Croc-O-Dile
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I live at home still and my 10 year old brother has Asperger's. We were told OCD is very common in people with Asperger's, but it's getting really bad lately. The problem I'm having is my daughter is starting to pick up on his "quirks" (He's very sensitive about what we call them, he says "they're quirks, and everybody has quirks." So I'm not trying to be rude, that's just what he calls them)
He washes his hands constantly. He thinks everything has germs and will refuse to touch something if he thinks it's contaminated. He wipes down everything, even his xbox controllers. And he get really upset if you wreck his creations. (By wreck, I mean if he's left legos in the same spot for days, and you finally pick them up, you better be damn sure you didn't take anything apart, not even one lego.)
My daughter loves to play with the boys, but I've noticed she's copying him now. Like she asks to wash her hands all the time now, or if she finds water (even toilet water ) she'll wash her hands in it. Everything is "Ew, dirty, yuck" and she'll bring me the xbox controller before she plays and ask me to clean it. (Okay, she doesn't actually play xbox, but they have a wireless controller that doesn't work so they let her have it. She'll stand in front of the tv and "play" whatever is on )
There's a lot of things she's doing lately (more than what I listed) that I know she's picking up from him.
Is this a normal part of child behavior or is this something I should worry about? I mean obviously you can't catch Asperger's or anything, so that's not what I mean. It's more of the OCD she's picking up on that's bothering me. Both myself and her father have OCD. I have it really bad in the form of sounds and numbers, but he has it kind of like my brother. Since she's got it from both sides, is it something she could develop? And is normal copy-cat behavior going to bring it out?
Sorry if I sound a bit daft, but it's kind of hard to explain.
He washes his hands constantly. He thinks everything has germs and will refuse to touch something if he thinks it's contaminated. He wipes down everything, even his xbox controllers. And he get really upset if you wreck his creations. (By wreck, I mean if he's left legos in the same spot for days, and you finally pick them up, you better be damn sure you didn't take anything apart, not even one lego.)
My daughter loves to play with the boys, but I've noticed she's copying him now. Like she asks to wash her hands all the time now, or if she finds water (even toilet water ) she'll wash her hands in it. Everything is "Ew, dirty, yuck" and she'll bring me the xbox controller before she plays and ask me to clean it. (Okay, she doesn't actually play xbox, but they have a wireless controller that doesn't work so they let her have it. She'll stand in front of the tv and "play" whatever is on )
There's a lot of things she's doing lately (more than what I listed) that I know she's picking up from him.
Is this a normal part of child behavior or is this something I should worry about? I mean obviously you can't catch Asperger's or anything, so that's not what I mean. It's more of the OCD she's picking up on that's bothering me. Both myself and her father have OCD. I have it really bad in the form of sounds and numbers, but he has it kind of like my brother. Since she's got it from both sides, is it something she could develop? And is normal copy-cat behavior going to bring it out?
Sorry if I sound a bit daft, but it's kind of hard to explain.