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[Irish_eyes]

God Claire...it was total opposite tonight...I did get it eventually but with alot of moaning and pain...yep he hurt himself at it yesterday. I just hope he is all right because I am going to jump him again tomorrow. My way around it is that I tell him he has to do it,its important...then he takes the hint its fertile week.

 

[Irish_eyes]

Irish u managed to get sum again? wow i need to come to your master class of getting OH gone for a bath! im chuckling cos i really think my chances tonight are slim to none haha

go and wash his back!!!!

 

[claire99991]

oh bloody hell that was so much hard work!!! but i got sum eventually im worn out sore and in pain! my ov pains started in the middle of it was thinking please just hurry up!! haha Irish good luck for tomorow i think i need to give my OH a break for a day

oh and guess wot he stopped me half way thru and told me to put sum preeseed up cos it was drying up so i did!

 

[snugglebot]

Well last month my CM dried up on OV so that truth doesn't surprise me but there are lots of ladies who this isn't true for either so I wouldn't stress conswayla.

As for me there is still a bit of EWCM in there but mostly watery...and DEFINITELY still some semen..there is just something about that smell. I get a wiff when I check my CM...

My cervix is lower and much firmer...so I don't know if I have o'd today or if my body "deferred" O... we shall see.

 

[Irish_eyes]

Snuggle....they say that O can be delayed due to travel and stress...have you been stress out about traveling...you may still O soon and you do have in there so it is still possible.

Claire...good for you hun...I had problems last night and just thought there wasn't any chance that I was going to get it because he was sore...but finally he pulled through...don't know whether to push for it tonight...I might give him a rest too...hoping that the pain in this thingy will subside ready for tomorrow. And tomorrow we would bd in the morning because I head up to Belfast to see mum all day on Sundays. If we bded tonight we will not be giving the 24 hours to regenerate itself. I am hoping to get a + opk tomorrow and O on Monday so fingers crossed.

Ok this is a bit TMI but I don't know what to call this CM. It was gooey, creamy, and looking at it you would say ewcm, but when I go to stretch it, it only stretches to less that a centimetre and it breaks. The EWCM I got the other day streched to about 3 or 4 inches!!!! So what would I call that?

 

[claire99991]

Irish sounds like its still fertile CM so i woulnt worry to much and there will still be sum in there living in that really fertile CM you had the other day i would think.

I think u will be fine to give your OH a rest tonight let the build strength before your most fertile time.

Ok well i had ov pains when i went to bad last night they are still there now but just niggles nothing to bad my opk is still positve but its lighter than yesterday so i think ive probs ovulated thru the night at sum point. Oh wants a rest tonight,damn him if only he could go for 1 more night it would have been perfect but he doesnt think it will work. Hopefully ive given it a good shot thou past 3 nights there should be lots of from every night really just waiting for the egg and i used preeseed last night so thats ok. Just have to wait and see i guess.

 

[cazd]

OH NO !
Don't you just hate that.... the eggs right there... you just need a bit more baby juice...
That happened to us this cycle - my OH was well and truly worn out and totally sick of it!

But then... they do say that every other day is best....

 

[Irish_eyes]

Oh well...DH has put the foot down and said no way for tonight...thats grand I guess as I still haven't got + opk yet and he does need to rest...going to jump him tomorrow morning though.

 

[snugglebot]

Snuggle....they say that O can be delayed due to travel and stress...have you been stress out about traveling...you may still O soon and you do have in there so it is still possible.

It has been totally insane at work before I left - which is why I think my temps were higher overall this month. Anyways my temps are on the way up...

Hope it happened yesterday or today... I hope I hope I hope!

 

[claire99991]

snugglebbot - fingers crossed for you hun i hope you have already ovulated as well.

Irish its probs perfect timing to give him a little rest anyway then there is no complaning tomorow.

Cazd how are you doing hun are you feeling positive this cycle?

Well my OH has now said we can try for sum more baby juice tonight but he honestly doesnt know if it will work, but hey at least he said we can give it ago! whoooo

 

[Irish_eyes]

Well, he is being jokey at the minute...and I am being flirty with him...so we will see what happens later. It doesn't matter if I get it or don't tonight so I am not going to stress myself out but getting it will be an added bonus.

