Im home and gutted. To start with it was a male mw!!!! He practically butchered me. But he said he couldnt reach my cervix at all and baby wont b making an appearance anytime soon. He pulled oyt a huge amount of bloody show. I was in tears it hurt so much n i didnt even have a sweep!! Booked for another next fri but dont think i want it.
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thing is not really ordered anything christmassy on it bar a few bottles of wine, we get the turkey from the local butchers and DH has already got the rest of the xmas booze!!! i really don't know what i've ordered and why its soo much, think i might have to have a check through it before i actually put the order through!!! sure theres prob some more bits that DH'll want to add to it!!
Aww hun so sorry u had such a rubbish mw appointment
I feel so deflated. Its funny how i can reach my cervix but he cant... He even said he had a much better reach than most midwives. Just read my notes.... Posterior cervix, unable to reach. Im about as flat as a pancake now lol.
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ahh zoe sorry that wasnt a nice experience, im not sure if i would have had a male to start with, they dont know how things are for us down there.
Not saying they cant do there jobn but its impossible for them to ever know how it fills to be "butchered" down there.
Regarding him saying you wont be having baby anytime soon, its a load of shit!!
I know many told the sme, even my mw was the 1st to say that too, she also said about her with a baby being engaged she said she has felt may womens pelvis and thought baby is only 1/5 engaged and then do an in ternal and can feel the head so it doesnt mean much.
Dont feel dissapointed hun, baby will be with you sooner than you think, i feel like that too and i did when she wouldnt sweep me wednesday but remember that it will happen and look how long we have waited soo far
i know how you feel but try not to let it get you down x
Not saying they cant do there jobn but its impossible for them to ever know how it fills to be "butchered" down there.
Regarding him saying you wont be having baby anytime soon, its a load of shit!!
I know many told the sme, even my mw was the 1st to say that too, she also said about her with a baby being engaged she said she has felt may womens pelvis and thought baby is only 1/5 engaged and then do an in ternal and can feel the head so it doesnt mean much.
Dont feel dissapointed hun, baby will be with you sooner than you think, i feel like that too and i did when she wouldnt sweep me wednesday but remember that it will happen and look how long we have waited soo far
i know how you feel but try not to let it get you down x
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yeah good point! lol Charlotte maybe she isbless her, these babies must be so fed up in there too crammed in like sardines!
What on earth was God thinking when he designed pregnancy to last 40/42 weeks....?!
Hi Sazhuddy! hope your sweep works! My mw said my NHS wont induce until 14 days overdue how shitty is that?! its stupid how some NHS works in different ways!
hi i had a sweep with my son and he was born the day after so fx this will be the same as i am not looking forward to being induced. they will not leave me longer than 41 weeks as my son was 10lb 1oz when he was born so they told me they do not want to leave me with this one. it is really crap that all these different hospitals have such different policies with being induced. it was like the midwife yesterday said she was happy to give me a sweep but the consultant said no. roll on tuesday lol.x
wowzers little chunk hey?! you dont want to have to have a big baby again definitely I hope the sweep works for you
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I'm so sorry everyone, i'm so crap on here. I struggle to keep up in here anymore, there's always something going on so i have to run away then by the time i get back i have no idea whats going on so end up not saying anything!!
I hope you're all ok xxxxxxxxx
Babies are so sweet, keeping me so busy right now! I've just put up some pics in 3rd tri but those of you on my fb have seen them already!
I am having such a problem with breastfeeding, well not the feeding, the amount im producing!! I could feed my whole road with it! Its leaking out to the point of soaking through several pads, towels etc and its really getting me down as any sleep i am trying to catch im not getting due to my boobs leaking through everything (you can read my whole problem in the Breastfeeding forum, i am so in need of help i cant tell you) xxxxxxxxx
Aw sorry you're having a rotten time breastfeeding honey
I bet its so frustrating producing so much! The GP clinics run breastfeeding groups can yoiu get to one of those? You might be able to get some good advice? I hope it settles for you honey. Twins are so gorgeous loving the piccie today of them in their snowsuits he he! xxx
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ouch!!! aw hun like Charlotte says dont listen to him - I had a friend who's cervix was 'unfavourable' for a sweep and her waters went the next day so anything can happen
dont feel too deflated, hope you're not too sore, maybe get a nice soothing bath xx
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Hey so we are upto 32 babies now aint we?
Mizzie- my hands have been feeling abit tight latly but havnt noticed my feet being swollen or anything, im going to mention my hands to MW on wednesday as everytime i go and see her she always asks anyway.
Im in the mood for some cheese on toast so just waiting for OH to come back from walking the dogs and he can make me some lol
we have almost finished the living room in the house justthe main wall to paint which i got the name wrong its ruby scarlet not scarlet ruby lol And then we can get the sofa and chair in, got the fridge\freezer the other day so just a washer to get now.
Iv woken up this morning feeling refreshed a wonder how long it will last?
Mizzie- my hands have been feeling abit tight latly but havnt noticed my feet being swollen or anything, im going to mention my hands to MW on wednesday as everytime i go and see her she always asks anyway.
Im in the mood for some cheese on toast so just waiting for OH to come back from walking the dogs and he can make me some lol
we have almost finished the living room in the house justthe main wall to paint which i got the name wrong its ruby scarlet not scarlet ruby lol And then we can get the sofa and chair in, got the fridge\freezer the other day so just a washer to get now.
Iv woken up this morning feeling refreshed a wonder how long it will last?
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Aw ducky, men can be so rough anyway, did it not feel odd it being a male?
It didnt really bother me it was a he tbh. A female mw was there and so was my OH who held my hand lol. Well funnily enough i tried to reach and can reach my cervix and personally think im about 1cm but it is very high. I wasnt expecting anyone to say he was going to come now but telling an overtired pregnant person it 'wont b anytime soon' was such a blow! Feeling a bit better now.
