My scan was a total waste of time. Nurse told me it was too early to see anything before I even got on the table. So why book me in!! She spent literally 5 mins looking, got a few basic measurements but the rest she didnt even bother with. She was just so uninterested. Legs were crossed too and ofc with only 5 mins no time to see if they would move.
had consultant appt afterwards who had a massive childish sulk because I wouldnt do what she wanted. informed consent my arse. i asked her a load of questions which she wouldnt answer - told me that they never ever did placental monitoring so she has no idea how or where they would do it (absolute nonsense). also said that home bp machines arent calibrated for pregnant women, which sounds like bullshit to me, its not like pregnant bp is somehow special, its just pressure.
booked a private scan for saturday as theyre redoing the anomaly scan next tues but ill be too stressed worrying about them not bothering to look at the gender to focus on the important part which is the health. DH has told me he forbids me to book it, bless, Ill tell him later. He just doesnt want to pay. Ive paid so problem solved. If he has a real objection to it Ill go by myself and he can wait to see if they can be arsed to look at the next NHS one.
they also cancelled my heart scan on friday after we pointed out that if they couldnt see today they wont be able to see on friday, i dont think it should take us to point this out to a consultant... so that needs to be rebooked too and more days off. Being self employed has its benefits but time off for stuff like this is not one of them :/
oopps lol will have to fit that in tomorrow as its getting way to long out there
Very much looking forward to meeting Tanwen come December! 
