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[Elanesse]

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[Elanesse]

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[akjk]

It's the scans that I am scared of. We had a scan at 8wks where we saw a happy thriving baby with a wonderful heartbeat. Then at 12wks the scan showed that the baby died at 8 1/2 weeks. Just a couple of days after seeing our baby. I cant go through seeing a live happy baby again only to have it taken away. I would rather wait until the dating scan, but I know that is not the best option for me or the baby and I just have to suck it up and do it.

We think think the OB unintentionally caused the miscarriage by prescribing medication that is known to cause MC's. I had BV during the first tri and was given a vaginal medication. I took it for the week before my 8wk scan. Then they say 3days later the baby died. I did some research on the medication after the fact and it is known to cause MC's in the first tri. I dont blame him, if he didnt know, but want a dr who is knowledgable about what he is giving his patients while pregnant.

My SIL saw her healthy baby and that day had a mc, it really shook her up. i cant even imagine i think thats why i've been scared the whole time

 

[JessicaMarie]

You ladies have been busy posting today - love getting home and having a book to read!

I am very paranoid about loosing my bean at the moment. Every time I go to the toilet I am checking my CM for blood spots like a mad woman!

I know worrying will not help me, but I cant help it. Keep worrying I am having an ectopic as well as I have the odd pain around the area I think my ovaries are - could be trapped wind or anything really but I just hope the eggy landed in the right spot. Jessica, was it you that said you had some strange symptoms when you had an ectopic? Can I ask what they were.

PRAYING WE ALL HAVE STICKY HEALTHY BEANS!!!! xx

Elanesse, yes, I did have strange symptoms...well, maybe not strange so much as just feeling strange. I know women tend to be really paranoid and crazy during the first few weeks, imagining they will lose the baby, but I just felt like I KNEW we would lose the baby. Any time we talked about names or any of that stuff, in the back of my mind I was thinking"this doesnt matter, seeing as we wont have this baby" (I should note that I am normally optimistic, I feel great about this baby) I also felt really out of it and dizzy all the time. Once my tube ruptured and I had surgery, I was in the minority of women who have to go back for a second surgery b/c some tissue was still left behind that was growing. Even during the two weeks in between surgeries before anyone knew what was going on, I still felt weird and out of it. I think everyone thought I was crazy until my HCG levels started going up again and they did an u/s and couldnt tell what was going on in me! it was a really crazy experience.

 

[mrsbeanbump]

did a clearblue this morning and got a pregnant 3+ so must have my dates wrong...
we are off to Cleethorpes in a caravan this weekend so when I am missing and have 20 pages to catch up on Sunday night, you know where I am xx

 

[moggi]

CAFFINE WITHDRAWAL!! I am sure thats why i get tired when pregnant. What the point of coffee without caffine?

without diet coke and coffee I'm going crazy!!!

switched to 7up to still get the fizzy goodness and blueberry & apple herbal tea for drinks at home and decaf from the machine at work. Lucky me though, the switch to decaf hasn't caused any suspicion as loads drink decaf at work as it tastes better!! xx

You ladies have been busy posting today - love getting home and having a book to read!

I am very paranoid about loosing my bean at the moment. Every time I go to the toilet I am checking my CM for blood spots like a mad woman!

I know worrying will not help me, but I cant help it. Keep worrying I am having an ectopic as well as I have the odd pain around the area I think my ovaries are - could be trapped wind or anything really but I just hope the eggy landed in the right spot. Jessica, was it you that said you had some strange symptoms when you had an ectopic? Can I ask what they were.

PRAYING WE ALL HAVE STICKY HEALTHY BEANS!!!! xx

Elanesse, yes, I did have strange symptoms...well, maybe not strange so much as just feeling strange. I know women tend to be really paranoid and crazy during the first few weeks, imagining they will lose the baby, but I just felt like I KNEW we would lose the baby. Any time we talked about names or any of that stuff, in the back of my mind I was thinking"this doesnt matter, seeing as we wont have this baby" (I should note that I am normally optimistic, I feel great about this baby) I also felt really out of it and dizzy all the time. Once my tube ruptured and I had surgery, I was in the minority of women who have to go back for a second surgery b/c some tissue was still left behind that was growing. Even during the two weeks in between surgeries before anyone knew what was going on, I still felt weird and out of it. I think everyone thought I was crazy until my HCG levels started going up again and they did an u/s and couldnt tell what was going on in me! it was a really crazy experience.

