Cycle 1 day 1. Who's with me? *update* It's a girl! Congrats baby_bray!!!

[television]

well all moved and finally back on the net i really dont think this is my month i just dont feel it part from slightly hard and sore boobs always next month

 

[mailcmm]

I am gonna wait to test. My SIL went into labor and we are about to head out of town. I have cramps on my right side and my back is killing me. Want to cry because I believe AF will arrive today.

 

[mailcmm]

It's official AF got me. I am so sad. I don't think this is IB. I'm out and on to another cycle.

 

[Twinkie210]

It's official AF got me. I am so sad. I don't think this is IB. I'm out and on to another cycle.

So sorry AF got you!

 

[BERDC99]

QUOTE=mailcmm;14270749]It's official AF got me. I am so sad. I don't think this is IB. I'm out and on to another cycle.[/QU

I hate that the got you. to next cycle.

 

[television]

It's official AF got me. I am so sad. I don't think this is IB. I'm out and on to another cycle.

sorry
Bring on the next cycle x

 

[BERDC99]

So because I am totally nuts.... Should I be worried I didn't get a positive today? How unlikely is it to see something at 8dpo? lol I am totally worried.

I wouldn't worry just yet... it's when you get to 15dpo, are 4 days late and still get BFN's that I'd start worrying.

I'm from New Brunswick, Canada... way up here in the frozen north.. haha

And if anyone was curious... still the same ol story here. BFN's all around and continuing symptoms. I've been checking my cervix as well and near as I can tell, it's closed... I think.... I'm not entirely sure. Sorry if this is tmi -It just kinda feels like a slit in my cervix... two ridges that make a small indentation in-between them... they feel slammed shut. But who knows? My body has been such a nightmare the past few days I don't know whats going on anymore.

Wow! You are way up there. I had to check it out on the map to see where it was. Maybe you body still needs some more time to get straight after your loss. Time will tell.

 

[mailcmm]

I am so angry. Can't believe the witch got me. And 5 days early. I have never been early. And now I get to sit in a hospital waiting on my silver to have a baby. Worst day ever.

 

[BERDC99]

I am so angry. Can't believe the witch got me. And 5 days early. I have never been early. And now I get to sit in a hospital waiting on my silver to have a baby. Worst day ever.

 

[mailcmm]

Has anyone ever had ib? This might not be af. I have lots of ewcm when I go to the bathroom. Tmi. ...to the point its coming out in ropes by itself. Gross I know. But I've never had that before. And my periods have always been exactly 28 days. Could this be ib and not af? Too much of a stretch?usually I know af is on the way. This am I got a cramp and found blood on the tp. I am bleeding lightly not enough to fill a panty liner in 4 hrs

 

[BERDC99]

Has anyone ever had ib? This might not be af. I have lots of ewcm when I go to the bathroom. Tmi. ...to the point its coming out in ropes by itself. Gross I know. But I've never had that before. And my periods have always been exactly 28 days. Could this be ib and not af? Too much of a stretch?usually I know af is on the way. This am I got a cramp and found blood on the tp. I am bleeding lightly not enough to fill a panty liner in 4 hrs

Could be IB, but if the cm is really stretchy that is fertile mucus. You may have geared up to O and never actually did. I have also read some where that some girls bleed when they O. I would DTD just in case. My sister and I was talking on turkey day and she said when she O now it just strings out of her when he goes to the bathroom. Personally i have never had IB and have been pregnant 5 times now.

 

[moter98]

Colta - Sorry you are having to go through that. It's like a cruel joke. I had a month like that, but was only 2 days late and it was pure hell. I feel for you. How late are you now?

