***December Dreamers*** 70 babies born***

[cho]

ahh bless him, yer were going to go in sept i think or around then x

 

[Kerrieann]

At least u could probly do like a day pass couldnt you? I did find 4 days was abit much, but loved the shows in the evenings and being able to take jake with us! Saw the george sampson one last night, that was brill!!

 

[cho]

ahh we went to minehead for 5 night paid 100 quid for all 3 of us and all food inc, but we came back on 3rd night lol, ds was a bit young.
Were just going to go to the bogner one for 2 or 3 nights this time x

 

[ducky1502]

Awww ness I'm sorry you had such a rough weekend, not good! We ALL moan about pregnancy, I moan a million times a day, but I also say a million nice things too! But when you feel sick or are in pain etc the last thing on your mind is the fact that other women would love to be in ur shoes.... well it is mine anyway!

Last night when I wiped I had some serious jelly like cm... not snotty or anything, like proper jelly! It was really weird... I'm assuming it's nothing to worry about, wasn't green or anything but it was a bit of a shock

I'm actually feeling pretty damn good today almost like how I used to feel before I got pregnant. It's so nice to feel like this.

 

[Kerrieann]

Ducky ive had that a few times, was worried at first but read its normal, its just a bit random though lol!!

Thats well cheap Charlotte, we paid £300 for the 3 of us inc food for 4 days

 

[Kerrieann]

Think we are going to go to the minehead or skegness one next. But have booked a hol abroad for next may to gran canaria, love it there but havnt been for 4 years and will be taking jake and bubs!!

 

[Nessicle]

ahh ness, how horrible.
We all moan, i was saying on here about how all we do is have a good moan, thats what this site is for and tbh thats what familys are suppose to be there for!
Dont pay attention, sounds perhap0s like they dont like you having all the attention, whay are they reading your fb if there that bothered!!!

I keep geeting a horrible pain in my right side were my ovary is, pretty agonising, going to see how it goes if not will ahve to take a trip to docs x

I think that's what was most gutting is that it's my sisters gossiping about me behind my back. I deleted my sister who started it because then she doesnt have to see my fb page!

do you think the pain is round ligament?x

 

[Nessicle]

Awww ness I'm sorry you had such a rough weekend, not good! We ALL moan about pregnancy, I moan a million times a day, but I also say a million nice things too! But when you feel sick or are in pain etc the last thing on your mind is the fact that other women would love to be in ur shoes.... well it is mine anyway!

Last night when I wiped I had some serious jelly like cm... not snotty or anything, like proper jelly! It was really weird... I'm assuming it's nothing to worry about, wasn't green or anything but it was a bit of a shock

I'm actually feeling pretty damn good today almost like how I used to feel before I got pregnant. It's so nice to feel like this.

thanks ducky - I know I said that to her, we're not moaning about the baby we're moaning cos we're fed up of feeling sick I said after 2 months of feeling sick everyday it does start to become a struggle plus I have a major fear of being sick because of what happens to me which they're aware of so should be a bit more understanding! But I agree we all say loads of positive things too like how excited we are to see our bubs on the scans and hear the heartbeat and stuff!

I've had some jelly like CM too on the toilet tissue when I wiped it freaked me out a bit too ha ha.

Glad you're feeling good chick!x

 

[ducky1502]

Some people can be so insensitive. It's amazing what peope think they have the right to say. Especially those who have never been pregnant! Having a friend tell me they don't know how I've 'filled my days' when I have been off work with severe morning sickness because she would be SO bored! Well when you feel so ill you're not too bothered about 'filling' your day! Grrrrr lol.

 

[ducky1502]

Kerrieann your gender scan must be soon.....?!?!?!

 

[Nessicle]

Some people can be so insensitive. It's amazing what peope think they have the right to say. Especially those who have never been pregnant! Having a friend tell me they don't know how I've 'filled my days' when I have been off work with severe morning sickness because she would be SO bored! Well when you feel so ill you're not too bothered about 'filling' your day! Grrrrr lol.

Exactly! Why are people sooo desperate to make their opinions known at times that are hard enough for us as it is (i.e. struggling with morning sickness in general or worse, like you being hospitalised!).

I think my sisters feel that because we're related they can say anything they want but in actual fact it hurts more coming from people who are supposed to love you no matter what rather than a passing comment from a mate or something that you're not particularly bothered about - it does sting but you can brush it off and think whatever!

 

[KellyC75]

Hiya girls!! Im back from hols in bognor regis lol, had a great weekend and Jake loved it!! Will catch up on all the posts now,im thinking it may take me a while! Hope ur all well

Welcome back, so glad you had a good time....

The countdown is on until your gender scan... I have mine in 2 weeks!

 

[Nessicle]

OH wont let me get a gender scan he said it's a waste of money! He's agreed if they can't see the sed at the 20 week scan then we can have a private gender scan

 

[ducky1502]

I've learnt to just grit my teeth and smile politely at everyone now. Just because everyone has opinions doesn't mean I have to pay any notice to it. What matters is that you and your OH are happy.

I've learnt that some people are happy to talk pregnancy and babies with you and others just want to hear the essentials. Just spend more time with those who want to share your excitement and even the crappy bits that come with it all

 

[Nessicle]

you're totally right ducky! - I said to my mum that I won't share any of my pregnancy info with them at all now. Even after the 20 week scan I will put it on facebook but I won't go out of my way to text them a picture! They're the ones missing out now so sod them!

x

 

[ducky1502]

you're totally right ducky! - I said to my mum that I won't share any of my pregnancy info with them at all now. Even after the 20 week scan I will put it on facebook but I won't go out of my way to text them a picture! They're the ones missing out now so sod them!

x

Good for you! Plus, when you have a bump and the baby is moving you will probably find they're far more interested!

 

[lozzy21]

Well that was the biggest waste of my time ever. Not only that what a waste of resources!!!! No wonder the nhs is is crisis.

 

[ducky1502]

and when I say bump I mean a big bump

 

[ducky1502]

Well that was the biggest waste of my time ever. Not only that what a waste of resources!!!! No wonder the nhs is is crisis.

Was your consultant appt like mine? A total waste of time and they just tell you to come back towards the end of the pregnancy? Like 30wks or so? That's what mine did. Sat me down and told me they were going to be sharing my care with my midwife (duh!) she poked my stomach, told me it felt fine and off I went and booked an appt for october!!

 

[KellyC75]

Im also using my private gender scan as a chance for my 2 Sons to come & bond with their new Brother or Sister...

As they arent allowed at the hospital scans....