Sounds terrible, i'm really concerned now because i've feeling dizzy and out if it ever since i found out last week. I thought it was just shock or my age or something. Wish i could relax and just enjoy the experience.

I wanted to do a digi again to check i was now 3+ but didnt know if i was just starting to become completely paranoid. Wanted to buy one last night in asda but oh said why? You've already done one. He doesnt want to listen to my concerns, probably because he doesnt want to think of anything going wrong which is understandable but it still gets to me. I'm hoping its just the hormones making me feel this way.

On a lighter note was woken up by severe heartburn in the night, still got it now lol. Nice.

 

[gypsy1981]

CAFFINE WITHDRAWAL!! I am sure thats why i get tired when pregnant. What the point of coffee without caffine?

without diet coke and coffee I'm going crazy!!!

switched to 7up to still get the fizzy goodness and blueberry & apple herbal tea for drinks at home and decaf from the machine at work. Lucky me though, the switch to decaf hasn't caused any suspicion as loads drink decaf at work as it tastes better!! xx

You ladies have been busy posting today - love getting home and having a book to read!

I am very paranoid about loosing my bean at the moment. Every time I go to the toilet I am checking my CM for blood spots like a mad woman!

I know worrying will not help me, but I cant help it. Keep worrying I am having an ectopic as well as I have the odd pain around the area I think my ovaries are - could be trapped wind or anything really but I just hope the eggy landed in the right spot. Jessica, was it you that said you had some strange symptoms when you had an ectopic? Can I ask what they were.

PRAYING WE ALL HAVE STICKY HEALTHY BEANS!!!! xx

Elanesse, yes, I did have strange symptoms...well, maybe not strange so much as just feeling strange. I know women tend to be really paranoid and crazy during the first few weeks, imagining they will lose the baby, but I just felt like I KNEW we would lose the baby. Any time we talked about names or any of that stuff, in the back of my mind I was thinking"this doesnt matter, seeing as we wont have this baby" (I should note that I am normally optimistic, I feel great about this baby) I also felt really out of it and dizzy all the time. Once my tube ruptured and I had surgery, I was in the minority of women who have to go back for a second surgery b/c some tissue was still left behind that was growing. Even during the two weeks in between surgeries before anyone knew what was going on, I still felt weird and out of it. I think everyone thought I was crazy until my HCG levels started going up again and they did an u/s and couldnt tell what was going on in me! it was a really crazy experience.

Sounds terrible, i'm really concerned now because i've feeling dizzy and out if it ever since i found out last week. I thought it was just shock or my age or something. Wish i could relax and just enjoy the experience.

I wanted to do a digi again to check i was now 3+ but didnt know if i was just starting to become completely paranoid. Wanted to buy one last night in asda but oh said why? You've already done one. He doesnt want to listen to my concerns, probably because he doesnt want to think of anything going wrong which is understandable but it still gets to me. I'm hoping its just the hormones making me feel this way.

On a lighter note was woken up by severe heartburn in the night, still got it now lol. Nice.

I know what you mean, my hubby's the same! I can't help worrying and I can tell that I'm starting to annoy him with it as he thinks everything will be fine... then I get annoyed at him for not being more understanding! I don't think they'll ever really understand though as they don't have to live with it 24/7 and don't have to analyse every single twinge! You're right though, the hormones don't help either

 

[moggi]

Well i've got to do something and what he doesnt know won't hurt him. Going to get another cb digi, i know theyre expensive but i need to try and put my mind at ease. Although having said that, i've read somewhere else on here that the conception indicator can fluctuate. Grrrrr am i going mad? Lol. I should really just take a deep breath and relax shouldn't i?

 

[gypsy1981]

I think they can fluctuate yeah - I got a 3+ when I knew for a fact that I was only 2w2d past ovulation. They should be pretty accurate by the stage you're at now though, if it'll put your mind at rest then do it. I done one yesterday just to check my hormone levels weren't dropping and it was such a relief to see the 3+ again.

Men will never understand our need to keep peeing on sticks

 

[gypsy1981]

Ok so I have a personal question for you all which I hope you don't mind me asking. Has anyone had sex since they found out they were pregnant? I'm terrified to let my hubby near me as I've read that it can cause bleeding and I think I'd freak out if I saw any blood. Obviously I can't keep saying no forever though so was just wondering what other people's experiences were? Have any of you ever had blood after sex?

 

[moggi]

The last time i did one was monday and was still getting 2-3 which is what kind of put doubts in my mind so i'm really hoping to see 3+ now.

