Depressed Need Advice

[peanutsmommy]

I Am Currently 19 Weeks Pregnant From The Begining Of The Pregnancy Things Have Been Horrible. I Found Out I Was Pregnant And It Was Ruled Out As An Ectopic Later To Find Out It Wasn't Which I Felt Was A Blessing. I Told My Fiance And He Told Me He Didnt Want It Which Killed Me. I Stayed And Tried To Work Things Out But Up Until I Was 12 Weeks I Had To Deal With Him Bluntly Saying "I Dont Want It". I Stayed Hoping He Would Change He Has Recently And Just Apologized About A Week Ago. Although He Apologized He Still Does Other Things That I Think Are Completley Inconsiderate. For Ex. He Goes Out Every Weekend And Drinks Until 2 Or 3 Am. I Told Him That I Would Like It If He Would Cut It Down And He Completly Ignores Me Like He Doesnt Care. He Has Dragged Me To The Point Where My Pregnancy Is Not Something I Haven't Enjoyed . I Love My child To Death But I Find Myself Regreting Getting Myself Into This Situation. And Wanting My Baby To Hurry Up And Come. Im Now At My Breaking Point Im Losing Sleep And Always Crying Me And My Family Arent That Close And Many Of My Friends Have Their Own Problems I Have No Idea Where To Turn.

 

[nikky0907]

He clearly isn't ready to be a dad, I'm sorry to say this to you but you need to set an ultimatum for him. And that is he either owns up to his responsibilities or it's bye,bye.
I know that it must be terrifying for you to think about single-motherhood but I can testify that it is sometimes less stressful to go down that route than stay in an emotionally exhausting relationship in whick you and your child are not treated in a way you want to be.

Some pregnancies are harder than others, physically and emotionally but you will soon have your baby that will become your world and the center of your attention and all those problems you thought were important will fade away, trust me.
xxx

 

[mz_jackie86]

Hey hun im in the exact same situation as u, because of the dad i havent enjoyed any of my pregnancy and have never had so much drama in all my life!
Until now that is, he said he dont wanna no so ive told him to jog on, you dont need him and he will prob tell u the opposite but you dont!
You need to tell him straight to either sort it out or do one cos you dont want someone that inconsiderate around your baby!
Maybe by givin him that ultimatum he will fix up!!!

Xxx