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[moggi]

Thanks suze, can't even get hold of midwife at the moment. Don't want to ring hospital as it seems a bit silly, its not exactly life and death lol. Marks just rung me to see how i am, how considerate said hes got no signal in the pub, can't believe it. The one time i need him more than ever and he's in the pub, jesus i thought my ex was bad xxx

 

[minidancer]

Maybe you should just try ringing the hospital for their advise, at least then you won't be sitting worrying. They would be able to give you the best advise. Typical, men just don't think sometimes do they?!!

 

[moggi]

Finally got hold of midwife, she was most unhelpful just told me to ring hospital as i probably do need anti d. Now hospital not answering, for gods sake lol, what a way to spend your day off! XxX

 

[minidancer]

What a nightmare! You would think the midwife would have been a bit more helpful than that! Hopefully the hospital are more helpful xxx

 

[moggi]

I know. Finally got through to hospital after phone ringing out for nearly five mins. They said i should be ok unless it starts again. Very abrupt on the phone, hope it doesnt come back coz i dont want to have to deal with them again to be honest xxx

 

[minidancer]

Some health professionals can be so rude!! Hope it doesn't start again I they were like that! Just take it easy today, maybe have a nice long soak in the bath to relax xx

 

[meganOUFC]

I had some spotting a few weeks ago and the doctor had me straight up the day assesment unit at the hospital. Quite frankly i am shocked the hospital have told you that!!!!! How long would it take them to check to make sure everything is ok. Not long at all!! Don't feel aqward calling them again if you are worried!

 

[moggi]

I'm surprised they didn't want to check me but shes wriggling about so she must be ok. I've gone to bed, had enough of all these aches and pains and feel like i might be coming down with something. XxX

 

[minidancer]

Yes good, you chill out and take it easy! Get mark to bring you home a takeaway for dinner xx

 

[moggi]

Lol not a bad idea although i really don't feel like anything, must be coming did witn something, its not like me at all xxx

 

[minidancer]

Hope it's nothing yucky you are coming down with, you might wake up tomorrow feeling fine after a good rest

 

[dt1234565]

I'm sorry you've gone through that Rose, if it was me I'd just take myself up the hospital. I can understand a wait and see approach early on, but your third tri now, FFS.

If you ring the midwife again will you feel that's ok for you personally? If you feel ok with that, then do that, if your nnot ok with that then do what you thinks best.

You know yourself what's right for you, go with whatever your instinct feels is right xxx

 

[moggi]

Does anyone know if you can change thd hospital you're booked in at and if so how do you do it? I think my hospitals problem is that its too big and up its own arse. Still pissed off that the snotty bitch put the phone down on me before i'd finished and seemed to completely misunderstand my reason for calling. Shame i never got her name xxx

 

[moggi]

Sorry Deb i didn't see your post. I'm not happy at all, my point for ringing was to see if i needed anti d. She basically implied that i was overreacting as it wasn't enough to soak through a pad. Bloody hell if it was that bad i'd have been straight up there! I did say spotting and at the end of the day it was the midwife who said ring them coz you probably will need the injection. Put me right off contacting them again, i know half of its hormones but been crying most of afternoon. I don't care about myself but don't endanger my baby xxx

 

[BrandysBabies]

If you are spotting I would personally just go in. Don't take any chances. Screw the rudeness, the only thing that matters is yours and your baby's health.

 

[minidancer]

I have no idea how you would go about changing. I don't blame you for wanting to change if that's how they treat people! Could you maybe try phoning your own midwife again and explain what has happened and that you are upset and worrying. It's not good to be worrying and getting stressed and it's no fair on you to have been brushed off like that. I agree with the others too, if you are still worried and cramping just get yourself to the hospital they can't refuse to see you.

I had spotting in my last pregnancy but at about 35 weeks. The midwife came straight out to see me, even tho she thought I was 37 weeks and it was my show. When she realised I was only 35 weeks she told me if I just didn't feel right, waters broke or started cramping to phone them straight away so they could check me over. I felt stupid ringing them up but was glad I did as I was worrying about it and it let me relax knowing they knew and they had given me advise xxx

 

[dt1234565]

You can change hospitals through your midwife I believe, just mention it at your next appt.

And yes call your midwife and tell them the hospital put the phone down before you got a chance to explain your reasons for calling, or call hospital again, they would of changed shifts now so that person would of gone home

X

 

[moggi]

Went to the out of hours gp. He didn't understand why the hospital didn't see me either. Took my blood pressure, dipped my urine said i was very tender around the womb area and should get checked out by the hospital if it doesn't ease off as he didn't know what was wrong. Bloody stupid isn't it? I would go tonight but i'm so tired i'll see how it is by the morning XxX

 

[minidancer]

If anything changes get yourself to the hospital to be checked out. Maybe go tomorrow anyway even if you are feeling better, just for them to check you over, it will at least put your mind at ease. Thinking about you huni, take care

 

[moggi]

Thanks ladies i'll let you know how things go. Its clearly nothing serious but not normal either. At least i know my blood pressure is ok and i dont have a urine infection xxx