faithjoylove1
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I'm starting to feel alone about my feelings of anger and resentment towards my pregnant friends. One friend I have is trying to reach out to me but it's gotten to the point that it makes me upset. She is very far along in her pregnancy and wants to be there for me and keeps trying to talk about my miscarriage or hang out but I keep saying no thank you. I feel she has no way of offering empathy because she is having a normal and healthy pregnancy. I feel bad for feeling angry but of all people, I do not want her help and let alone do I I feel ready to share in her joy. I care for all my friends but I'm still in grief and pain. I cannot be happy for someone when I'm hurt and broken. Has anyone else had a similar struggle and if so could you share your struggle of feeling anger and resentment or jealousy and how you were able to finally heal and recover? I have never been an angry or jealous person but most pregnant women trigger me into reminders of trauma and bleeding in the emergency room. I think the hardest part is feeling so vulnerable and so alone. Most women will never open up and those who have not miscarried have such a hard time offering any comfort whatsoever. They say all the wrong things in all honesty. I just wish my friend could understand that her butting into my personal life is not helping me; it's hurting me, I just want to be able to be tactful and still let her know it's not that I don't care, I'm just not myself yet. Seeing her pregnant is wonderful for her but not for me. Any similar situations would help me feel more normal. Thanks ladies in advance I'm hoping this too will pass.