 

[moggi]

Ok so I have a personal question for you all which I hope you don't mind me asking. Has anyone had sex since they found out they were pregnant? I'm terrified to let my hubby near me as I've read that it can cause bleeding and I think I'd freak out if I saw any blood. Obviously I can't keep saying no forever though so was just wondering what other people's experiences were? Have any of you ever had blood after sex?

Yeah i have, several times lol. No blood though thankfully. When i got those false negatives at the start of last week I just wanted af to start so we could get on with a new cycle and try again. We didn't exactly do it gently either (sorry tmi lol) coz i thought it might encourage the witch to show. Felt so guilty when we realised our little bean had been there all the time! Since we found out its actually felt different for me, so much more intense than before. OH said it feels the same, but he is a bloke so there you go lol.

 

[dt1234565]

CAFFINE WITHDRAWAL!! I am sure thats why i get tired when pregnant. What the point of coffee without caffine?

without diet coke and coffee I'm going crazy!!!

switched to 7up to still get the fizzy goodness and blueberry & apple herbal tea for drinks at home and decaf from the machine at work. Lucky me though, the switch to decaf hasn't caused any suspicion as loads drink decaf at work as it tastes better!! xx

Top tip: caffine free diet coke

Eeewww! Lol! I just cant do diet soda of any kind. I have been drinking the heck out of some caffine free instant ice tea though. Not the same, but it will work.


I was bored so I made a group siggy! If anyone wants to use it you are more than welcome!!

i Love it! Shall see if it fits!!!

xx

 

[dt1234565]

Ok so I have a personal question for you all which I hope you don't mind me asking. Has anyone had sex since they found out they were pregnant? I'm terrified to let my hubby near me as I've read that it can cause bleeding and I think I'd freak out if I saw any blood. Obviously I can't keep saying no forever though so was just wondering what other people's experiences were? Have any of you ever had blood after sex?

No dont mind you asking at all!

My DH and I had sex the day I lost my bean in June. To be honest I dont think sex causes a miscarriage, i think that was just coincidence, but DH even said to me this morning lets leave it for a month!!! Bless him!!!

xx

 

[dt1234565]

NAMES!!!!

DH came up with a girls name last night!!! His never done that before, basically we came up with it together but heres how quickly we got a name

Me "I like Dulcie"
DH "Nah, but I like Darcie"
Me "I like Darcie too"
DH "Darcie Annabelle"
Me "Not to keen on Annabelle, but I like Belle"
DH "Darcie Belle, I love it"
Me "So do I!"

So for now, Darcie Belle for a girl. What do you think?

xxx

 

[minidancer]

Ok so I have a personal question for you all which I hope you don't mind me asking. Has anyone had sex since they found out they were pregnant? I'm terrified to let my hubby near me as I've read that it can cause bleeding and I think I'd freak out if I saw any blood. Obviously I can't keep saying no forever though so was just wondering what other people's experiences were? Have any of you ever had blood after sex?

We haven't had sex since getting our either, but that is more to do with the fact my hubby is working away from Monday to Friday and by the weekend I am absolutely shattered and usually asleep by 8 We were having sex up until about 25 weeks last time, we stopped coz hubby was getting freaked out by the fact I could feel baby moving. I did have some slight spotting after sex, but the bleeding after sex during pregnancy is usually due to a cervical erosion. I know I def have it as the nurse told me at my last smear. It is nothing to worry about and very common especially if you have ever been on the pill. It is cells that are usually inside the cervix growing on the outside and they are prone to bleed, this is even more likely when you are pregnant because of the increase in blood volume and flow.

 

[minidancer]

NAMES!!!!

DH came up with a girls name last night!!! His never done that before, basically we came up with it together but heres how quickly we got a name

Me "I like Dulcie"
DH "Nah, but I like Darcie"
Me "I like Darcie too"
DH "Darcie Annabelle"
Me "Not to keen on Annabelle, but I like Belle"
DH "Darcie Belle, I love it"
Me "So do I!"

So for now, Darcie Belle for a girl. What do you think?

xxx

Aw I love it!! That is such a sweet name and I am very impressed how quickly you came to it

 

[minidancer]

Let us know how you get on moggi. I am sure you will see a 3+

 

[moggi]

Let us know how you get on moggi. I am sure you will see a 3+

Thanks hun, i've worked myself up into such a state now. Tears and all, what is wrong with me. Somebody slap me lol xxx

 

[dt1234565]

POW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thats my slap! You will get your 3+

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