Lucky you Clarie...did you give your OH something this month?

 

[claire99991]

lol i think he was really disapointed when the doc told me about the pcos and it would be more difficult he said he was gutted and is set to prove them wrong. I dont know if we will be able to do it he said he will do it but it might take him a while and my ov pains have really kicked in now so i dont know if i can stand to do it. We will see later, im not gonna stress to much on everything i have read it says the few days before ov is the best days so the the sperm is there waiting and have done it past 3 nights so im still in with a good chance.

 

[claire99991]

4 nights running are ya proud of me! lol

think ive done as much as i can do this month now 4 lots of around ovulation fingers crossed

 

[snugglebot]

Holy moly ladies...most of you got a ton of this month... f'xd for you all.

I got my hair done, did some bra shopping, had some yummy thai food...now ready for some chill time in my hotel room for a bit.

 

[claire99991]

snuggleboot sounds like fun enjoy your me time xx

Well i have awful period cramps and backache today whats going on i only ovulated yesterday am i out already?

 

[cazd]

Cazd how are you doing hun are you feeling positive this cycle?

Well my OH has now said we can try for sum more baby juice tonight but he honestly doesnt know if it will work, but hey at least he said we can give it ago! whoooo

Ha! Love it that your OH wants to prove the Drs wrong!

Wonder why you've got cramps though - v strange?
I had ov pains for a week but they were defo OV - not AF.

I'm doing fine really - just sitting out my 2WW. Is that all of us just waiting on the now?

To be honest - I'm feeling more positive than ever!
I've got v tender @@s - and I only ever get that a day or so before AF - so being sore for so long I think is my first symptom!

I had lots of white cm today too - I'm still trying to convince myself its yellow! AND.... although OV pains have finally gone I'm getting random twinges...

We were talking about it this morning while we walked Trudy (we talk about babies every morning - ha!) And OH asked how soon after fertilisation does the egg start to divide?

Anyone know?

 

[Irish_eyes]

Waydago Claire...I am sooooooo proud of you.

Well my little plan on Thursday as backfired...I kind of went u natural including the doors (no preseed at all) and now dh is really sore...that it is effect our bding. Last night and this morning we tired but the pain is putting him off. I wounldn't mind as much by my opks are getting darker...I would say they will most certainly be positive by tonight or this morning. However, he has agreed to try again tonight but he will be drinking today so god only knows what he will be like later. I just told him to watch porn all day...

Well, if I don't get any tonight I think that is us out this month. Being too eagar didn't work after all.

 

[claire99991]

Irish dont give up hope just yet, i sat my OH in front of sum porn last night for 20 min thinking well ill give this a try doubt it will work came bk to check on him 20 min later and he was ready to go haha and only took few min whoooo haha.

Cazd omg its sounding really positive for you this month i have a really good feeling for you!!

Ok all the cramps i had this morning have gone now, dont know if it was just the last bit of ov pains i always think they are period cramps but when i actually get my period i realise i was very wrong! haha.

Had dream last night i got BFP awww well it was such a nice dream.

 

[snugglebot]

I hate to suggest this claire, but maybe it was just gas? I get pain in my ovarian region sometimes after eating meals with beans

ha ha

Irish, your poor poor man! What a trooper! First he hurts his wee wee and then it gets sore! Yikes! I am sure things will work out for you. One more session...

I haven't had a bfp/baby dream in awhile. I miss them but I guess it is a good thing because I always wake up heartbroken in the morning.

 

[claire99991]

I hate to suggest this claire, but maybe it was just gas? I get pain in my ovarian region sometimes after eating meals with beans

ha ha

Irish, your poor poor man! What a trooper! First he hurts his wee wee and then it gets sore! Yikes! I am sure things will work out for you. One more session...

I haven't had a bfp/baby dream in awhile. I miss them but I guess it is a good thing because I always wake up heartbroken in the morning.

it probs was wind haha!! i need to forget about what my body is doing for 2 weeks and just not pick up on every twinge