As for me, I took a HPT this morning. BFN. I will test again on Sat. and Mon. and if still BFN then I will just wait and see if AF shows up. From previous experience, I've learned that I can handle 3 BFN's a cycle. Seeing anymore than that really gets to me. I have no physical symptoms whatsoever. Nothing different than any month where AF showed anyway. There's been months where I obsessed over every twinge and nauseous feeling only to see AF arrive. So I don't hold much stock in any of my "symptoms" anymore. I suffer from chronic heartburn and IBS so feeling nauseous/bloated/gassy etc is the norm for me. (It goes in cycles) This is my first month checking CM, so I can't really go by that yet either. I will just have to wait.......sigh

 

[colta]

Colta - Sorry you are having to go through that. It's like a cruel joke. I had a month like that, but was only 2 days late and it was pure hell. I feel for you. How late are you now?

As for me, I took a HPT this morning. BFN. I will test again on Sat. and Mon. and if still BFN then I will just wait and see if AF shows up. From previous experience, I've learned that I can handle 3 BFN's a cycle. Seeing anymore than that really gets to me. I have no physical symptoms whatsoever. Nothing different than any month where AF showed anyway. There's been months where I obsessed over every twinge and nauseous feeling only to see AF arrive. So I don't hold much stock in any of my "symptoms" anymore. I suffer from chronic heartburn and IBS so feeling nauseous/bloated/gassy etc is the norm for me. (It goes in cycles) This is my first month checking CM, so I can't really go by that yet either. I will just have to wait.......sigh

Thank you for the sympathy... it really kind of sucks. I'm 5 days late now... never been late like this aside from one anovulatory cycle... but this cycle I'm positive that I O'd... and I believe I O'd early. I double checked my chart and decided that it's possible I may have ovulated later... but that would still mean that AF is due today and there's not a trace.
I've still been getting lots of symptoms... exhausted, hungry, nausea this morning and I actually got sent home from clinical because I got so dizzy I could barely stand... I've had light cramps off and on, same with backache and my temp keeps see sawing... up and down every other day... but never below my coverline and still quite high.
So yeah... I have no idea.

But, don't think you're out yet... you're still only early. But I know what you mean about not wanting to see bfns.... if I see another one anytime soon I'll go crazy!

mailcmm - I've got everything crossed that it's IB!!

 

[moter98]

Has anyone ever had ib? This might not be af. I have lots of ewcm when I go to the bathroom. Tmi. ...to the point its coming out in ropes by itself. Gross I know. But I've never had that before. And my periods have always been exactly 28 days. Could this be ib and not af? Too much of a stretch?usually I know af is on the way. This am I got a cramp and found blood on the tp. I am bleeding lightly not enough to fill a panty liner in 4 hrs

Just realized I missed a whole page of posts! Do you know how long your luteal phase is? I have read that it is pretty consistent on a women's cycle. Varies from woman to woman but stays consistent within the same woman. I have heard of implantation bleeding and also ovulation bleeding so it's possible. If it is IB it should be light pink or brown spotting in your CM or on TP and last a day or two. I googled it. It didn't say what the consistancy of your CM would be though. It's really hard to say at this point. I know it's hard, but you will probably just have to wait and see. It does seem odd that you would be 4 days early if you're cycles are regular. Also, there should only be a variation by that many days in the first part of your cycle, meaning you ovulated later that month, but your luteal phase should always be the same, within a day give or take.
Also, stay strong today. Soon, it will be you in there having your baby!

 

[moter98]

Colta - Sorry you are having to go through that. It's like a cruel joke. I had a month like that, but was only 2 days late and it was pure hell. I feel for you. How late are you now?

