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Thank you for your concern ladies unfortunately it didn't go to plan yesterday, went for scan at a private scanning clinic and was a external scan, she struggled to find anything then she found a gestation sac and fetal pole but couldn't see a heart beat, she adviced I get a internal scan done, she did say because I'm quite large ( she did put is nicely) that my fat may be obstructing view, but I think I know it's over sac and pole measured 7.5 weeks so I think maybe it died last week, ironically I have first midwife appointment tomorrow so hopefully will have a scan to tell me either way, I'm totally gutted and feel really numb I'm hoping I'm wrong but I have a feeling it's not going to be good news
 
Jellybe said:
Thank you for your concern ladies unfortunately it didn't go to plan yesterday, went for scan at a private scanning clinic and was a external scan, she struggled to find anything then she found a gestation sac and fetal pole but couldn't see a heart beat, she adviced I get a internal scan done, she did say because I'm quite large ( she did put is nicely) that my fat may be obstructing view, but I think I know it's over sac and pole measured 7.5 weeks so I think maybe it died last week, ironically I have first midwife appointment tomorrow so hopefully will have a scan to tell me either way, I'm totally gutted and feel really numb I'm hoping I'm wrong but I have a feeling it's not going to be good news
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I am so sorry. I really hope they can see more with the internal scan and that they detect a HB and baby measures right...sometimes abdominal scans aren't best this early on. Holding out hope for you that it will be OK when you get your internal done <3 big, big hugs <3
 
Jellybe said:
Thank you for your concern ladies unfortunately it didn't go to plan yesterday, went for scan at a private scanning clinic and was a external scan, she struggled to find anything then she found a gestation sac and fetal pole but couldn't see a heart beat, she adviced I get a internal scan done, she did say because I'm quite large ( she did put is nicely) that my fat may be obstructing view, but I think I know it's over sac and pole measured 7.5 weeks so I think maybe it died last week, ironically I have first midwife appointment tomorrow so hopefully will have a scan to tell me either way, I'm totally gutted and feel really numb I'm hoping I'm wrong but I have a feeling it's not going to be good news
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I'm frustrated that they wouldn't give you a t/v ultrasound! I've read lots of stories about women getting bad news when they were given abdominal u/s too early and everything was really okay. Also, are you positive on your ovulation date?

I really hope the midwife can clear up everything tomorrow. I've got my FX for you, hun. :hugs:
 
MrsRose168 said:
Jellybe said:
Thank you for your concern ladies unfortunately it didn't go to plan yesterday, went for scan at a private scanning clinic and was a external scan, she struggled to find anything then she found a gestation sac and fetal pole but couldn't see a heart beat, she adviced I get a internal scan done, she did say because I'm quite large ( she did put is nicely) that my fat may be obstructing view, but I think I know it's over sac and pole measured 7.5 weeks so I think maybe it died last week, ironically I have first midwife appointment tomorrow so hopefully will have a scan to tell me either way, I'm totally gutted and feel really numb I'm hoping I'm wrong but I have a feeling it's not going to be good news
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I'm frustrated that they wouldn't give you a t/v ultrasound! I've read lots of stories about women getting bad news when they were given abdominal u/s too early and everything was really okay. Also, are you positive on your ovulation date?

I really hope the midwife can clear up everything tomorrow. I've got my FX for you, hun. :hugs:
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Thank you yes I had ivf so I'm pretty sure on the dates
 
I'm so sorry Jelly, hoping for a miracle for you :hugs:
 
Jellybe said:
Thank you for your concern ladies unfortunately it didn't go to plan yesterday, went for scan at a private scanning clinic and was a external scan, she struggled to find anything then she found a gestation sac and fetal pole but couldn't see a heart beat, she adviced I get a internal scan done, she did say because I'm quite large ( she did put is nicely) that my fat may be obstructing view, but I think I know it's over sac and pole measured 7.5 weeks so I think maybe it died last week, ironically I have first midwife appointment tomorrow so hopefully will have a scan to tell me either way, I'm totally gutted and feel really numb I'm hoping I'm wrong but I have a feeling it's not going to be good news
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FX for your midwife appointment. Hopefully all will be well with an internal scan x
 
Sorry that you didn't get great news at your scan. I'm hoping that things really turn around tomorrow. My prayers are with you.
 
Jellybe said:
Thank you for your concern ladies unfortunately it didn't go to plan yesterday, went for scan at a private scanning clinic and was a external scan, she struggled to find anything then she found a gestation sac and fetal pole but couldn't see a heart beat, she adviced I get a internal scan done, she did say because I'm quite large ( she did put is nicely) that my fat may be obstructing view, but I think I know it's over sac and pole measured 7.5 weeks so I think maybe it died last week, ironically I have first midwife appointment tomorrow so hopefully will have a scan to tell me either way, I'm totally gutted and feel really numb I'm hoping I'm wrong but I have a feeling it's not going to be good news
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I'm sorry you're going through this. That sounds really stressful. It genuinely might just be too early for an external scan though so don't lose hope just yet. I really hope the appointment goes ok tomorrow x
 
Given official due date today. Please bump me down to December 8th! Thanks!
 
Oh jellybe I pray you get good news tomorrow. Thinking of you xx
 
Jellybe - so sorry you got worrisome news. I agree that 7.5 weeks is a little early for an abdominal scan. Hopefully your midwife will be able to give you a proper scan and provide better news tomorrow.
 
Hey ladies, I'm in the same boat as many of you with absolutely no symptoms and it's starting to worry me. I had mild nausea between 4-5 weeks but nothing since. I didn't have many symptoms with my son either except for sore boobs, but I don't even have that this time. I'll be 7 weeks on Wednesday. My first scan is May 16th and it can't get here fast enough!

I hope you ladies who are also having bad feelings get some reassurance soon. The first tri is sooo stressful!
 
Jellybe, I really hope you get good news. :hugs:

Joy, first tri is so stressful, isn't it? Can't wait to be out of it.

AFM, I threw up this morning. :( Right before I had to go to work, I just knew it was gonna happen. This is the first time this pregnancy, and I didn't throw up at all with DD. What's funny is that this morning, I was thinking my nausea was shockingly mild...then it came back and bit me in the butt. Hard. And I'm out of nausea meds. I just left a message with the OB. Hoping for a prescription and more samples.
 
Oh no, Bubbles! I hope you feel better now. Sometimes it helps to just get it all out!
 
Jellybee, what as their reason for a abdominal ultrasound ? And why didn't the doc switch to vaginal after the findings? Good luck tomorrow
 
mom and ttc said:
Jellybee, what as their reason for a abdominal ultrasound ? And why didn't the doc switch to vaginal after the findings? Good luck tomorrow
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It was just at a ultrasound baby scanning place they don't do internals it was supposed to be for price of mind that everything was OK wish I hadn't if had it now x
 
I threw up so much today I had to come home from work. I hope the early hours of tomorrow I can slug through!
 
Jellybe said:
mom and ttc said:
Jellybee, what as their reason for a abdominal ultrasound ? And why didn't the doc switch to vaginal after the findings? Good luck tomorrow
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It was just at a ultrasound baby scanning place they don't do internals it was supposed to be for price of mind that everything was OK wish I hadn't if had it now x
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Thinking of you Hun keep us updated xx
 
counting said:
I threw up so much today I had to come home from work. I hope the early hours of tomorrow I can slug through!
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I'm off work today because I'm so dizzy and lightheaded. I keep falling over when I try to move. :sick:
 
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