Cycle Buddies wanted! CD 1 Feb 6! No matter what CD you are on!

[snugglebot]

oops!

 

[claire99991]

ok just went to last night OH wasnt intrested

 

[Conswayla M]

for fun is so much better! Thats what we have before I O LOL.
Last night I had some O type pains on the left side....I think it is too early for O but I told DH even though were not "trying" so we went to bed early to watch our show and I fll asleep!! AHHHH, stupid me. Oh well, there is always tonight. CD 13 today......not that I'm couting cause were not "trying" Boy, oh boy, I can't even fool myself.....

 

[Pato]

DH hasn't been interested since CD14. I think the pressure of TTC is a bit much for him. I do think I O'd around CD13-CD15 though so maybe I'm still in the game. Don't use OPK's so it's mostly guess work when I'm in the "ferti-zone" as per OPC (calculator).

 

[Conswayla M]

I can't seem to view or post in anyones journals latley....stupid work computer. Maybe it's a sign that I should actually be working at work....and not doing this! Nah.....that can't be it lol

 

[cazd]

You girls are so funny...

conswayla - congrats on avoiding cp checking - you'll become a tp addict if you're not careful! x

I love charting - I've got FF, coundown2pregnancy + my own excel chart.

Defo not going to waste any more £moolah on tests though - opks just tell me what I already know and PG sticks are just too damn depressing.

Pre-seed came in handy this morning though...
(Ta Daa.... TMI !)
This is our first day for to catch that egg.
We were late to wake up today but OH had a bed stick (yup - that's what I called it this morning) so he said - can we just get it over with now so its done for today!

How romantic....

 

[claire99991]

cazd hahaha that is very romantic indeed!!

conswayala na i dont think its a sign of getting work done lol keep posting and make sure you get sum tonight!!

pato your deffo still in the game and my OH gets like that!

Im not mentioning ovulation on fertile week at all to my OH he knows its next week but not when and im just not mentioning it i have told him though i need sum tonight but its just for fun before i explode from sexual fustration!! and there bugger all on the tele!

 

[Conswayla M]

Hahaha, Cazd, I think your OH gets the award for most romantic!! My DH always wants but whether he is in pain or not decides for us. But he is always all over me and then when bedtime comes he is so sexually exhausted from talking about it and hinting at it....by then we are just ready to cuddle!! I am getting it out of him tonight though.

Still no CP checking WOOT!

 

[claire99991]

conswayla, you make sure you work hard to get sum tonight!!! And im day 5 and no cm and no cp checking for me!! Are ya proud of me lol...

 

[Conswayla M]

I am so proud of you!! Its hard isn't it? Especially when it becomes a habbit.
I am day 13, and I haven't checked yet either, I just knew I had EWCM because it came onto the tp (sorry tmi).

I just talked to DH on the phone and he sounds like he is in a grumpy mood and says he doesn't feel well.....it should be a chore to get out of him tonight.....but I have my ways!!

 

[claire99991]

conswayla what time is it where you are? im just about to go sleep lol! oh god dont you just hate it when u speak to them in the day and there in a mood and your thinking great i have to turn you on later fun fun fun! pisses me of!

Good luck!!!

 

[snugglebot]

Good luck Conswayla! I may need to grab a few tricks out of you next week.

I told a tiny fib this week and said I won't ov until I start traveling (which hopefully doesn't become a self fulfilling prophecy). My goal is for him to think I don't want him for anything but fun for the next two weeks ...but ov is predicted the day before I go...little does he know... moo haa haa

I hope my plan works...

 

[claire99991]

snugglebbot haha good idea loving the evil little laugh there as well xx

 

[Irish_eyes]

Hi girls, sorry I haven't posted too much lately. I just find this part of the cycle so boring (AF) but now she has packed her bags from yesterday we can get down to the fun fun fun! Girls you have to check out my plan for this month....I need a plan...but it never follows through...I am a girl on a mission...and just a tad bit obsess!!! Sorry girls, I will be checking CM and CP this month (I have just found cp). I have decided that I will not be using CBdigis for opks this month (too expensive) as I notice last month using IC opks 30 miu was just as good.

Conswayla M ~ well done not checking cm and cp

Snugglebot ~ good idea as men seem to be put off with O, my dh will know when I O if I keep at him for

 

[snugglebot]

Irish, yeah I am going to have to play this very carefully so that I don't tip him off. However, I Don't think it will be hard to convince him by saying, if you don't get it now you ain't getting it for two weeks...and once I am back, I expect to be on the rag...so make it three... my evil plan will work.

 

[claire99991]

snuggleboot your so funny 'on the rag' my OH says that haha!!

Irish glad to here your on a mission i have a good feeling for you this month!

conswayla did you get sum then??

 

[Conswayla M]

Ugghhh!!! No, it didn't go well last night. DH has caught my cold....and I am feeling worse now. And he was in no mood for last night....mind you I wasn't either. But I was so sure I was close to or was Ovulating, so I fonally said....I think I am O'ing and that ruined it. He said we shouldn't be putting that pressure on ourseleves. I almost cried at first, but I was able to calm down....how? I don't know!! I am CD 14 today, and I have a funny feeling that I O'd yesterday. I have no idea why....but I seriously think it is over for me. The closest was CD 10....so I f I did O yesterday then there is the slightest chance. I may not have O'd yet.......AHHHHHHHH! But I feel okay still.

I was trying to do what you are trying to do Snuggle, not tell him when I think I am O'ing, but I thought.....what if this is my last chance and he doesn't want to do it....well I was wrong thinking that was going to help. Its hard right now with DH being in so much pain. Oh well, it will make this month less stressful if I know there is no chance!

Wtg Irish for finding getting a hang of the cervix! Once you know what you are looking for it makes it easier. I still haven't touched mine. I don't see a point right now....I am pretty sure I O'd. Plus, after O it tells me f**k all. Like it is high and low and right and left and open and closed and soft and hard......so confusing

Wow I babbled this morning!! Sorry that was long ladies.

Oh Claire its 9:30 am here for me. Way on the other side of the planet...here in wonderful Canada!

 

[Pato]

How does one "check" their cervix???

 

[cazd]

I suppose after so long TTC it must be hard to just let it go.
Sounds like you're finding the strength from somewhere though.

Told my OH that we should again and he's gone off to get chips to cheer himself up. He says its all too clinical...

 

[cazd]

How does one "check" their cervix???

Have a good old poke about!

Anyone remember the web address for the student's cervical diary?
That'd definitely shed some light on things for you...