As for me, I took a HPT this morning. BFN. I will test again on Sat. and Mon. and if still BFN then I will just wait and see if AF shows up. From previous experience, I've learned that I can handle 3 BFN's a cycle. Seeing anymore than that really gets to me. I have no physical symptoms whatsoever. Nothing different than any month where AF showed anyway. There's been months where I obsessed over every twinge and nauseous feeling only to see AF arrive. So I don't hold much stock in any of my "symptoms" anymore. I suffer from chronic heartburn and IBS so feeling nauseous/bloated/gassy etc is the norm for me. (It goes in cycles) This is my first month checking CM, so I can't really go by that yet either. I will just have to wait.......sigh

Thank you for the sympathy... it really kind of sucks. I'm 5 days late now... never been late like this aside from one anovulatory cycle... but this cycle I'm positive that I O'd... and I believe I O'd early. I double checked my chart and decided that it's possible I may have ovulated later... but that would still mean that AF is due today and there's not a trace.
I've still been getting lots of symptoms... exhausted, hungry, nausea this morning and I actually got sent home from clinical because I got so dizzy I could barely stand... I've had light cramps off and on, same with backache and my temp keeps see sawing... up and down every other day... but never below my coverline and still quite high.
So yeah... I have no idea.

But, don't think you're out yet... you're still only early. But I know what you mean about not wanting to see bfns.... if I see another one anytime soon I'll go crazy!

mailcmm - I've got everything crossed that it's IB!!

Have you had 18 days of high temps yet? On FF it says 18 days of high temps indicates pregnancy. Also, have you ever had a + HPT? It is rare, but some women never get a + HPT and really are pregnant. Something about their urine is different and doesn't react to the chemicals in the dye. In this case only a blood test could confirm pregnancy. There are many forums on this topic. Yeah, I know it's still early for me. It was probably silly to even test yet, I just couldn't help myself! Either way, I'll know for sure in a week. If not, there's always next try.

 

[colta]

Colta - Sorry you are having to go through that. It's like a cruel joke. I had a month like that, but was only 2 days late and it was pure hell. I feel for you. How late are you now?

As for me, I took a HPT this morning. BFN. I will test again on Sat. and Mon. and if still BFN then I will just wait and see if AF shows up. From previous experience, I've learned that I can handle 3 BFN's a cycle. Seeing anymore than that really gets to me. I have no physical symptoms whatsoever. Nothing different than any month where AF showed anyway. There's been months where I obsessed over every twinge and nauseous feeling only to see AF arrive. So I don't hold much stock in any of my "symptoms" anymore. I suffer from chronic heartburn and IBS so feeling nauseous/bloated/gassy etc is the norm for me. (It goes in cycles) This is my first month checking CM, so I can't really go by that yet either. I will just have to wait.......sigh

Thank you for the sympathy... it really kind of sucks. I'm 5 days late now... never been late like this aside from one anovulatory cycle... but this cycle I'm positive that I O'd... and I believe I O'd early. I double checked my chart and decided that it's possible I may have ovulated later... but that would still mean that AF is due today and there's not a trace.
I've still been getting lots of symptoms... exhausted, hungry, nausea this morning and I actually got sent home from clinical because I got so dizzy I could barely stand... I've had light cramps off and on, same with backache and my temp keeps see sawing... up and down every other day... but never below my coverline and still quite high.
So yeah... I have no idea.

But, don't think you're out yet... you're still only early. But I know what you mean about not wanting to see bfns.... if I see another one anytime soon I'll go crazy!

mailcmm - I've got everything crossed that it's IB!!

Have you had 18 days of high temps yet? On FF it says 18 days of high temps indicates pregnancy. Also, have you ever had a + HPT? It is rare, but some women never get a + HPT and really are pregnant. Something about their urine is different and doesn't react to the chemicals in the dye. In this case only a blood test could confirm pregnancy. There are many forums on this topic. Yeah, I know it's still early for me. It was probably silly to even test yet, I just couldn't help myself! Either way, I'll know for sure in a week. If not, there's always next try.

From Ov, I've had 15-16 high temps (feel free to take a look at my chart and tell me what you think, it's in my sig). During the day my temps spike up even higher and I've actually been getting overheated.
I have gotten positive pregnancy tests before too... when I had my ectopic, it was really wonky and I got a bright positive at what I thought was 5 dpo... but I'm thinking that I got pregnant the cycle before and didn't know (I still had AF, but it was a weird one).

