since we didn't get many, I gave out big handfuls and one little boy (maybe only 4 or 5) was soooo cute and looked up in disbelief and goes "I *love* this neighborhood!"
We worked on our flooring while we waited for any doorbell rings. We got the guestroom laid this last week and the nursery done last night!!! Yippee!!! Just baseboards and chair rails now! Can't wait to start filling it with furniture and everything now!!!
Happy V-Day motor! Just noticed that! How exciting!
AFM: Halloween went well. Nowhere near as many trick-or-treaters as I was hoping, but we got some really cute ones. Since we didn't get many, I gave out big handfuls and one little boy (maybe only 4 or 5) was soooo cute and looked up in disbelief and goes "I *love* this neighborhood!"
We worked on our flooring while we waited for any doorbell rings. We got the guestroom laid this last week and the nursery done last night!!! Yippee!!! Just baseboards and chair rails now! Can't wait to start filling it with furniture and everything now!!!
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