thanks hun, he has snapped out of it and has apologised for his childish behaviour this morning its made things a bit better but he knows if he doesnt shape up properly then next time i might jst pack up the kids and go to a friends place for a few days
well it seems there is more to DH's disinterest than i thought, things are rocky between us, apparently im the one with all the problems that need to be sorted out before he will accept any fault on his part (hes the one who started giving the silent treatment with no warning)