 

[moter98]

Colta - Sorry you are having to go through that. It's like a cruel joke. I had a month like that, but was only 2 days late and it was pure hell. I feel for you. How late are you now?

As for me, I took a HPT this morning. BFN. I will test again on Sat. and Mon. and if still BFN then I will just wait and see if AF shows up. From previous experience, I've learned that I can handle 3 BFN's a cycle. Seeing anymore than that really gets to me. I have no physical symptoms whatsoever. Nothing different than any month where AF showed anyway. There's been months where I obsessed over every twinge and nauseous feeling only to see AF arrive. So I don't hold much stock in any of my "symptoms" anymore. I suffer from chronic heartburn and IBS so feeling nauseous/bloated/gassy etc is the norm for me. (It goes in cycles) This is my first month checking CM, so I can't really go by that yet either. I will just have to wait.......sigh

Thank you for the sympathy... it really kind of sucks. I'm 5 days late now... never been late like this aside from one anovulatory cycle... but this cycle I'm positive that I O'd... and I believe I O'd early. I double checked my chart and decided that it's possible I may have ovulated later... but that would still mean that AF is due today and there's not a trace.
I've still been getting lots of symptoms... exhausted, hungry, nausea this morning and I actually got sent home from clinical because I got so dizzy I could barely stand... I've had light cramps off and on, same with backache and my temp keeps see sawing... up and down every other day... but never below my coverline and still quite high.
So yeah... I have no idea.

But, don't think you're out yet... you're still only early. But I know what you mean about not wanting to see bfns.... if I see another one anytime soon I'll go crazy!

mailcmm - I've got everything crossed that it's IB!!

Have you had 18 days of high temps yet? On FF it says 18 days of high temps indicates pregnancy. Also, have you ever had a + HPT? It is rare, but some women never get a + HPT and really are pregnant. Something about their urine is different and doesn't react to the chemicals in the dye. In this case only a blood test could confirm pregnancy. There are many forums on this topic. Yeah, I know it's still early for me. It was probably silly to even test yet, I just couldn't help myself! Either way, I'll know for sure in a week. If not, there's always next try.

From Ov, I've had 15-16 high temps (feel free to take a look at my chart and tell me what you think, it's in my sig). During the day my temps spike up even higher and I've actually been getting overheated.
I have gotten positive pregnancy tests before too... when I had my ectopic, it was really wonky and I got a bright positive at what I thought was 5 dpo... but I'm thinking that I got pregnant the cycle before and didn't know (I still had AF, but it was a weird one).

I just started temping this month so I don't know much about it yet, but from your chart it looks like you did ovulate. Maybe you implanted later and just haven't built up HCG yet? You can implant as late as 12dpo.

 

[colta]

Well... I think the witch might be on her way... finally! lol...

Sorry if TMI - I've got a smidgen of spotting when I wipe and my cervix feels open. I guess I'm probably going to be out this month... onwards and upwards to next month! I'm both sad and finally happy at the same time.

 

[BERDC99]

Well... I think the witch might be on her way... finally! lol...

Sorry if TMI - I've got a smidgen of spotting when I wipe and my cervix feels open. I guess I'm probably going to be out this month... onwards and upwards to next month! I'm both sad and finally happy at the same time.

You sure have been on an emotional roller coaster the last few weeks. I know it is a bitter sweet day for you, but at least you always have next month or the month after that. It's not over until you run out of eggs. LOL
to you and all the other girls!

 

[BERDC99]

Has anyone ever had ib? This might not be af. I have lots of ewcm when I go to the bathroom. Tmi. ...to the point its coming out in ropes by itself. Gross I know. But I've never had that before. And my periods have always been exactly 28 days. Could this be ib and not af? Too much of a stretch?usually I know af is on the way. This am I got a cramp and found blood on the tp. I am bleeding lightly not enough to fill a panty liner in 4 hrs

Well???????

Did you SIL have the baby? Boy/Girl?
And most importantly was it the witch or what?