Lala, are you not entitled to early scans on NHS because of your history? are you not under the care of a miscarriage clinic etc?
It amazes me how people get different treatment. I know Im very lucky as Im back under the care of EPAS at my maternity hospital. As soon as I found out I was pregnant at 4 weeks I phoned them up and they put me on the same treatment as last time..clexane, progesterone and low dose aspirin. They have given me a scan at 6 weeks, 8 weeks and 10 weeks so far. they also have me booked in for another next week at 11+5 and then my dating scan the following week. I didn't even have to ask for any of them.
I just think that it is so wrong that your having to pay privately for an early reassurance scan. I know its not that much money but I think you should be automatically entitled to an early scan.
Sorry, Im not having a rant at you, just the system. I can see from your history that you've had 4 losses unfortunately so you should be entitled to what Im getting. I have had two losses in comparison. Just when I see that your also in Scotland.
I cant speak highly enough of my hospital staff and care.
Anyway, it is exciting for you to go for that scan. That's also the problem that I have with getting someone to look after Emelia, Im having to tell so many white lies to grandparents as they don't yet know Im pregnant either.