Cycle Buddies wanted! CD 1 Feb 6! No matter what CD you are on!

[claire99991]

he has drank 3 cans of it haha ok am of will update u later

x

 

[honeybuns72]

Irish eyes - all done and dusted and still managed to watch the ass end of Eastenders - it was definately worth having a day off work today then and the no knickers method defo worked .......hmmm must remember that one for next month I thought that a womans leutal phase was always the same too but according to the fertility cons. and having researched it on the internet it can vary.I felt really hopeful last month when I ovulated on day cd 19 and having a leutal phase of 16/17 days expected on day 35/36.When she didn't arrive I got excited - I would test every day only to get My leutal phase last month was 24 days and so it must have been a freaky month ( a corpus whatsit cyst maybe ) I don't know!

Conswayla M - Good luck this month - hope you get your

Claire99991 - Hope you get DH's baby gravy after his long soak in the bath

 

[Irish_eyes]

I thought this may be of interest. This is from an ebook that I foolishly paid for but I did get some good things from it. Most of the information I already knew. The roadmap they talk about is charting, checking cp, cm, opks, temping etc.

Many women believe that they may be pregnant if their AF is “late”. This, in itself, is not a myth. The misconception lies in the definition of the term “late”. A pro baby maker knows that to be “late”, she must be past her usual LP length.

The Amateur: Sue usually has a 28 day cycle. On CD30, her AF was still a
no show. Hopeful, Sue rushes out to buy a pregnancy test. It is negative.
Two days later, Sue’s AF begins. She has no idea why her cycle length was
32 days.

The Pro: Because she creates a roadmap, Sue is aware that she usually
ovulates on CD14, and her LP is 14 days thus giving her a 28-day cycle
length. This particular month, she did a lot of traveling and was pretty
stressed. Ovulation didn’t occur until CD18. On 15DPO, her AF started.
Thus Sue had a 14 day LP, but a 32 day cycle, and she did not waste
money on those costly pregnancy tests.

Cycle misconceptions not only can be a factor in unwanted pregnancies, but they can also serve to prevent a very much wanted one.

 

[honeybuns72]

Irish eyes - Thanks for that The only thing is though I know I ovulated when I did cause I take my temp every morning and from the day it went up to 98.2 it stayed there for 24 days...WTF???? I've been charting for 13 months now and have never had a problem like this before - it must have been a corpus luteum cyst then I think it releases progesterone and so keeps temps high something like that anyway.

 

[Irish_eyes]

Have you check this out with your doctor?

 

[honeybuns72]

yes - I went to the Drs but they are hopless round here - I knew more about TTC than he did

I'll just have to wait and see what happens this month I guess and if it happens again go back

How about you? DTD every day or everyother?

 

[Conswayla M]

Even if your cycle went to 32 days you are not necessarily late. It really depends on the day you O and the length of your LP. Your LP is always the same length, say it is 14 days. Your normal cycle length is 28 days and you O on day 14. However, in one cycle you O on CD15 that means your cycle will be 29 days. If you O on CD15 and you have reached CD30 with out Af showing then that when you are late because your LP is 15 days then. Do you know what I mean?

Sorry I really had to tell you this as this is something I learnt today and it is so true.

It makes sense though. I still get so confused myself. Like last month I swear I O'd on like day 12.....or around there and my AF came on day 30.....thats a 17-18 day LP. Thats not normal! So this month I O'd on day 13 (it seems) and so I should expect AF on day 31 or 32? I don't really know exactly when I am O'ing so that will bugger it up for me.

GOOO CLAIRE!!! I am rooting for you, I hope you can seduce him into some !!!!

 

[Conswayla M]

Ohh, I just read your newest post Irish....and thank you for sharing, thats very interesting to know. I mean, I thought the LP was supposed to be the same.....but wasn't sure. So your O date is the one that changes and is affected by stress and what not, and your AF is not affected by any of that........I thought that may be how it went. So when people say "Your AF is late because of stress" its technically not your AF that is late, but infact your ovulation was late!!!! Oooooo, I like this new bit of info, it will help. I think I may have to pay more attention now to my LP.

 

[claire99991]

got sum whooooo

 

[Irish_eyes]

Ohh, I just read your newest post Irish....and thank you for sharing, thats very interesting to know. I mean, I thought the LP was supposed to be the same.....but wasn't sure. So your O date is the one that changes and is affected by stress and what not, and your AF is not affected by any of that........I thought that may be how it went. So when people say "Your AF is late because of stress" its technically not your AF that is late, but infact your ovulation was late!!!! Oooooo, I like this new bit of info, it will help. I think I may have to pay more attention now to my LP.

Yes, I would say that means O is late but AF is not because your LP is the normal length and thats what makes your cycle different in days. But if you know when you O and what length you LP and you realise you LP is longer I suppose there may be a chance you are pg.

That is why I temp as well as opks as I would get a fair idea of O due to the temp shift.

 

[Irish_eyes]

got sum whooooo

waydago you! Hope it wasn't so stressful for you hun and he complied.

 

[claire99991]

wasnt stressful and complied 100% i think i even enjoyed it a bit lol

 

[Irish_eyes]

That is fab...maybe all this romantic or smutty plans we had today works rather than lets bd to have a baby.

Now lets start planning on the seduction for tomorrow.

Oh and very TMI....I actually won doggy...never done that before.

 

[claire99991]

he said it was the blow job haha TMI there sorry

i need a whole new plan for tomorow!

 

[Irish_eyes]

You see...I refrained from BJs as they say the salvia isn't good but we brought it back in this month too.

Also I am going un natural this month. No preseed...well...just to knock on heaven doors!

 

[claire99991]

hahahaha no preeseed for me either! and if i didnt bring the BJ's back in well i wouldnt have got any and surly the saliva carnt kill them all ah well.

 

[snugglebot]

lol sounds like some good happened this evening. Congrats ladies ! WHO HOO!

I am trying one last time tonight after that, it is the 2ww for me. I will probably be more chatty once I get on the road since I won't have anything to do in the evening. Anyways, I better go pack! Ciao!

 

[cazd]

Watcha ladies !

Love the seduction stories

So glad you posted about LP + AF due dates.
I'm so the beginner!

After much deliberation I reckon I ov'd late this time - and Id've been waiting for the on the wrong day.

Then she'd be late and I'd be all excited and rush out to get the most spensive test !!!

Conswayla - Glad you like my new 2WW Avatar (nicked it from ff)
I've got sore @@s too - but don't usually get that 'till a few days before AF.
Hmmm - hope its a sign!

 

[claire99991]

well i knew i started the of to early i have no ovulation pains as of yet! i normally have them by now i think ill ovulate late this month maybe tomorow and that means trying to get sum of OH again tonight which i dont think is going to work at all shouldnt have done cd12 have no idea how to get my OH in the mood tonight i have used all my tricks past 2 nights. Bugger also my cd21 results will be in accurate cos it means ill have to have them early cos they dont do tests on a weekend

 

[Irish_eyes]

Claire...just be very sweet and flirty tonight. Again cook him a nice dinner...ask how his day was (be sure to sympathise if he has a bad one), have a few drinks and have a cuddle (but in the meantime just really try to turn him on). Or have a conversation like you need new underwear (get a catalogue out or on the net) and ask him which undies he'd prefer...that should get him going.

I hav no idea what I am going to do either...I haven't had the chance to think it through yet. But I did go for my smear test today....and they used KY Jelly on me...is this ok? Will it be away by the time we bd?